Do You Like High Maintenance Guys?

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blueRRmoon · Accepted Answer

Personally, it’s kind of a turn off. If a man takes care of his body physically/mentally from the inside out (ie via physical fitness/nutrition), and radiates strength and confidence, and everything else effortlessly just follows... turn on. But from the outside in: hair gel, tweezing eyebrows/excessive waxing and tanning, shiny Vaselined lips, flashy clothing and the fear of wrinkling his shirt, etc etc... turn off. I don't know... I just want to appreciate a man for being... well, just simply that... a man, in all of his primal glory. The testosterone should do all of the talking. I just tend to admire men that are everything that I’m not... someone who has the potential of creating a balanced “yin and yang” kind of partnership... a partnership that allows us to accentuate our strengths and grow with each other in our differences. Call me old fashioned... but I’ve never been the girl to pick “Prince Charming” over a scruffy warrior that isn’t afraid of getting his hands dirty ;)

arabgoddess · Accepted Answer

Oh they're such a turn off for me

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I get very turned off by high maintenance. My girlfriend is the lowest maintenance, most considerate girl I've EVER met in my life and I appreciate her more than she'll ever know.

scooogy · Accepted Answer

Does that imply retarded grinning?

Apple1996 · Answer

Hell no. I'm low mantience af so I would not get along with a guy like that

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

No, they're normally douche bags. A guy came into my work for his first date and he looked high maintenance. He actually looked like Channing Tatum, and he was a douche bag. He made the poor girl uncomfortable enough that the server and her came up with a code word to get her out of there. He was tall, he had both his legs on the opposite side of the booth blocking her in with his dirty feet. I feel so bad for her.
Wanting to look good isn't a bad thing, but don't be a douche. It's really unattractive.

21browngirl · Answer

Not really.. I am kind of weird.. Like i do like groomed guys.. infact prefer a well groomed one.. but its a big turn off.. if his bathroom has.. multiple tubes and bottles.. and goes to salon more then me.. hehe.. Sorry, I am not judging.. anyone this is just my personal preference.

R_ūshī · Answer

NO. Simply cause I'm not high maintenance and I don't understand the need to be like that.

I like guys who take care of themselves though... like basic care for example regular work outs, no over-eating, no hard drugs, not too much alcohol consumption, shaves when he needs to etc...

SimpleRhubarb · Answer

If by high-maintenance you mean a man who wants expensive things and isn't satisfied without them, then, no, I do not like that.
If by high-maintenance you mean a man who takes exquisite care of his hygiene and health, then I prefer a high-maintenance man!

Mickey9999 · Answer

I don’t really believe in high maintenance. You buy and expect what you can afford. I used to be more frugal especially when I had kids in the house but I’ve learned to buy QUALITY over cost. Am I high maintenance? I don’t think so because I maintain it alone.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I don't like High Maintenance Girls. I just spent $7.00 on pair of
two shorts which cost me $14.00 . So i am no way High Maintenance
i could never afford shorts that cost $25.00 + , just too steep for my pocket
besides the new shorts can even be worn with a classy short sleeve shirt
maybe now that would cost me like $13.00 but that's the most.

sensogal · Answer

Might as well be a lesbian if high maintenance was a turn on 😂. For me, guys= easy going, uncomplicated

AmandaYVR · Answer

High maintenance is never really a good thing (for either sex). But... I do like complex people. A lot. I'll take complicated, and even challenging, any day over simplistic.

serious · Answer

Well along with being high maintenance if the guy is also highly disciplined and principled then I don't see why a woman won't like such a guy.

Poppymarie · Answer

No. I like guys who have good hygiene but I do not like “high maintenance” guys, just as most guys don’t like high maintenance women.

Darcia · Answer

High maintenance in regards to what? I like a man to keep his appearance up. I like for a guy to smell good and dress nice. High maintenance I’m not sure what the limit is

Duckysback · Answer

Not even a little bit. Shit, I don’t even like high maintenance girls.

TheFirstMan · Answer

Hahaha... Do u like celebrity? That's high maintenance too

I buy cheap clothes, not buying something fancy or any accessories. I buy what I needed the most only.

What u think?
Im curious with your answer 🤔

fonduegirl · Answer

I surprisingly like that in guys. I guess the fact I'm low maintenance makes me kinda attracted to the opposite.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I like guys that dress well and take care of themselves but I associate high maintenance with being a drama queen and that turns me off.

devilish-cutie · Answer

High Maintenance - no, cause im not like that either good hygiene? yes, of course

Sweetnessxoxo · Answer

Usually no but if he’s a really nice guy then maybe

AlongCameCindy · Answer

Nope, not my type at all, i like down to earth guys, don't want a guy who cares more about his appearance than me.

babz21 · Answer

Not really because I don't have that kind of financial

JaymeJenny · Answer

Not really, I like the guy to take care of him, but not too much !

codydanielphillips · Answer

Being a man whome is not high maintenance I gotta say I'm not looking for men

HoratioCaine · Answer

probably since I keep casual dating them

Gena-2005 · Answer

What is that try dating a football player lol

LovelyFlower · Answer

Depends on how worth it he is.

nomazi · Answer

God no, unless I were high maintenance also

TPtreasures · Answer

Not really, i just go with the flow

miley19 · Answer

Yeah.. It means they have self respect

KrakenAttackin · Answer

High maintenance males are not men.

Silence00 · Answer

Depends on his limitations.

COMMODOREII · Answer

No way cookie. Lol

Laozi · Answer

Nope.

Lila29 · Answer

Nope

Kinogo · Answer

ehh ok.

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Not really

Fay320 · Answer

Definitely not.

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