Don’t you sometimes feel like a failure?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I am not worth anything. I am not good enough for anyone. My self esteem and confidence went to shit. And I always fuck up shit before anything could happen. And I think I will ever get married…need a partner for that, which will never happen. And I don’t will ever have kids, the way things are going in my life. Everything is shitty in my life, and I am not worth anything. Why continue on at this. I am fucked up mentally and healthwise. Why continue on if I have all these problems, I am tired.

[pinkster]

Yes i always did hated myself my looks thought I couldn't do anything right so depressed anxiety mental health issues and the fact that i have epilepsy it disroys me to there is something i can't do that I want to nd it ruined my life and also loosing my dad years ago hit mecatva older age he was gone and fit my head up totaly the fact I felt there was someone inside me forcing me to be someone i didntvwant to be and herd voices and had scary as fk dreams that I was dying nd they felt real ice herd voices of people laughing as if they are laughing saying haha you can't do anything ure falling haha nd with that I just gave up in my self because i had bad weight on me jst didn't care about myself at all as time went by nd my boyfriend helped me realise its all this is jst in my head and helped me get into fittness and prove whatever or whoever that thinks i can do anything prove them wrong nd now am strong

[Anonymous]

Yes. All the time.

I'm only just now starting to come to terms with the idea that I don't need to live my life to a set schedule or timeline.

And that comparing myself and what I have or haven't done yet to other people my age or younger than me is no way to live.

I'm starting to realize that maybe it's ok to be a 2t year old virgin who's never kissed a woman, it's ok I'm that I've never gone to college. It's okay I don't have a house yet.
It's okay to be a late bloomer.

Or at least that's what I've been told, and I want to believe.

[Hawner]

I am at the exact place you are right now. It is not pretty at all, it's hard just waking up and go through the day. Still, hang in there. Empty words coming from someone who has given up as well, but true nonetheless. Try to find something you love (hobby, family, a friend...) and focus on it instead of the bad around you. It will not fix things, but it will help you a bit.

[ibodi]

Though about that today as well due to turkish wives say that we are like turk
but I think the problem is like spartacus,
You feel nothing under spartacus but you may find it in Athens.

[dudeinohio]

Oh im like that a lot unfortunately