Ladies do you find frugal men attractive?

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SkyCastle90 · Accepted Answer

It depends.

If he's stingy/cheap with his money and will only pay for something if he absolutely must and even then it has to be something he deems important or necessary, then no. It's even worse if the guy brags about having all this money he saved up and holds nothing back when buying for himself, but suddenly he got to save money when it comes to others; so selfish. I have family members like this.

Now when a guy knows how to buy a month worth of groceries under $150, then that's sexy. Happily, I do have a man like this, because I spend a little too much and he helps me shop better.

LEYvh · Accepted Answer

As always, it depends. If I’m with you, it’s because I see you for the person you are and not what you’re materially worth. I don’t mind someone being financially intelligent, but if we can’t enjoy something nice (with my contribution, of course) because they'll freak out over every single purchase, I’m not going to continue forcing that relationship. Of course I want to make intelligent decisions, but I also want enjoy my life with those I care for.

Yurrasis · Answer

Frugal as in calculating whether a purchase is worth it to them in the long-run? Yes, I find it very attractive.

Being frugal isn't being cheap. Frugal people just buy what they need to buy, knowing they aren't going to put the purchase to waste. They are thoughtful with their purchases.

That being said, if a guy is frugal and bought me flowers I'd crumble.

Wonderer89 · Answer

Somewhat… financially responsible and living within his means yes but life is for living too. I know I wouldn’t be able to share a life with someone who wasn’t ok spending money sometimes (some of those Dave Ramsey baby steppers are hardcore and have like 3 jobs to pay off their mortgage quicker so that kind of frugality isn’t my thing)

RedStiletto88 · Answer

If he is responsible with his money and not wasting it on dumb things then yes. But not if he is a total cheapskate and by that I mean not tipping the waitress or things like that

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Yes please I'm happy with that. All the materialistic guys I've dated they were all about what the next most expensive thing I can buy. I'm just not about that so bring in frugal please lol

Agape93 · Answer

Doesn't matter to me. It's their money, they can use it or save it at their discretion. But if they run out, I will not be helping them financially. That's their problem, not mine.

Apple1996 · Answer

I'm crazy frugal so no I need a guy that'll yell at me and tell me that it's okay to spend money every once in awhile.

SaoirseS · Answer

Yes, I'm getting married to one. We're both frugal. It may be a contest to see who can outtightwad the other lol. But we do splurge once in a while.

dustybiker · Answer

Yes. Nothing wrong with being careful. Don’t forget to live a little bit though. Can’t take it with you, and lots to enjoy, even on a budget.

Bside · Answer

Hell no I make my money but I'm not trying to hear that noise.

Subarugirl · Answer

Money has absolutely nothing to do with weather I find a man attractive or not, primarily it's about character

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Depends on the level of frugal. Eg it's fine if he doesn't wear luxury brands but it's not fine if he only buys the cheapest food item possible.

fonduegirl · Answer

I'm that way so no thank you. I'd find it attractive if he spoils me.

moonpie89 · Answer

To what extent? I'm leaning towards no. I never dated a frugal guy.

Nagahime · Answer

Not in the slightest.

KatherineJ · Answer

Frugal yes. Cheap no.

devoygf · Answer

yes I want to squish them with my boobs

Anonymous · Answer

No i just care about looks and muscles and decency

_alice_ · Answer

I prefer generous man.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean… yes but in certain situations.

Boosss · Answer

Hell na

Kelly6 · Answer

Yes.

Anonymous · Answer

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