Do you hate the opposite gender?

[Anonymous]

I sure do with all my heart and passion (except for Jesus)

[zeitgeist057]

Nope, I don't hate people: men, women, nonbinary. Everyone has a path in life they've got to walk, some more difficult than others. I see you're just cut-pasting to every answer the same : "All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them."

Which is really not true. At. All. Let's look at some examples of women whom I love and value in my life:

Sisters: (ages 33-46) I have four sisters, and they are all valuable. I was just having a wonderful hour long phone conversation with one of them two days ago. I love her so much <3

Aunties: (ages 60-78) I have 8 aunties and I don't have close relationships with all of them, but I do love them and see most of them when the family gets together. I have a couple really close relationships, like one who is 72 she is like a mother to me. Another one is 68, and she is the coolest aunt ever; she has a big dog, loves animals, and used to work on a volunteer trails crew. We always have great conversations about life whenever I visit her.

Grandmother: I only have one left and she's 85, just moved to another state last year. I worry about her because I don't think she has much longer, her memory is going. I call her and she forgot about the last time I called, but we still talk and my hope is I can finish school and get a job where I can take a week off to fly out and take her to a lobster dinner. She lived a long time in Maine and loves lobster. We have always had a great relationship, I would visit her all the time and talk for hours. My other grandmothers are dead now, but also were very important to me. They taught me to read, to play piano, to swim, and many other things as well as just being amazing.

Outside of family, I have many friends who are in the age range you claim is seen as worthless. Your narrative doesn't check out. Many of them have male friends like myself or romantic partners. They are great, valuable women that I enjoy having in my life. I have fellow coworkers, students, and instructors in college who are also wonderful.

My guess is you were hurt pretty bad. Maybe you have an abusive male figure or figures in your life, or have been sexually assaulted. I'm sorry whatever has happened or is happening to you. If it is still happening, please look on the internet for resources for help. You can call 9-8-8 just to talk to someone if you are in crisis. There are resources also for domestic abuse, sexual abuse, and child abuse (which pertains to you being under 18).

I hope you can get away from the male figures in your life that have brought you to this perspective, and find healthy males to interact with.

[ohsheeT]

Well I see something has happened to you to make you feel this way

And it must have been pretty bad for you to use the word hate

Whatever it is I hope you're okay

And I will be honest with you right now I hate a lot of guys too LOL

Most guys are liars cheaters and thieves most are selfish most only want one thing

Instead of hating them learn how to read them look into their eyes listen to what they say listen to their words when they lie to you they will tell you the truth in the same sentence you just have to be able to pay attention and and know all the signs but there's no reason to hate like I said something must have happened to you pretty bad and I hope you're okay

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.
The only thing they want and value is beauty and youth, if you don't have that you're worthless to men

[ohsheeT]

Well I hope you don't feel that way about yourself because for me that's untrue women are just coming into their own and they don't hit their prime until they're late 30s and 40s maybe even 50

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

With the thought that we are all the heroes of our own stories, I know that no one wakes up just deciding they’re going to be the world’s biggest asshole that day. I don’t hate the opposite gender, but they’re definitely ignorant to what women go through. I don’t blame them for not knowing, I blame the world and society at large for deciding not to teach them what women learn. Men aren’t inherently shitty in the same way women aren’t inherently shitty, no one wants to be the bad guy, shit just happens and control can be lost sometimes.

[Asker]

Men say women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m not denying that mindset exists and the beauty standards placed upon women are very shallow and pedophilic, but men as a whole are not responsible for the creation of the patriarchy and its toxic standards. You don’t have to agree with me, and I fully expect you won’t, but no one is purposely evil and being a man doesn’t make you evil by association.

[Anonymous]

i don't hate all men. some of them are good people. but it's impossible to escape the fact that most men are bad. all of the world's problems are caused by men, men commit the vast majority of crimes, and all the violent ones. men victimize women and treat them badly. so I don't hate all men, but I hate most of them. that's why I'm a feminist, and why we need feminism. we need feminism to combat the problems most men create for the rest of us.

[Asker]

I agree.
Have you heard that men call women over the age of 25 ugly, old and worthless?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course, they're all over here. Disgusting human beings. Not all men are disgusting, but most are. I'm sorry to say it but I hate them. It's why I'm a feminist, and its why we need feminism. We'll always need feminism because most men will always be bad.

[Sonorous]

No, I do not hate billions of people. 🤣 I only hate certain thoughts or behaviors that people might have. Regardless of their gender.

[Sonorous]

I am able to even see the good in people that I do not even care for. Past & present. I see that, though they have unfavorable characteristics about them, they are far too complex to boil down as "innately bad" or "fully worthy of hate." I believe that we all are interdependent pieces of the universe. We are the result of a complex series of interactions with their own complexities & so on & so forth.

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[Sonorous]

That is the tough thing about fertility dropping. A youthful look will always be seen as more physically desirable to men. Not because we're bad people. But because we have instincts telling us to spread our seeds & propagate the earth. Just like how women have instincts to be very strict about who they want to be with so that they might live longer & be able to raise healthier offspring, etc. Don't hate the man, how the hu-man instincts. Nature doesn't care about our feelings. It care about survival & propagation. It's why we have them in the first place.

[Sonorous]

This is partly why I don't like the idea of being in a relationship. Because what if one day I'm not attracted to my partner anymore? I'd rather not put anyone through that.

[Lliam]

Not at all. Thank the gods for women. I think they are pretty cool, even though some are ass holes. (They're no different from guys in that respect.)

They are different from men and I find that fascinating.

They can be bright, insightful, wise, empathetic, sweet, caring, nurturing, romantic, emotional, ...

A heterosexual man can find them cute, soft, cuddly, and sexually amazing.

[Asker]

Men say women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[Lliam]

I have disdain for guys who think like that.

As a teen and in my early 20s, I remember thinking that anyone over 30 was old.

I remember hearing the quote “Never trust anyone over 30.” Activist Jack Weinberg said that, rather offhandedly in 1964, during an interview in Berkeley at the height of the free speech movement.

I remember thinking of women as little more than sex objects, even though I liked them as people, too. I never had resentment or negative feelings toward them.

But I started growing up by my later 20s. Apparently, some guys never do.

Three of my most beautiful and amazing girlfriends were in their 30s. One was 32 when I was 34. Another one was 30 when I was 36. She is the first women I ever loved with my heart and soul.
I met my future wife when I was 40. She is 2.5 years younger than I. We've been happily married now for almost 26 years.

The idea that women hit a mythological wall (physically) at 25 is pure, clueless, adolescent nonsense. Plus, it's after that age that they begin to demonstrate true character.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I don't believe I harbor hatred for anyone. Do I get mad at others, of course. There are plenty of people who choose to go down paths that lead to harm, it is up to those of us who do not take that path to help those who get hurt in the process of selfishness.

[inhua]

for a site that a lot of users claim is "misogynistic", there sure is a lot of misandry going on that continues to be normalized

a lot of pro-female men and anti-male women around

[Unit1]

Cause and effect I guess. Plus them getting in relationships with men, who are very obviously only wanting to bed them and seeing nothing other than that.

[inhua]

@Unit1 if they understood basic economics this wouldn't be an issue. a man with options will inevitably treat the vast majority of his options as disposable unless he wanted to opt for polygamous marriage

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[inhua]

oh you really think men believe women over 25 are worthless? let's not play this game because the way women think of men regardless of age is much worse

unless the guy has amazing genes and lots of resources and status, he is essentially invisible to women and isn't allowed to have problems or voice them, in many cases mocked, ridiculed and canceled unless he has any importance to society especially to women

not only are these men disposable and expendable, they are expected to want to be disposable and expendable otherwise they're not a "Real Man" sacrificing their very own lives for people who don't give a shit about them or openly hate them

companies have no issue replacing their many blue-collar workers with AI controlled by a single white-collar worker, military and police are often being defunded and mainstream media wants to bash the very people (mostly men) who fought and died to protect their country and community and somehow asking for a little bit of acknowledge gets them accused of being entitled

fact of the matter is, most women would commit suicide if they had to live life as a man. suicide rates amongst men is often regarded as a joke, a myth or met with extreme hostility from feminists (who supposedly stand for equality) and continue to force them to internalize their own faults which is ironically given how much they supposedly "hate" victim blaming

transgenders whether transmen or transwomen already get treated like men and have excessively high suicide rates

overall men have done far more for women than women have ever done for men. if 90% of all men died tomorrow, nobody would care. if 90% of women died tomorrow, there would be mass panic

[DaBiggestBird]

I’m pretty sure Jesus wouldn’t want anyone to hate anyone. The Bible says to love your enemies, and tells husbands and wives to love each other too. I can imagine where your hate stems from but generalizing human males as orange round donuts who act like douche bags all the time is just chopped. Not trying to sound like a scolding mother or anything, just saying. Coke on Bill, you know?

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.
The only thing they want and value is beauty and youth, if you don't have that you're worthless to men

[DaBiggestBird]

You’re talking about human garbage dispensers, it’s not just guys who can be them little sis. What you’re saying isn’t wrong but just assuming literally every single human male is like that is just as consistent as a McDonald’s ice cream machine. It’s conspicuous that most People now are trash cans but holding grudges and clinging onto hate isn’t doing you any favors, the opposite if anything. You can't be joyful if you’re always mad, and forgiveness is like a foundation for the path to a happier life. There will be some respectful YVNLads and there will be some douche clowns. It’s black and white really

[Singing_Hollow]

can't love Jesus and hate people. Says so in the bible but to answer your question, No I dont I admire the opposite sex for their bravery and how their mind works. Can learn a lot for a man.

[Asker]

Guess what? Men don't like you because you're 30. They say that all women over the age of 25 are worthless, old and ugly. I fucking hate men

[allaboutyou2]

First thing, I don't hate. Hate always adversely affects us rather than the person we hate.
Secondly I do not put any person into a group, I try to treat every person as an individual, when you put person's into a group you always treat some people unfairly.

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[allaboutyou2]

You hang around the wrong quality of men, is all I can say. In my experience youth doesn't always equal beauty, I have met many over 40's that are stunningly beautiful.

[ta-ra]

No! I dislike people of both genders based on their arrogance, lack of morals/empathy or immaturity but to lump all men in one box or all women is preposterous.

[Asker]

men say women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[ta-ra]

Some boys say that, but men don't. I can't box every man together. Some still have respect and morals. Some don't.
Some woman are awful too though and I wouldn't want to be put in the same category as them. So I stand by what I said. Not every single man is horrible just like not every single woman is horrible. Good and bad with both.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not. I LOVE the opposite gender. I can't imagine living without beautiful and kind women. At your age, most guys are complete fucking idiots anyway, and although many never outgrow that, some do. If not, you can always be a lesbian. Women make better lovers anyway.

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.
All men of all ages are fucking idiots. They all just want beauty and youth and if you don't have that you are worthless
Fuck all men, they can go die

[Opinion Owner]

So let's see, a bunch of jerky boys under 18 lied to you and broke your little heart, and maybe your friends too? Poor baby, i'm sowwee.

[Spongebobssocks]

No not at all. Men are needed more than ever but that doesn't mean women aren't needed. We need each other

[Asker]

Men are needed but they all look upon women over the age of 25 as old, ugly and uselss and they look upon women under the age of 25 as sex objects existing for their pleasure.
And if you're an ugly woman you're worthless to them

[Spongebobssocks]

Have you ever seen men married to women that are older than 25? Or olf couples married?

[JosyJosy]

Nope. I think it's stupid to do so. Not everyone is the same. You can find the same horrible type of individual in us too. Just because one doesn't have a dick doesn't make her less of a bitch.

[Asker]

All men are agesit and look upon women as worthless after the age of 25. Men look at women under the age of 25 as sex objects existing for their pleasure, and if they get rejected they make the women the bad people. They call us women over 25 worthless, old and ugly

[JosyJosy]

Well I must be black by the gods because I have found men who don't do that.

[Skull_Anon]

Your plastic surgeon : I feel ignored 💀

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[Skull_Anon]

I would really agree with you if you replace the "All" in the starting with "Some"

[Asker]

Not true, it's not some, it's ALL because that's the way men are and that's why I hate them

[NamerOfStars]

Whatsoever you do to the least of His people, that you do unto Him- that includes hating.

[Asker]

Men who treat women like shit because of their age and beauty are not His people. Men who have wandering eyes and cheat in their thoughts on their wives are not GOd's people. I hate them and they can fuck off

[NamerOfStars]

ALL people are God's people. Sinners and saints alike. You don't get to pick and choose.

[Asker]

Where does it say all people are Gods people? All people belong to Him, but not everyone chooses HIm, and are not His people because they choose sin

[Nikki1989]

No, I only hate the misogynistic's. Normal men are fine.

[Asker]

men say women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, that would be stupid.
People who think an entire gender fits any stereotype are retards.

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[TheSpaceGnome]

There is no limit to how long you can keep those looks. I'm almost 40 and I still look the same as I did at 14. There are women in their 50s who look like they could be their kid's siblings.

Aging is disease, women who keep their youth in old age are smart women, intelligent women are more relatable.

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't hate women, but I do hate dating them. I'm just so exhausted from dating women.

I've really lost interest, honestly.

[Vendela_]

Hate? I don't think I hate all of them. But I strongly dislike most men.

[Asker]

Why?

[Sunnybeach123]

Why do you hate them? I'm honestly curious. It's not like I don't know that there are a lot of good reasons.

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.
The only thing they want and value is beauty and youth, if you don't have that you're worthless to men

[Sunnybeach123]

I get what you mean. There are a lot of attractive older women out there, though.

[Asker]

Men always want 14 yo

[Sunnybeach123]

Yuck, I hope not!

[Unit1]

Nope. I love girls.

However I don't love females, that hate us or treat us cruel.

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[Unit1]

Then I'm not a man.

[Asker]

How? Stop lying because you want to get laid.

[Unit1]

Get help and get therapy. You obviously need it desperately.
Or don't.
Either way this is your business and your life.

[Anonymous]

Not all of them, some special groups of men yea (incels, "alphas",...)

[Asker]

They all say women are old, ugly and worthless after the age of 25.

[Opinion Owner]

Jup. Also that cheating for a man is ok, that, that women that were raped were asking for it, calling women bitches, that women belong in the kitchen, plain toxic. Incels are also bad, they legit think that the government should give every guy a girlfriend and she should give him sex whenever and at the same time hate women to their core. Neither respect women.

[Anonymous]

I only hate feminists, but I don't consider them women so they don't count. I love real women.

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[Opinion Owner]

You realize you're just the female version of those incels, right?

[Asker]

Yes, I do not care. This is just the raw truth.

[Opinion Owner]

What is the raw truth? I don't know what you are referring to.

[Hanrej]

I wouldn't say hate. More like... think less of.

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[Anonymous]

I hate people who say gender when the correct word is sex.

[Anonymous]

I am a lesbian and men disgust me. Their minds, bodies, everything.

[Asker]

men say women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them. At this point I just fucking hate men and their minds.

[dolemite58]

i find them annoying and batshit crazy at times, i don’t hate them as a whole though.

[DawnCoyote]

I am lesbian, but even then gender doesn't really matter when it comes to people i dislike.

[A_Bell]

She's an angry elf.

[Asker]

damn yea, why wouldn't I be?

[serious]

No I do not hate women.

[Asker]

Men say women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[sheikalana]

Absolutely not. We all need each other.

[Asker]

They only want 14 year olds, no women over 25 so fuck those men they can go peg themselves

[sheikalana]

Those are sick men. I met my husband when I was 30. There's a lot of good men out there.

[Fireguy17]

Nope, not at all, but maybe it's an age thing.

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[Fireguy17]

I'm older so I view women way differently.
There is no way I would even think about a minor, and I will pass on anyone under 35.
I need something in common with whomever I am with.
There is just no way I would have anything in common with someone that young.
But again because of my age I am probably in a minority here

[Anonymous]

Same here (Except Mother of Jesus)

[Asker]

Cool

[Anonymous]

Not very Christlike is that

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm 25, I've only dated older and will continue to do so, you found the anomaly

[riverrat3]

Sorry you are so angry

[Asker]

All men say (or at least think but don't say it out loud) women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.

[riverrat3]

I have never thought that

[whereismyjohnny]

Nope.

[Asker]

You will once you are 25 or older. Men say that women are worthless, old and ugly once they hit 25

[Anonymous]

No..

[Asker]

Good for you, guess what, men say women over the age of 25 are ugly, old and worthless because they want "youth" and "beauty". If you're not 14-24 they look upon you as worthless. If you're under 25 you're only a sex object existing for them.