Which stereotype do you hate the most about your own gender?

[isanam]

[_Lynx]

I couldn't hold laughing with all these opinions. Very nice and true.

I will try commenting on both sections in more than a reply. Jsut having fun writing, I hope you find my words nice to read anyway.

Women from bottom to top:
1- I think I undertsand why a girl likes shopping, and I think I undererstand how this may not be a stereotype.. but I am careless if I ever claim to understand women.. as I will by accusing history being false. Where no man said he can really understand women. Haha who doesn't know this.

2- Overly emotional and unstable.. I don't know what to say. Maybe depends if you work or not. If you experience deep happiness or deep sadness for prolonged times, I think it won't be easy taking that away from an emotional based creature.

3- Not logical as men. Hmm, it is said that women can't easily deal with abtract information as men do.. maybe that is true. But maybe we can phrase that, that they need this indirect way when you talk to them, direct method or speech can get them bored or turn them off or kill their interest, I even mean in studying or whatever.

4- PMS, haha. I don't know how I am supposed to react. I heard that some girls have hard times, while other feel as if nothing is there. I don't know.. I was told that by a girl.
Men would consider girl as yuck, if a female student asks for bathroom.. eew.. go.. you can go. A teacher had this with my sister class at Uni.

5- Women should do what a man wants.. eekh.. I wish my soul mate -if she ever exists- to be a worker, a strong personality that I would be submissive to sometimes. Not fully girlish, like woow and yaay, but still a girl in the end. I want a person I get guardless around while I just don't get mere sympathy (pity). I want a good woman (Gratefully I have an example in mind as a precious acquaintance in this life) I don't know if this is clear 😅

6- Girls don't like each other.. wow. Yes, that's a good point. I want to know more opinions so I can comment.

[_Lynx]

Now Men part!
1- Hahahahahahahaa, I just said I don't like pitiful woman.. yes I agree **** this ****!!!

2- "Men have it easy"
Hmm, a deep comment I believe. I will stay silent for a moment. And, maybe that needs a full talk to discuss. I really don't know if I agree or not.

3- I think you mean, stereotypes can be useful sometimes. Yes, sure why not? At least a quick way to know about local places as a simple example. Anyway gererally "bascially" accepted. Maybe rejected later.. needs a talk.

I see I am getting logical more now.. maybe cuz I am a man.. hmm 🤔

4- Oh I defenitly agree. I lost my deep and realistic words for that example. I will share words when I remember someday. If a woman can provide emotional support in a special way, that never means a man can't. I just need a grace to retrieve my thoughts and elaborate. Thanks for mentioning it.
-Thats what will be my opinion too-

This also discusses, us supposed being insensitive. Plus "Mean have it easy".

5- Haha. Men are predators. Nice words.

Q- If a man stares at another.. what does he intend?
A: Cunning and planning something evil

Q2: What if a woman is staring at another or at a man?
A2: She is fond of them

It can't be helped, nature of man is normal to get him there. Yets needs some elaboration.
But generally speaking, "Cunning of man is evil, cunning of woman is love"
That's in Arabic culture, save those words in mind, I find them true.

[_Lynx]

6- We don't ask for advice.
Kill me! Spit on me! As if I can ever live without stealing abilities and learning from others, trying to prove I am the best by my own efforts, after actually being immensly within guidance and help. If not I was blasting questions whenever I wanted to know about someting.. did you forget the stereotype: "Men are bold, they just ask if they want to know" hah lol.

7- We think with our susage.. ohoo I burst laughing.. I wish I was not.. I admit I am to some extent.. I wish to die because of that. Even if it is true.. who said I am happy like that.. cut me please.. free me from that stupid desire. I can manage it when I become absolutely sharp, cold-blooded, quite as a stone, etc..(.) But its hard -and impossible- to live like that :(

[_Lynx]

I am done finally.

[OceanMelon]

Wow that was a lot. Thanks for sharing your opinion.

[VIVANT]

@OceanMelon

The men stereotypes don’t sound bad at all like lol there nothing insulting. Sounds nice.

And I do not see what was the point if writing the female stertyoes and agreeing with them. Just curious what the aim was there.

[VIVANT]

Sorry I meant @_Lynx

😊

[_Lynx]

What my aim is, can you guess?

I think it is not just enough to mention, it is the discussion after mentioning points. I hope I haven't offended anyone there. I simply was in a happy mood to laugh how real/precise these opinions were although they sound sarcastic. And I wish we could #overcome# those barriers / silly stereotypes. Can't you see it without me explaining?
This happens to someone unemployed.. has piles of free time to consume during this quarantine. Plus, this app has a unique friendly atmosphere you can never find elsewhere in my opinion at least. I dearly love people's helpful opinions here. So I feel at ease and this is maybe a personal way of me sharing ease I feel. Hope that's clear now. Please tell me if you think I offended anyone by any chance, I hope not. 😊

[_Lynx]

Yahoo! I got the MHO. I was targeting that also.. that was another aim of this long answer @VIVANT 😁 .
I think it needed quite some effort to reach 😛. I hope it really is helpful in a way.

[Kaneki05]

I don't hate any it's good to be aware of sterotypes that can happen. It's basically good to judge. What is bad judging ignorantly aka with no proof.

But knowing a sterotype can help a lot. For example sterotyping a guy with a hoodie in a dark ally way. of course that should be sterotyped into very bad thoughts.

Ignorantly used ones about men that i hate tho would be they are not allowed to have mental health problems guys just get put into there strong mentally and physically.

which is kinda ironic since i bet girls will complain on the sterotype that girls are unstable and have mental health problems.

[cute_short_nerd]

Just shut up.

Both genders have it hard, simply because life never gave you the option of an easy road.

Y’all need to grow up.

Not all women are weak, men can be easily as emotional as women are, and women can be just as logical.

Not all women love to shop, not all men hate to shop.

Not all women are emotionally unstable, not all men are emotionally stable.

Lol and let’s get on the subject of man whores, and male strippers, they exist it’s not just women.

Neither gender is obligated to wear specific clothes.

Men are pretty dramatic as well as women, but then again that’s not always true both ways.


Lol grow up and set an example for kids like me.😛

[_Lynx]

Little young girl, listen instead of speaking if your true age is 13. That will benefit you more than speaking for now. Where listening is anyway beneficial more than speaking almost, if not at all stages, ages, and situations of life.

At least, use Just listen up, or whatever else than shut up.

Learn to "oblige" others in a way to accept your beliefs. I mean powerful persuasion.
Do you have a stereotype of how to do that?

Maybe a stereotype you mean is that each gender just keeps saying.. Aah you stupid! You don't know how we (their gender) feel.. and just go away without caring to patiently explain what the whole situation is and how they think or percieve things.

Go learn more, and tell us how to overcome such a mutual stereotype.

Because, you didn't go past
"No need to prove what nobody doubts".
Gives us some more wise words.. short nerd ! 😁

So what we did here, we remind ourselves of the problems so we can highlight them and overcome them, and not just surrender to whatever jist goes around.. see how wise adults are 😂

[cute_short_nerd]

Depends on the adult. Most are too ignorant to even speak to without me wanting to skreech at them while chasing them around a parking lot with my slippers. It’s funny that once covid-19 everyone lost there shit. And at the beginning I did actually mean “listen up” not shut up😅😂

[_Lynx]

I am aware this is in joke context.

Well, at least don't screech at older people. If you don't hold respect, remain silent.

"Opposite of love is being careless". That should be enough to show them you don't care without being harsh :)
This hopefully will make you more cute, in case you are, I don't know you.

Maybe silence can be stereotype about a gender, any contributions?

[HattieCat]

-that we are emotionally and physically weak
-that we don’t like action films/books
-that we can’t make rational decisions
-that we are vain
-that we’re bad at physical activities
-we only like girly stuff
-that we hate boys

Honestly, people shouldn’t think anything about the other gender that is not told to them directly from the other gender. I mountain bike, love Star trek, Avenger, and lots of action movies, and I don’t think boys are “gross.” Some of my really close friends have been boys

[pervertedjester]

"All Men Want Is Sex" Ladies please get over yourselves. I've got bigger and better things to worry about besides your swagger.

[Price511]

1. We think with our penis
2. We cannot have feelings/show weakness
3. We are brutes/violent
4. We must be 6', making six figures, and also be 6" to be attractive
5. Nice guys are all assholes
6. Literally anything concerning mental illness because honestly it's the same for both males and females
7. We're simps
8. Being around kids = predator
9. Not good parents (because of this I had to put up with 2 more years of abuse which only stopped because my mom decided to let her boyfriend at me and he took it too far)
10. Objectify anyone around them

Yeah I honestly wish that there was genuine equality for both genders

[hammeronfire]

^^^^^ what he said

[Petra150]

Hard to put it better and more precise

[continentalbreakfast]

Number 5 doesn't make sense

[Petra150]

@continentalbreakfast well if we think a guy should be at least 6' to be regarded as nice in a shallow mindset of my fellow sisters, I really think number 5 make sense

[continentalbreakfast]

My husband is all of number 4

[Petra150]

@continentalbreakfast so he'd miss out number 5

[continentalbreakfast]

Incorrect. That's why 5 doesn't make sense

[continentalbreakfast]

Don't hate

[JessieMartins]

I don't know if this counts but probably that sex workers are dirty. I hate that. If a girl is lucky enough to have a beautiful, why should we give a fuck if she wants to share that beauty.

I'm not a sex worker and I don't know any but I just feel like men judge them and say that they are sluts and disgusting etc etc etc because they actually have to pay for it...
Yet they go home and watch porn...

[Mystic_Nova]

That women:
-should be housewives
-should be submissive
-should get married and have kids
-Are weak (just because we might not be as strong as men, doesn't make us weak)
-Women should be seen not heard
-women should focus her life around her "man"
-Women should do all the housework
That's all I'm up to put down

[marinecobra]

So true

[Jjpayne]

That men are all bad, all predators, all treat women bad and are all part of the problem with the me too movement... It would be nice to feel that good guys get rewarded for choosing to be good vs. Being told there are bad before getting a chance to prove themselves

[Ámayas_20]

Umm where to begin? We're weak minded, that we're stupid, that all we should do is cook clean and fuck whenever a man wants, that we're over emotional all the time, that we either don't like sex or we're nymphos, that we don't like anything with gore or fighting, that we hate sports, that we only want money, that we can't be successful on our own, that women don't lead/take charge as well as men etc.

[marinecobra]

Wow this is spot on true

[Unit1]

That we all want a submissive housewife (who is financially dependent on us), who cooks, cleans, irons, fucks our brains out and under any other circumstances (except for emergencies) never leaves the kitchen/bedroom except to bring dinner and beer and pussy.

FUCK ALL THAT SHIT!!!

I want a childfree career woman, who wants to build an empire with me and go on vacations abroad! There is so much to do and so little time and resources.

[serious]

Good question. Generally I dislike men who pretend like they are very obedient and listen to their parents always and that they also respect their culture and follow them but in reality they only listen to their mind or heart depending on if they are emotional or logical.

[Savage_Wisdom]

That every guy just being nice is just looking for a chance to rape you.

That guys are bad parents.

[Therisinghero12]

I hate that we're all seen as untrustworthy, I'll have you know I haven't broken someones trust in 3 minutes...
Okay 3 seconds...
Dang did it again, .5 seconds!
Jk lol
I just don't feel comfortable being under suspicion by someone I'm close too, cause I know I'd never do something to break their trust, but there's no way to adequately describe that to them that doesn't sound suspicious in itself ya know?

[continentalbreakfast]

I think girls are more untrustworthy

[Therisinghero12]

@continentalbreakfast Perhaps, but in my opinion this sort of thing should be tied to individuals instead of genders

[Drooogie4]

1) that girls inherently dont like each other. Cause that's not true

2) the ideology that we are supposed to be baby makers or make getting married a life priority vs a career

[marinecobra]

So true

[Beth12345]

Lol 3 women dislike your comment, 😂

[VIVANT]

😂😂😂

[winterfox10]

That we're all looking to get laid constantly and are playing little games to make that happen. Bruh... I have feelings, and sometimes I'm just try to do right by you.

[leahzrc]

i dont hate things because they aren't in my control but i dislike the strength stereotype, i am stronger than a lot more men than what is expected

[AynonOMouse]

That men aren't as good of care givers for children as women. It is so false. I'm better with them than anyone I know IRL. And most of them like me more too. :)

[Jaximus-Lion]

The loud ones... They talk shit so much, they lie about 70% about everything they say they did, even maybe 90%. They can't do shit , foul mouth , no morals, no self respect but they see none of this

[continentalbreakfast]

You sound like you hang around with sailors

[sarahdamien]

- that we are sluts if we are dressed in a certain way
- that we are so annoying because we are emotional
- that we are needy when we show our true feelings
- that we have to be good at cooking to look more feminin
- that the one who is "F***" became an insult, as women have no dignity because they are the one who get F***ed.

and many many other things that make me want to get a revenge for all the women in this planet

[marinecobra]

So true could n't agree with you more

[SuccessfulHornDog]

What would you do to get revenge? Lie? Falsely accuse a man of something? Whats your plan to get revenge?

[Agape93]

That we overreact or are overdramatic for no reason.

[Uhphyshal]

we're supposed to be emotionally insensitive and/or sure about everything, and never accept responsibility for our own mistakes.

[grega239]

Men are emotionless. We're not, we just deal with them differently.
We always think about sex.
Being around kids makes you a creep.

[Kaneki05]

Wouldn't anyone at age over 18 hanging around kids not part of the family creepy? Don't see why that would be a problem ethier?

[grega239]

I've heard a few stories of men being looked at funny while in a park/store/public with their daughter.
I doubt women would get that kind of treatment

[Kaneki05]

Ah okay got you. So family members getting looked at funny for no reason.

[grega239]

Or male teachers or babysitters

[Nerdvana]

1. We don't ask for advice or directions.

2. Any guy with a penis size larger then 4 inches, doesn't know how to have sex.

[uhmdontoknow]

Wait what is that second😂

[continentalbreakfast]

That all girls are feminist or want equal treatment.
I am not and do not.

[BloJo]

That I must be knowledgeable about automobiles. I am not.

[Cherokeehp]

That we’re not as logical as men.

[Beth12345]

That I have to be a feminists and pro-choice, or for short all the left leaning groups. I'm a female I believe in equality but I'm not a feminists.

[MeatPuppet]

That if I'm some not a tall, muscular, dominant, aggressive asshole, I'm basically a failure in life and a loser.

[Beth12345]

Okay, why would you say that.

[Curabyron]

That we don't like getting dirty or playing rough

[Hazelstar]

All a girl love is to shop.

[Desconhecida]

Women and PMS means murder

[maadison]

That we are all overly emotional and unstable.

[Avicenna]

That all we want is sex, not a relationship

[sawno]

That we have privilege

[AshleyMariaWinter]

If we like experimenting with sex we're a slut 😣

[angryllama]

That I “over react” bc I’m a woman.

[angeliquedevereux2]

That women aren't funny 🙄

[certifiedalphafemale]

That we can't be cool or funny.

[IAMNathanael]

I agree, there's a girl I work with that's very cool and very funny.

[marinecobra]

So true we can be very cool or funny

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

That we have no power when it comes to sex.

[continentalbreakfast]

Preposterous, Guys should have all the power when it comes to sex.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@continentalbreakfast Many guys don't agree. That is the stereotype I hate the most.

[Torari]

That we're all desperate for sexual attention.

[VIVANT]

All of them.

[AD240pCharlie]

That if a man likes kids, he's a pedophile.

[hammeronfire]

everything that @price511said

[Tomsta]

That men are emotionless manly men

[Anonymous]

That women are submissive (sexually but not only)

[Aiko_E_Lara]

"Men have it easy"

[Iron_Man]

Nothing at all