Are you a high maintenance girl? Guys do you know any high maintenance girls?

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Ok, you know what I am talking about, don't pretend to be clueless! ... lol Do you have needs that  'must'  be met? Do you live, or want to live, a lifestyle with little, to no boundaries? Do you live that lifestyle now? ... or are you determined that you are going to be able to live it, either through a career, or by "connecting up" and getting into a relationship that will get you there? How high is your maintenance level on a 1-10? Don't lie. I want the truth... I mean the whole truth... the "REAL TRUTH"!

TarrAva · Accepted Answer

I am average to low maintenance as I am on a budget in terms of what I can afford on clothing/shoes and anything that makes a girl's heart beat faster.

I am high maintenance on another subject which is not the topic of this conversation. It feels as if I am permanently in need of lube and other fluids to make my engine run smooth and me purring like a cat or growl like a tigress.

But to come back to the question asked.

I am pretty much down to earth, knowing that it does not help me (or my sponsor) to bust my credit card. That is all the more I have to settle at a later date. However, if I was able to redeem the expenses in another way than cash, I might reconsider.

Is there such a possibility?

Now, that is for the current and upcoming years until I have my degree. I cannot (and will not) promise that once dough starting pouring it I will keep my lifestyle. Most certainly not. I will want to compensate for the years lost.

Come back in 6-7 years and ask again. My reply will be different. At least I hope so!

sageevalentine · Accepted Answer

I thing people understand the meaning of high maintenance. There are people who will never be satisfied with what they have, these people are jealous and selfish. And then there are those who just take care of themselves, take care of their skin, take care of their hair, have a sense of style, is that wrong? I think not.

Besides, economics determines people as agents with unlimited needs and wants, in a nutshell, we are all, high maintenance. Men that say they want a low maintenance girl are poorly informed. She might change her underwear once a week and have greasy hair full of split ends.

AthleticMom · Accepted Answer

Actually I fee; I am a "B" but lately everyone has comments supporting "A"

TO hubby -
you have quite a handful there
how DO you do it all?
she's the opposite of ordering the #1, then says no time to eat it since her order took too long to prepare
across town is the only place to get a treat on the way home?
if you are going to order more stuff, you must clear out spaces to put it all
she's a Hoarder!
those sacks are what I need to go through to filter out trash, keepers and where they go

ThatInsaneChick · Accepted Answer

I don't see myself as high-maintenance. I'm one of those who wears jeans two, three days in a row without a wash. I almost never buy new things, I make do with what I have. I lived in my car for years of my life due to frequent travel. I go anywhere from eight hours to three days without a shower. I've been called disgusting for these things, but I stick to what I know.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes i know a few and it's pretty sad that They are. that way , not my favorite type of girls , i dont hate them cuz i am friends with a few but i just think it's a pathetic way to act so i enjoy making fun of them , when they act like they are better then someone else or. gossiping about others i kind of put them in their place and make them realize that their shit stinks like everyone elses , you dont shit rose pedals i just tell them how stupid they are being but some people r just raised that way and thats all they know so again i dont hate them i just dont care for that type of person. I would bang them but i wouldn't be in a relationship with them lol

Brutal_Honesty · Accepted Answer

unpopular opinion, it seems, but i love high maintenance girls. they are feisty and confident and they know how to get what they want. i like a challenge, and being wanted by one is a massive compliment and ego boost

Lliam · Answer

High maintenance to me translates into mindlessly materialistic, TV watching bimbos who know nothing about the world.
I love self confident women who take great care with their grooming and appearance. But I want nothing to do with anyone who needs the latest name brand shoes, handbags, etc. Such women couldn't possibly have any consciousness. Unless they are spoiled heiresses, I can only assume that they are in search of sugar daddies.

Hurlyburly · Answer

My boyfriend says that I am pretty low maintenance. If I want something expensive I save up for it but if anything more important happens that requires this money I do not have any issues to wait for longer.
Plus I hate shopping for clothes or shoes and do not use much make up. I like to spend my money on books and video games instead 😅

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

Yeah, i'm a little high maintenance but I try to be reasonable as well as practical. I'm not over the top but when I want things I try to get it at the best value possible.

And I try to live based off my situation. I don't try to flex. I just do what I want.

ILoveAnime · Answer

I'm not high maintenance materialistic speaking. I don't owe anyone money. Sure, I'll accept something that you offer me AFTER I made sure you don't want anything back, cause I'm not paying for anyone. However I am high maintenance on the dating side. You don't meet my marks or I find you to be intolerante or I feel trying to control? Yeah... I'll dump you faster than you can say "Sorry".

Starshine85 · Answer

I'd say lower maintenance than option C. I have less desire for 'things' and they often don't make my life better. If they do, it's temporarily or only a little. Sometimes it's nice to look/browse things but not have them yourself cos it just takes up room and you can just get enjoyment from seeing things rather than accumulating them.

Izumiblu · Answer

I don't know maybe?

I’m not really demanding of things and I don’t demand anything but I have boundaries that I’m not very flexible on. So I think some guys would see me as impossibly difficult and others not so much.

I do like stuff and travel but I’ve worked hard to get where I am in my career and I don’t put that burden on him so I don't know really

Nahliability · Answer

I'm not. I like pretty things and unfortunately I have an expensive taste but I don't expect anyone to buy that stuff for me. I'll do once I have more money.
The most important thing for me is to have fun in life and luckily enough I can still do that while being dirt poor.

jl25sc · Answer

Just my personal preference but I will never be attracted to someone who is high maintenance. Its just that my personality is the complete opposite. I see function first before style or brand. Obviously it has to look nice but I won't go out of my way to get it just for its looks or brand. If it does the job, I'm getting it.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I wouldn't say I'm high maintenance but I wouldn't want to be so poor that I don't have security in terms of where I will live or what I will eat or what I will wear. If I have those basic things I'm good to go.

Oram52 · Answer

I love mature and independent High Maintenance girls, those are the girls I like dating. At least they take pride in their appearance. It doesn't mean they don't have many other great qualities.

I personally do put effort myself.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

From 2015-2017, I dated a lady who went in extended travel excursions twice a year. If I had gone with her on all of those trips, we would probably still be together.

PinkMichae · Answer

I was too poor growing up to be high maintenance. Coloring my hair and wearing makeup is the most high maintenance thing about me now. But even then I wouldn't buy makeup before my Bill's were paid.

anon1903 · Answer

if anything I'm quite low maintenance so I can't really give my opinion on this...

thegirlfromthething · Answer

Honestly, I am. I don’t think it’s a bad thing though- I just appreciate the finer things in life and I don’t mind working to afford them. I’d say I’m a 6.

Theft · Answer

No actually the girls in my life might seem higher matainence. But non of them are actually. They tend to choose limits so that they can be limitless. It is so hot in some of them. Haha!

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

Not really. Although we all make quite a bit of money, both my girlfriend and my female friends are more interested in putting it away and live rather modestly.

loveslongnails · Answer

So... no girls want to admit they're high maintenance, or maintenance of any kind? LOL I'll check back.

perla420 · Answer

I been told I am a high maintenance bimbo by guys I don't know what that means

ENTP_EMO · Answer

A. YES! I will be totally honest, the very word "HIGH MAINTENANCE" was invented for me - I can never get enough of the things I want

jst4fun · Answer

I may spoil myself at times, but until I expect someone else to do it, I’ll consider myself pretty low maintenance.

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