If she's also independent then yes I love high maintenance women, at least they take pride in their appearance. Obviously if she's putting effort then she expects effort in return. And by being treated like a princess I presume you mean chivalrous.
Most of these are of course lying. If that was the case then why would guys go for high maint. girls? Do high maint. girls ever have a problem with dating men, the kind of men they want to date? Only reason guys here are denying they would prefer high main. girls is because they would not be able to match up. A lot of these guys here no will definitely go for high maint. girls if they had a chance.
I definitely prefer high main. girls. They put effort in their appearance and are feminine. They like being sexy and hot nothing wrong with that ;)
I'll treat my girl like a queen, but only because she doesn't expect/demand that I do. She's down to Earth, and loves me, the same as I love her. She doesn't ask for, or expect, any special treatment, and that's reason enough for me to treat her right.
If a woman thinks she deserves to be treated like a queen, simply because those are her standards, she can stay single, as far as I'm concerned. Just being a woman does not make you a queen. You have to do something to deserve it, not just expect it because you say so.
Most people are judgmental, biased and give stereotyped opinions. Different men will love different women, so i'm sure there are.
A girl can be classy, educated, smart and high maintenance. The important thing is that she is High Maintenance to Her, not dependant on any man to live up to her expectations or pay for her lifestyle.
I'm a down earth "low maintenance" girl but nowhere do I judge or stereotype other girls who choose to spend differently than I do, and there are many women I absolutely admire who are gorgeous, kind, intelligent and high maintenance like Dita Von Teese, some actresses/singers, Queen Rania etc.. As long as you're independant financially, that should never be a problem.
Seems like it would be fun at first... until he feels like lounging around in dirty sweat pants and eating little Caesar's and she begins throwing a fit because she wants her hair done and... I don't know, what do fancy girls eat? Olive Garden?
Tell me why do guys go for high maintenance women then? Are these women not with high dating value guys usually? You are correct if she's putting effort in then obviously she expects effort in return.
I want to say yes and no. While I love the appearance of a high maintenance women, I can't stand the upkeep. Now I don't mind a girl that spends some time in the mirror. But needing specific products and clothes, money money money, I think its not about being a cheap skate its about where are your priorities. I would rather see a girl spending 100 dollars lets say maybe 20 dollars on make up but 80 on books that she would like to read, when its 80 on makeup and 20 on a book, I think the numbers are off. I would rather not just for mysake but for hersake, invest in the things that matter in the long run. Appearance is important but I argue the mind is much more important and the money trail will show what is more important
Uh I'm quite high maintenance and I don't think high maintenance women expect to be treated like princess and have high standards. I'd like it if my man is also high maintenance about his appearance, clothing and especially hygiene, but I don't think I have very high standards for how he has to look, I'd much rather be with an ugly dude that takes care of himself than an attractive dude who wears wrinkly t shirts with crocs that you can smell sweat from a mile away.
hahahahahaha. No. And if I made an exception for you and treated you like a princess, you'd better treat me like a prince/king as well. Women are awesome, but let's face it, you aren't some magical being that deserves worship just for being female. You get out of a relationship what you put in.
As usually they, have nothing else to offer except good looks and expensive price tag.
Inside not much to offer in terms of brain power.
After dating someone with high makeup addiction, I would have to replace my clothes very often as mascara and all similar stuff not easy to wash off my light colored shirts or I'm missing something.
I had this problem with martial arts training as all my Gis ( pijama, that is worn in martial art training) were covered in that nonsense, it was impossible to wash off, when I had to train with women with no sense...
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Not even going to talk about her big ego and that she wants everything and I have to pay for all that...
Personally no. Having to deal with a high maintenance partner like that wears me out fast and ends up causing a lot of resentments.
I know some that love it and actually find it invigorating to be there fulfilling their partner's every whim. Now power to them. But I need a measure of Independence and enjoy a mate who is the same.
Attractive most likely, would they want to put up with all that crap no. So these girls will be rejected by any self-respecting man. Some other will temporarily use them, there is guy who like to treat their girlfriends as princesses but that must be on their term and not by demans and high maintenance. Those girls can only get guys with more money than self value.
They may be attractive physically, but no bloody way I would ever try to date one knowingly. As soon as I realise my date is "high maintenance", I will end any kind of relationship we may have. If she wants money on useless material junk, she can go and earn it herself without putting pressure on me to buy it for her. I could care less if she is a super model if her core is rotten and I do believe that all high maintenance women are rotten inside.
There is nothing attractive about a girl that makes your life more difficult for vain reasons.. at alll. Especially once you grow up. Those girls are a dime a dozen. Finding a quality girl to spend your time with is the rare female.
You get a high maintenance woman by treating her like dirt. So I imagine it’s not that hard to maintain her. She maintains herself. The guy is just there to plow her. And you don’t get to plow her unless you treat her like dirt. Cuz when you plow her, she literally wants you to force her to eat dirt and say “yes master!”
I make sure to look amazing but I treat people like a sweetheart and then they are sweethearts back
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They may deny it, but yes. Literally All celebrities and models they idolize are high maintenance, because they have a team of stylists, makeup artists, personal trainers and have has at least some minor plastic surgery. It's ridiculous to claim otherwise, when you're into Hollywood actresses and VS models
And ask any guy to name any VS model, and pretty much every guy will fail to name even one. The only exception is the guy is into sports and he knows of one that married a sports player that he likes.
I think that only men with money have trophy wives. Most normal men don’t want a gold digger because they want to spend their money on things like video games , sports , concerts , rent , bills , student loans
These guys on here saying that they won’t date a high maintenance but very hot woman are mostly liars. Wait until she gives them a chance to date her, how most would put up with her because her beauty enchants then and their are other benefits to dating her too.
I don't want a woman who wears any makeup. If she has to put all that on to present herself, no thank you. I prefer a woman with confidence in herself.
Attractive? Yes (at least until I get to know her). Relationship material? Not really, no.
It's not off the table, but if you're so high maintenance you're more worried about looking primped and preened than about actually having fun, I don't care to get to know you all that well.
Being treated like a princess and having high standards is not related to being high maintenance. High maintenance is strictly someone who requires a high amount of things like makeup or other consumables just to live.
This is not attractive. A low maintenance girl can dress up just as much as a high maintenance girl. The difference is she won't have a fit if she has to leave the house with no makeup.
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