Would every guy want to live like Dan Bilzeran, with a bunch of “attractive girls” versus having an actual relationship?
Does every guy want a harem? honest?
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It's a good fantasy, and it might be fun for a month or so, but long-term, it would be a nightmare of constant drama.
The problem, though, is that feminism has devalued relationships - particularly for men, because virtually every benefit of a relationship that men used to enjoy has been stripped away except for sex, and sex can be had without a relationship - so women have, in effect, worked against their own self-interest (assuming their goal was a relationship) by making the cost of a relationship for men so high and the benefits so few, that tons of men are simply preferring to remain single and seek only casual sex. Relationships today overwhelmingly benefit women, so naturally women still want them, but what women think they're "bringing to the table" - advanced education and a career - are things that men DO NOT CARE ABOUT, because if they want those things, they already have them.
The reason that the vast majority of men would choose a relationship is because he wants a family, and so what that man is going to be looking for is a woman who is YOUNG (early-to-mid 20s; in the first third of her fertile years), and who wants children, and who wants to stay at home and raise them at least until they're in grade school. But few women today are interested in those things, and replacing them with college and a career is of no value to men, because they don't get him a family - so, again, men have little reason to want a serious relationship. The cost, socially, financially, and legally, are all way too high for way too little benefit.
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I'd definitely try it out if I could pick the girls :P. But it doesn't mean I'm not interested in a relationship. Once I'd tried it out I'd decide if I wanted to keep doing this or not. I already have online friends who are girls that I share a lot with you can also have diffrent needs met by different people. I'd make those decisions if I was actually in that situation. If I'd think about what I'd do in every possible scenario that's all I'd be doing and I couldn't live my life ^^ So I usually don't bother with it.
But it is something that would be attractive to quite a few guys that's why it is even a thing in the first place. I heard that every 6th guy in the world is a descendant of Djingis Khan because he had such a big harem and had so many kids that it just ended up like that he's the most successful guy at spreading his DNA of all time ^^
At your age, most do but not all. As they get older, a lot still do, but it’s less.
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A friend of mine has 4 dogs and everything was fine until he decided to give each one special attention. For example, he would brush and groom each dog 15 minutes every day. He would teach each dog a trick, or just repeat tricks the dog knew for 15 minutes every day. And other things. Well, now the dogs are extremely jealous of each other.
I think it's the same way with a harem. If the guy doesn't pay much attention to anyone, in particular, everything will be fine. But if he begins to spend quality time with each woman every day, jealousy will happen. -
A bunch of girls getting jealous of each other, competing and doing dumb shit to get attention, then creating drama when they feel under appreciated, and then the other ones trying to sneak in to back stab the other after the drama starts isn’t the best existence. It’s something you need to just walk away from after a little bit just to get some space... Girls will never get along with other girls… They always want to be the only one...
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Well, I don't know who Dan Bilzerian is, but despite that, I can safely say no. Some do, to be sure, and pretty much all of us want to have lots of sex with pretty ladies (or pretty lads, as our preferences suggest), but having sex with people has a way of causing feelings for those people, regardless of what everyone involved wants. Some can move beyond that, most of us can't.
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Well when i was little yes i did want one but that was due to being influence by anime so no not every man who hasn't been influence by porn or something wants that and frankly speaking i am find with one girl unless she wouldn't more then one girl in the relationship
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I'd want to be neck deep in pussy like kim jong un who has a pleasure squad whores he can fuck anytime he wants.
(Dan Bilzeran is a fraud. The girls who surround him are paid models. )
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I love women they are beautiful sexy smart they are givers takers lovers hey are passionate strong they make the world go round but I just need and want one
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Oh yeah I’d love to have a harem with a bunch of hot models. And then after that have a good relationship yup.
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No, one is more stress than I can deal with some days
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I think lots of guys have that fantasy, and they love living it out.
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well I think if you dedicate enough to a single woman you do not have time for such things.
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In the end u need something more than sex which u just find it in a loving relationship
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I can see the appeal but i wouldn't trade my relationship for one.
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No, I'd go for a real relationship
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I want at least five harem 😍😍😍😍
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Well ya... why fuck one when you can fuck em all.
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Nope.
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Yes and no
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Yeah i would love
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No...
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