Do any men find high maintenance women attractive?

Question

The type that always look amazing but also want to be treated like a princess and have very very high standards

Oram52 · Accepted Answer

If she's also independent then yes I love high maintenance women, at least they take pride in their appearance. Obviously if she's putting effort then she expects effort in return. And by being treated like a princess I presume you mean chivalrous.

Most of these are of course lying. If that was the case then why would guys go for high maint. girls? Do high maint. girls ever have a problem with dating men, the kind of men they want to date? Only reason guys here are denying they would prefer high main. girls is because they would not be able to match up. A lot of these guys here no will definitely go for high maint. girls if they had a chance.

I definitely prefer high main. girls. They put effort in their appearance and are feminine. They like being sexy and hot nothing wrong with that ;)

God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

Nope, not at all.

I'll treat my girl like a queen, but only because she doesn't expect/demand that I do. She's down to Earth, and loves me, the same as I love her. She doesn't ask for, or expect, any special treatment, and that's reason enough for me to treat her right.

If a woman thinks she deserves to be treated like a queen, simply because those are her standards, she can stay single, as far as I'm concerned. Just being a woman does not make you a queen. You have to do something to deserve it, not just expect it because you say so.

Lynzerilee · Accepted Answer

Most people are judgmental, biased and give stereotyped opinions.
Different men will love different women, so i'm sure there are.

A girl can be classy, educated, smart and high maintenance. The important thing is that she is High Maintenance to Her, not dependant on any man to live up to her expectations or pay for her lifestyle.

I'm a down earth "low maintenance" girl but nowhere do I judge or stereotype other girls who choose to spend differently than I do, and there are many women I absolutely admire who are gorgeous, kind, intelligent and high maintenance like Dita Von Teese, some actresses/singers, Queen Rania etc.. As long as you're independant financially, that should never be a problem.

ChronicThinker · Accepted Answer

Seems like it would be fun at first... until he feels like lounging around in dirty sweat pants and eating little Caesar's and she begins throwing a fit because she wants her hair done and... I don't know, what do fancy girls eat? Olive Garden?

Jjpayne · Answer

I want to say yes and no. While I love the appearance of a high maintenance women, I can't stand the upkeep. Now I don't mind a girl that spends some time in the mirror. But needing specific products and clothes, money money money, I think its not about being a cheap skate its about where are your priorities. I would rather see a girl spending 100 dollars lets say maybe 20 dollars on make up but 80 on books that she would like to read, when its 80 on makeup and 20 on a book, I think the numbers are off. I would rather not just for mysake but for hersake, invest in the things that matter in the long run. Appearance is important but I argue the mind is much more important and the money trail will show what is more important

CubsterShura · Answer

Uh I'm quite high maintenance and I don't think high maintenance women expect to be treated like princess and have high standards. I'd like it if my man is also high maintenance about his appearance, clothing and especially hygiene, but I don't think I have very high standards for how he has to look, I'd much rather be with an ugly dude that takes care of himself than an attractive dude who wears wrinkly t shirts with crocs that you can smell sweat from a mile away.

holograph · Answer

hahahahahaha. No. And if I made an exception for you and treated you like a princess, you'd better treat me like a prince/king as well. Women are awesome, but let's face it, you aren't some magical being that deserves worship just for being female. You get out of a relationship what you put in.

PrincessKittyAZN · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

Personally me, NO.

As usually they, have nothing else to offer except good looks and expensive price tag.

Inside not much to offer in terms of brain power.

After dating someone with high makeup addiction, I would have to replace my clothes very often as mascara and all similar stuff not easy to wash off my light colored shirts or I'm missing something.

I had this problem with martial arts training as all my Gis ( pijama, that is worn in martial art training) were covered in that nonsense, it was impossible to wash off, when I had to train with women with no sense...

MercuryG · Answer

Personally no. Having to deal with a high maintenance partner like that wears me out fast and ends up causing a lot of resentments.

I know some that love it and actually find it invigorating to be there fulfilling their partner's every whim. Now power to them.
But I need a measure of Independence and enjoy a mate who is the same.

Adam1978 · Answer

Attractive most likely, would they want to put up with all that crap no. So these girls will be rejected by any self-respecting man. Some other will temporarily use them, there is guy who like to treat their girlfriends as princesses but that must be on their term and not by demans and high maintenance. Those girls can only get guys with more money than self value.

Flamdring · Answer

They may be attractive physically, but no bloody way I would ever try to date one knowingly. As soon as I realise my date is "high maintenance", I will end any kind of relationship we may have. If she wants money on useless material junk, she can go and earn it herself without putting pressure on me to buy it for her. I could care less if she is a super model if her core is rotten and I do believe that all high maintenance women are rotten inside.

EMed0550 · Answer

There is nothing attractive about a girl that makes your life more difficult for vain reasons.. at alll. Especially once you grow up. Those girls are a dime a dozen. Finding a quality girl to spend your time with is the rare female.

Kaazsz · Answer

You get a high maintenance woman by treating her like dirt. So I imagine it’s not that hard to maintain her. She maintains herself. The guy is just there to plow her. And you don’t get to plow her unless you treat her like dirt. Cuz when you plow her, she literally wants you to force her to eat dirt and say “yes master!”

Anonymous · Answer

They may deny it, but yes. Literally All celebrities and models they idolize are high maintenance, because they have a team of stylists, makeup artists, personal trainers and have has at least some minor plastic surgery. It's ridiculous to claim otherwise, when you're into Hollywood actresses and VS models

leahzrc · Answer

I make sure to look amazing but I treat people like a sweetheart and then they are sweethearts back

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

I think that only men with money have trophy wives. Most normal men don’t want a gold digger because they want to spend their money on things like video games , sports , concerts , rent , bills , student loans

Kit_Kat88 · Answer

These guys on here saying that they won’t date a high maintenance but very hot woman are mostly liars. Wait until she gives them a chance to date her, how most would put up with her because her beauty enchants then and their are other benefits to dating her too.

TheKack · Answer

Attractive? Yes (at least until I get to know her). Relationship material? Not really, no.

It's not off the table, but if you're so high maintenance you're more worried about looking primped and preened than about actually having fun, I don't care to get to know you all that well.

Spiritwander · Answer

Me looking @ the guys that posted "Yes": 🙄 (... obviously never dated one, or hired her...) 🙄 Sorry, that was out of line... but in my defense, so are most of them.😅

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Being treated like a princess and having high standards is not related to being high maintenance. High maintenance is strictly someone who requires a high amount of things like makeup or other consumables just to live.

This is not attractive. A low maintenance girl can dress up just as much as a high maintenance girl. The difference is she won't have a fit if she has to leave the house with no makeup.

Sensmind · Answer

It is probably a very personal thing taste wise but they annoy the hell out of me - Give me a relaxed natural beauty any day of the week

ChurchOfIron · Answer

Absolutely. That's how I feel about the cars I buy. I want to have to rebuild the engine every time I'm fixing to drive it.

BCA6010 · Answer

Having high standards is not the same as being high maintenance. The former is good, the latter is a huge turn-off.

yeeeeeeeet · Answer

No. I find girls that label themselves "high maintenance" very obnxious. Just say you like to dress up. Using niche terms like that to make yourself seem different turns me off completely.

markscott · Answer

Some guys do find high maintenance women attractive. I avoid them like the plague.

ManOnFire · Answer

Nope. They are anal like little kids and see themselves as much too important. It's unattractive and it's inappropriate to think and behave the way they do.

baerose · Answer

Who cares what men think😂😂it’s 2019, like who even takes em seriously  Do you sis

Anonymous · Answer

Being together with a spoiled princesses are the worst pathology in relationship. I spent 4,5 years with such an idiot... those women are a waste of time.

MrOracle · Answer

I personally don't have any desire to be with such a woman. It's shallow and tedious and exhausting.

A-man-22 · Answer

No, I'm not here to slave away at your every command. For me that's not love. In love both sides need to help the other. Not just have the guy put effort into the relationship.

Chadnelson1973 · Answer

Because a high maintenance woman is only about herself and wants. She's not interested in the relationship only what she can get. Stuff like jewlerly , money gifts etc another name for high maintenance is Gold Digger

taleets · Answer

I think they do, even though they don’t want to admit it

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

No I've never liked this type of girl at all! I like girls who are more... real.

JSmuve · Answer

Physically, yes, they're pretty damn attractive. Personality-wise, noooooope, they're annoying as fuck.

girl963 · Answer

No , all men are mysogynist and male chauvanist and cynical and only think about themselves , men are trash become a feminist and never get married

OlderAndWiser · Answer

The only guys who might find high maintenance women attractive are those guys who are looking for a trophy wife instead of a real relationship.

Inneedofusername · Answer

Duh. Have you ever seen those male thirsty comments and compliments below those instagram girls pictures?

morimeme1 · Answer

I guess it depends on the girls attitude. High standards are okay as long as they are reasonable and you are not a drama queen.

StephenCF · Answer

Yes, simply because they have more beauty & self-respect than slovenly, conformist tomboys you see on the streets with their hoodies, leggings & sneakers, etc.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Nope. Give me a country girl in boots, tshirt and no to minimal makeup. I'd take the woman with cow shit on her boots before the high maintenance any day of the week.

Ejeffers85 · Answer

Attractive most likely.  Would I date or be involved with one most likely not. But that is due to the fact that I prefer a woman who has a natural flow to her. While being more down to earth.

The6ix · Answer

I'm a guy who wears jeans and a plain white t-shirt or some joggers and a vintage shirt, I don't need to deal with high maintenance women. Dealt with them in the past and that's a big fat no and pass.

oddwaffle · Answer

Men might like a cool car. They never like the bill.

Shutupman · Answer

Most guys do no want a woman like that. They might find her attractive but high maintenance usually equals delusional too.

DDpsy · Answer

Yes plenty of rich men will pay for classy looking prostitutes they can parade around for an extended period of time.

MecheD · Answer

Great on the eyes for sure... but if she has nothing outside of that Relationship possibility is slim to none

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I don't, and I doubt that many men do in 2019. High maintenance women should do better to focus on self development and career development, rather than on getting into a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd not say men find them relationship materials. Cause every man ain't Chandler Bing (Friends reference).

humanearth · Answer

I find them a big pain in ass and stay away from them at all cost.

FatherJack · Answer

Self centered / absorbed , arrogant and narcissistic does NOT = attractive

Miristheiss · Answer

To look at... yes. To be around... many times, no.

NerdInDenial · Answer

Are they physically attractive? Yes, they are, but their attitude may not be.

God-vs-Satan · Answer

No I don't. I like women who are more nature impacted and low key and intelligent on her inner beauty skills and talent.

HereIbe · Answer

If a man wants to be a sugardaddy, he will. If he isn't just looking for a whore to fuck for money, no.

prasanp · Answer

smell of them makes me feel like disgusting. I just don't care whenever people classify some as high standard and something low , I just feel somehow pity on how they think.

megaman242 · Answer

Some do some don't, do I like bimbo airheads that all they have is sexy looks? No I find it better to recycle my plastic and keep it all natural and organic.

Pluto4prez · Answer

Only in the short term. For the long haul, I want an adult who can take care of herself. She can still have expensive tastes, but I'm not made of money.

winterfox10 · Answer

My girlfriend is high maintenance, but I love doting on her, so it works out.

GD360 · Answer

I'm good, I'll stick with my low maintenance down for whatever chick.

baseballnerd24 · Answer

Yes I love girly girls and I will only date girly girls

AynonOMouse · Answer

What are the "high standards?"  And what does "treated like a princess" mean?

Anonymous · Answer

I doubt many men find a woman attractive BECAUSE she's high maintenance. Rather, if a girl is really, really hot, lots of guys are willing to tolerate the fact that she's high maintenance. Less attractive women--not so much.

sp33d · Answer

Self entitled princesses are a turn off. On the other hand, if she was already a made woman.. that would be sexy af. Oh well, that's how it goes.

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