Do you dislike the opposite gender? If so, why?

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cth96190 · Accepted Answer

I dislike females in the way that a dog who has been kicked has learned to stay away.
I set out looking naively for one special girl to love in every possible way, to give her everything after I had found her. Women cured me of that stupidity.
During my life, females have been a source of unspeakable pain in the past and, into the future, carry with them overwhelming legal liability.
Feminists have made it clear that, because I am a man, I am hated and that they want me dead, or homeless, starving and, preferably, also castrated.
See the hate-filled rants of Feminists Andrea Dworkin, Betty Friedan, Gloria Steinem, Valerie Solanis, Krista Milburn and Julie Bindel, among many others.
The liquefied hatred that drips from the lips of Feminists is more of a repellant than snake venom.
To quote Andrea Dworkin: "Any man will follow any feminine looking thing down any dark alley. I've always wanted to see a man beaten to a shit bloody pulp with a high-heeled shoe stuffed up his mouth, sort of the pig with the apple. It would be good to put him on a serving plate but you would need good silver."
To quote Gloria Steinem: "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle."

https://www.youtube.com/embed/X1I7btYlbfA

Memo to the female collective: you will discover that bicycles do not need fish.

Kurαȷ · Accepted Answer

I dislike both men and women, for different reasons.

I dislike women primarily for their issues with personal accountability, their penchant for interpreting their shitty selfish behaviors as beneficial to or even mindful of the other party (e. g. - "I lied horribly... so the person doesn't feel bad or upset") and to divert responsibility for their actions.

I think women have worse character traits than men, they are more ego-driven, more intellectually dishonest, more prone to hypocrisy and duplicitousness and thus ultimately less reliable as friends and acquaintances than men.
I wouldn't rely on a woman, and I would never trust woman to do the right thing when it needs to be done.

But at the same time, it's the reason why I prefer female acquaintances and superficial ties with women over men.
The duplicitousness yields itself well in formal settings, where women come across as nicer and more sensible than men (for the most part).

I don't dislike women for romantic reasons, because I'm not an idiot who chases those kinds of women who I have just generalized.

Mystic_Nova · Accepted Answer

I love and hate men.

I love them because they're amazing and they really do work hard and can lo e a person to such high levels. But, they do tik me off

I'm talking about men who prioritize men over women, like the ones who kill female babies because men made it so woman have to. e the ones who provide dowry, as well as limit their choises in life, then turn around and call then a burden.
The men who say they fight wars to protect women, but its men who start the wars to begin with, also, those same men will rape and beat women who fight with them, or in the places they are at.

I hate the years of abuse, rape and torture men of the past have done to women and even men, all for the sake of what they thought society should be like

I hate the men who think women should be drafted for fairness reasons, but belittle female soldiers already fighting.
I hate the men who belittle women who do sports, because we aren't built like men.

While I love men for the fact that they love and care and they are great, they still tick me off some.

pinkcactus484 · Accepted Answer

I voted A but I was definitely torn.

Individually, I definitely like guys. Both as friends and, sometimes, on a deeper level. There are many guys whom I trust 100%. As well as liking them for who they are, I feel really safe around those guys.

On the other hand, it can sometimes take a while for me to trust a guy. It is probably because I have been sexually assaulted in the past. My guard is always up around guys I don't know and some guys just make me feel unsafe for some reason.

So yes, I do like guys, but a lot of them also make me feel unsafe, either because of something in their personality or just because they are men, and could really hurt me if they wanted to.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

I don't dislike all guys... only the assholes that give the good ones a bad reputation, or have hurt me in the past.

Men overall are NOT bad enough for me to hate them!
Odd and a bit dense at times, but not completely bad

Anonymous · Answer

@Mystic_Nova We have countless examples of women being cruel in history. Cruelty is a human trait regardless of gender. A few examples,

Despite the mongols cruelty in their empire the mongol women were allowed to participate in some of the war games committing countless war crimes.

Spartan women owned slaves that they would frequently whip and torture for falling out of line and if they had a baby that was not to their liking they would leave him/her on a cliff to die.

Catherine the Great empress Czarina of Russia (since you quoted Vlad) She massacated thousands of Civilians in Poland and reportedly congratulated her generals with the chant “bravo!” Every time they reported how they ravaged the country. She had her empire siege a Turkish city and killed 40,000 civilians. Human life did not matter to her as long as her goals were achieved.

Queen Elizabeth watched the beheading of countless political opponents. I could go on for days researching examples of women being extremely cruel because we have several historical examples.

MrOracle · Answer

I like women - a lot!

Of course, I'm very aware that SOME of them can have bad traits, and that a small percentage are TERRIBLE - but that's equally true of men, and I know women struggle with the bad guys as much as guys struggle with the bad girls.

If you read what I write, probably half of everything I write here is in an effort to help guys understand girls and vice versa - to try to increase understanding, to let people see the other sex's viewpoint, and to help us find the common ground. I think we're better together than by ourselves, even though there will be friction at times.

LogicBomber · Answer

I am not a fan of the large percentage who have a false victim complex, believe feminist garbage, act entitled, dramatic, childish, narcissistic, and spoiled.

I believe women have been falsely led astray by feminism and act without thought of consequence, have a lack of common sense, expect men to think they way they do or else, and also expects men to be subservient to them.

I am aware that there are women out there who aren't this way. I married one. But they are few and far between.

Liz_thorne · Answer

I am indifferent to men as a whole. I obviously care about peoples happiness but their gender doesn't influence that.

When it comes down to individual people it is their words and their actions I judge them on, not their gender.

And unlike the legions of incels on here I am able to separate my trauma and my abuser from the rest of his gender. Honestly guys, go to therapy, you're destroying yourselves.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m gonna be honest, when I was a kid I didn’t dislike women but they terrified me. Not like people I needed to impress but people I needed to avoid. I thought that they were all toxic, all around horrible people or just downright evil. All the way through school, my friends have had physically abusive girlfriends, I have had a manipulative and power trippy girlfriend and my own mother was both.

After I started college I started to get over it and even now I am thrown into a fight or flight response whenever a girl is slightly upset within my vicinity but I am working on it and I am proud of the progress I have made so far.

Call me sexist if you want but the fact that I never wanted this mindset in the first place and am actively trying to better myself doesn’t count in my mind.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Because women are gold diggers.
Wait...
Lemme fix that...
ALL women are gold diggers.

They'll write paragraphs about how they can't find nice guys while they're sunbathing on their old rich abusive boyfriend's yatch while covered in whip marks.

They say they don't care about money but out of the nice guys who treasure a woman and rich assholes who treat women like shit, only one of them is covered in women.

They say they want to be treated with respect but only the guys who treat them like shit and don't even remeber their names are swimming in women.

And like every gold digger, every women will say, "i Am nOt a GoLd dIgGeR, sOmE wOmEn ArE, bUt nOt mE".

Baseballbat68828 · Answer

Yes, mostly, i mean i like the nice girls
but the majority of females are all stuck up snobby bitches who are pathetic with bad judgment

what i mean is they say anything is creepy, even if its not creepy, they will say it is,
they are jus super judgmental

Pisses me off 🤬🤬
bet they even get creeped out by spongebob and horses,
not sure they realise how rude it is to call someone a creep, or they jus have a complete lack of respect for anyone but their self,

but looking into a camera while taking a pic is not fucking creepy!!
where do u want me to look? At the floor instead? Fuck off!!!

Sleevey · Answer

Well I finger fumbled and dont Know what I voted for but for me I don’t really like women. I love women and once enjoyed the fruits of that love, but I do not trust them and for good reason. It’s like my family. I love my sister but I don’t really like her. So I love the way women look , move, smell, and sex, but like them? Not so much

SjE78 · Answer

how can i dislike what i am attracted to... sure there are members of the opposite gender who have caused my whole being to become repulsed by the very ones who caused that feeling, but that is only for the individual members of the opposite sex, not all of women

Daniel3035 · Answer

Yes why?  I'd love to tell you but there's a word limit.  But let this video paint you a picture especially as a woman this is what men go through with women.

NamerOfStars · Answer

I like women. They often annoy the snot out of me, as I'm sure I do them, but the whole idea is that we complement one another. Not just physically, but psychologically. It's perfectly reasonable to get frustrated sometimes, but we need each other. I'm not sure whether a world without women or one without men would be worse, but I do know they'd both quickly become dystopian hellscapes.

Don't let your anger become hate. The opposite sex is not the enemy sex.

TonyV · Answer

Men and women are just different i get along better with other men, first its inportant to say not every women does the things I dont like but a far amount do, i dont like that i am just one of maaaaaaaamy options to them, i feel that them having so many options makes them less caring and a bit rude, not that it's there fault exactly having there pic of at least 20 guys at any one time is all they've ever known, but end result is still a lack of empathy.

Anonymous · Answer

I was sexually assaulted when I was 14. So I don’t really dislike the opposite gender, but I do have a general mistrust of them. I know that it’s not right. Just because something happened to me doesn’t mean all men are like that. But if you haven’t been raped... then I don’t think you can really understand where I’m coming from. Its not that I don’t like men, I’m just very guarded around them.

ActiveSh1tter · Answer

There's nothing to like about women other than the hole between their legs. In fact if they didn't have that we would have exterminated them long ago, and rightly so. They're leeches. Take, take, take, entitled, and contribute absolutely nothing in return, believing their hole makes them valuable.

SpiritBear · Answer

I feel that anyone that genuinely dislikes an entire gender, aka disliking someone solely what their gender is, are fucking sexist idiots that can't help but generalize everything in their life and don't see the other gender as even human. This applies both ways.

Nalix · Answer

It's complicated. There are women I like, and women I don't, just like men, but usually what I like or don't like about them isn't the same thing I like or don't like about men. I feel attraction toward women, but I've always kind of resented feeling that way. I look at the individual, but it's not really fair to say that I dislike men or women more than the other, I just dislike them both in general in different ways.

Anpu23 · Answer

I don't, but there was a time that I did. I had a lot of trauma growing up, much of it was gendered. It created a very angry young man. It had nothing to do with the inability to have sex, in fact my own sex drive was part of the fuel that behind my anger. I wanted nothing to do with women and yet was sexually attracted to them, it was a very hard contradiction that I had to deal with.

Licia_hersheys · Answer

I dont really care for men because I feel as if men r not taught how to treat women right for most reason (this does not apply to all men though❤️) I have never met a man that knows how to treat women with the up most respect (family and friends)

FatherJack · Answer

Voted B , indifferent as I no longer seek sexual partnerships , had quite a few in the past , lost interest , plus being a single dad / working FT and running own ventures too takes up all my time & energy... and money being a parent !! Not fond of people in general , I simply prefer my own company... very little BS tolerance.

winterfox10 · Answer

Dislike is the wrong word. I'm frustrated by my experiences with women, but I'm still very hopeful that I will find someone special. I definitely don't believe that all women are bad. Lack of relationships is part of it, but it's also just the general demeanor of the women I've met. Many women in the North East US seem to have this presumptive indignation about them; it's not very pleasant to interact with.

ButtaGrey · Answer

I dislike some individuals and that accounts
for both genders. I think it's the stupidest thing
to try bashing either component that made
you. A woman cannot bring forth life without
a man's bioengineering or genetics, nor can a man give birth.

worldscolide · Answer

why would i dislike 50% of our population because of the behavior of a few. I love women..

Pete671 · Answer

I identify as androgynous, so I'm not sure what my opposite is, I generally get on much better with females, and most behaviour from most males annoying,,,

Actually, would my opposite gender be an androgynous female perhaps? def not dislike they are the women I prefer lol,,,

Anonymous · Answer

No i dont like women because they have become a legal liability and they have allowed feminism to speak for them to hate men. I cannot even trust a woman will allow me to raise my own children due to the risk of divorce and the financial ruin it will bring. Women are no longer worth the effort and bring nothing to the table that my right hand can't solve.

djmzes · Answer

Simple

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

I don't dislike the opposite gender, but I do dislike some of the factions within the gender that use gender as a tool to promote division and hostility towards the other gender, such as feminists for example.

elisa_0 · Answer

No! I’ve had great relationships with the opposite gender. They’re a wonder to talk to!

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

I have mixed feelings. When women are good and feminine they are wonderful and I find myself drawn to them, when they are not they are awful and I find myself repulsed. Currently their is more women who are the latter then the former.

nettle · Answer

I like anyone until they give me a reason not to. I probably dislike as many men as women so I guess they're equal.

JackSmy · Answer

I adore women, even though they often confuse and vex me, in relationships!! How can a guy hate women, with all the wonderful things about them? What is the alternative?

lilsezza101 · Answer

I prefer male friendships to female friendships i just think they are harder to maintain which is a shame because they are a better vibe most of the time

StephenCF · Answer

I adore the opposite sex in general. Sure they have their flaws I don’t understand (and I know men aren’t perfect either), but generally I’m more drawn to them socially than my own sex 👍🏻

Jjpayne · Answer

I like the opposite gender but sometimes the amount of expectations for the male gender can be frustrating. It's like getting a job when you make through the interview to get a simple date

Anonymous · Answer

dislike no. do i trust you guys? absolutely not. i rather be friends with you than dating. i have nothing against you but my parent figure and my bros plus the bad things or crimes i saw on tv or saw irl. made me change my vision on you guys. my bff is a dude i trust him a lot but to the guy who wanna date me will have to work to gain my trust. i am very cautious with males.

Jaded_heart · Answer

Hell no.
I love men. Some of them attract me physically. In my experience, there's less drama with them. They're easy-going and more fun. Sure, there are some dingus but I've only met a couple of them.

Unit1 · Answer

I love women like crazy much. They make me want to hug these beauties!

I however dislike the women, who say that they don't care about our money but pursue the rich boyfriends mostly. We call them lairs and gold diggers.

Keyboardkat · Answer

I don't just like the opposite gender, I just love the opposite gender! I think women are amazing!

BlueScorpio · Answer

Yes, this one guy said to me... he didn't like animals and i was like okay burn the witch!

Kaneki05 · Answer

Women are better than men so no i don't dislike them at all lol

Nxtawm · Answer

Voted B, though I do know sometimes I can get a little competitive with the opposite gender but that's rlly just due to my up raising.

Lliam · Answer

I freaking love women. They are as cherished as flowers and sunshine. The way they look and move, their voices and outlooks, bring me joy.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t like men because the ones I have encountered have been rapists, women beaters and druggers. someone sat in a bush once waiting for me.
i don’t get why the world has to be this way and don’t want to hear that “not every guy is this way” i fuckin know.
but if they’re not that way they’re a pos in another way. a liar, slick, sociopath, narcissist etc. it’s terrifying sometimes

xXMidknightXx · Answer

I can't vote on this. Seems pretty biased. I will say though that I hate shitty women. Gives good women a bad name. Same goes for shitty men though.

RACSKC0B · Answer

I only hate a women once we start dating. Because that's about the time they start hating me.

purplepoppy · Answer

Life's too short to hate half the worlds population

1stranger · Answer

I like men. The worm in an apple can't be the reason I don't like all apples.

just_a_potato · Answer

The opposite gender is great, sure I have my grievances but they don't outweigh the good... I should make a follow up question hmmm

EmmaMary · Answer

I absolutely love and adore the opposite gender, that's why I'm married to one.

KeziL · Answer

I like the opposite gender much more than I like my own gender to be completely honest.

Shamalien · Answer

generally I've had bad experiences, but I've learned that it mostly has to do with my geographic location and age group, women are way more amazing than they look from where I'm standing day to day

DaMack999 · Answer

Simple, men are logical and moral most of the time. Women are emotional and drama queens most of the time. It's easy choice. Women are disliked most even when it comes politics, promotions, or big decisions.

silent_thinker · Answer

Not all the age group but certainly my age girls shows such bad attitude or having the guys as use and throw material.

Natashakir72 · Answer

Uhmm no? That would be kinda unnatural unless you are gay ofc.

Dali-chan · Answer

I only dislike men but it’s only because I hate jerks and all of them turned out to be guys

Lynx122 · Answer

I voted B I feel pretty much the same about men and women. Different but on the same level.

SamtheDnDgirl · Answer

I'm fine with men in general, there are certain men I don't like, but there are certain women I don't like. That's life, you know?

IAMNathanael · Answer

I don't dislike anyone unless they prove to me why I should dislike them.

simplelikeme · Answer

Why would I want to hate the opposite gender? I absolutely love women LOL even if they are a pain in the ass sometimes. And I'm not saying that men are not a pain in the ass also because we are LOL

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Taken on net, i like women. But of course there are bad eggs on both sides.

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