Here's a quick rundown. I was a fat socially awkward kid with ADD and Tourettes, wore glasses and loved Star Wars. Perfect recipe for fuck with him soup. Now for the details.
In Elementary school the kids would call me names like fatty, idiot, f****t, fat so, gay, stupid, etc. They would group up and kick my ass at recess, and when the teachers broke it up and sent us to the principal, they would all lie and say that I was the main aggressor and since there were more of them than me and the low IQ principal used a democratic system, I always got in trouble and the staff thought I was a bad kid. It wasn't just the kids at school, it was also the kids in my neighborhood. They did the same thing, call me names, group up and beat me with sticks and toys, their parents joined in on the name calling. They would kick me out of having fun with them but always invite my nephew. The reason I never told my mom was because of fear that it'll just get worse because I would be snitching, and I would lie about the bruises. When I started middle school I was going to a new school where nobody knew me. Since my old school was the only world I knew, starting fresh into this new school I thought it was bully or get bullied, so I became a bully. Within the first couple of months I slammed a kid into the bleachers at gym class and got detention. For 2 years I called people names and sometimes even hit and pushed them. I did it because I was scared and insecure with myself. After realizing that there were no bullies in this small town school and I was the only cunt, I became really quiet and withdrawn. By the end of 8th grade I started coming out of my shell more by joining track & feild. In high school I talked to the people who I bullied and told them about my past and why I wad a bully, and we all became friends, 2 of them being my best friends throughout high school.
I can tell you from personal experience that being a bully feel just as bad a being bullied.
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I was bullied but never was a bully
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I was the Protector. It was well known don't mess with anyone around me otherwise I was kicking your Ass. I never got in trouble for all the fights because everyone Respected me and said I was just Protecting the Vulnerable, even the Bullies buddies would speak up on my behalf. The ironic part I was being Abused the whole time I was Protecting Everyone else!!! I just remembered there was this girl in 6th grade who was trying to Bully me I just kept ignoring her, everyone kept warning her I'm one to mess with. So one day she decided it's fight day and I said have fighting I've got no beef with you , she gave me a light I just looked her everyone knew I really had no Intentions of fighting, so they all came between and said you're going to have to fight each of us before you get to her and the Triplets said we know she can kick our Asses at one time can you though? She said why are you defending this white bitch they said she's defended every single one of us at one time or another his is our chance to pay her back. She walked away, the next day she put her hand out and I'm sorry for how I treated all this time. A few days later she asked you have no fear fighting why weren't you going to fight back. I said need a reason to fight, she said girl someone hitting you is the Best Damn reason to fight... I looked her smiled and shook my head... She said you're fucking Crazy aren't you and I winked at her...
Lol. Funny and ironic thing I forgot to mention in the details was that my nephew was my biggest victim back in my bullying days. Now it's been years later, I'm doing MMA and he's a freshman in high school and I keep telling him "if anyone is giving you trouble, come to me and I'll make them eat dog shit off the ground." 😄
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