I was recently ghosted by a very handsome guy I knew on social media.. Is it a sign I'm hideous?
How do I know for sure?
How do I know for sure?
What are some signs you're ugly?
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Look in the mirror. What do you see? I see a beautiful woman who’s beautiful in her own unique way. Do you know how many times I’ve got rejected just because of my looks? Countless many times. These were by like really hot guys, and I became very insecure. I had very low self esteem. But do you know what my best friend told me? That I’m a very beautiful girl with an adorable personality and that those guys were just shallow and that they’d probably be bald and with a huge beer tummy when they grow old lmao.
Looks aren’t everything. Are you good to other people? Do you treat others with respect? Do you have a good personality? That’s all matters. Because of my best friend’s words, I gained confidence. Slowly, guys started to notice me more. And now, really really hot guys seem to like me— both for my personality and for my looks. You know why? Because I’m confident. I don’t give a flying fuck about what others think of me. These so called “hot guys” are not everything, honey. Please remember that. You’re amazing. You’re beautiful. It’s his loss. Trust me, I’m not saying this just to make you feel better, you may be insecure now, but beauty is subjective. I know that it hurts now. Yes, it will hurt now, but you will be fine. You just need to build up your confidence. Remember this, when you’re dating, or looking for a boyfriend, looks aren’t everything. A man who accepts you for you, all your flaws and imperfections—- he’s a keeper. He loves you for you. Looks fade. Do you think when this hot dude is like 70 he’s gonna look hot? No. He’s gonna look like a grandpa with wrinkles and saggy skin. But please remember, looks aren’t everything. If a guy loves you for you, and your personality, then don’t let him go. It’s a good thing that this guy rejected you, because you know what? You don’t need such a shallow, asshole in your life. You’re unique and awesome. Hugs and kisses ❤️
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I've been told I am ugly countless times. I am sure I am to some and not to others. It's all subjective and there is little reason to dwell on it.
Those that call people names to prod insecurities and hurt othets are really the only ugly people.
Okay well let's get something straight right now you are not ugly nobody is ugly on the outside ugly only comes from the inside it's the only place you can come from I think you probably very beautiful I I think if you would give me 10 minutes of your time we had a little chat I could tell 10 times more things about you and I could also tell you why the guy ghosted on you no don't ever let anybody tell you you're ugly because it's not true not unless your wicked witch and you do evil things that comes from the inside and that's the only place that we can come from I don't think you were that way whatsoever if you want to chat hit me up like I said give me 10 minutes and I can tell you a lot of things
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Look, everyone is beautiful in his/her own way. You might be ugly to smn, but u'll also be beautiful to smn else. And him ghosting u doesn't have to mean he thinks u're ugly. I never ghosted a girl that's ugly in my eyes, cuz I like being friendly w everyone :D
Maybe he likes u, but isn't confident and doesn't wanna seem awkward or smth like that. Maybe it's just that u and him aren't really friends and he is not interested in getting to know u better. Ngl, it's prob the 2nd thing, since it's u that msged him first.
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It might be your personallity, or if he was basing you just based on looks without ever getting to know you thrn he is very shallow, and could be missing out on something very special in his life.
find someone that will accept you for you.
Don't get hung up on looks, that can change quickly over time, make sure you look deep inside that person to find out how the really are.
How they treat others, their family.
You don't want to end up with an old balding beer drinking couch potato that has no intrest in you layer in life just because he was good looking when he was younger. - s
No it has nothing to do with being ugly and you shouldn’t let stuff like that affect your self esteem. You’re beautiful regardless of what anyone thinks, says or does, you just have to believe in yourself.
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it's highly subjective. There are 7 billion people on the planet, so someone will always be unattractive or average to one person, but attractive to another..
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Look in a mirror. Most people are average and then it's kind of hard to judge but if you really are ugly you will know.
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If there are a lot of people who tell to your face that you're beautiful, good for you, if this rarely happens, chances are you're not that beautiful, people who find us ugly will more likely be silent about it, but it's still not guaranteed.
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here is one. At the moment you get in the tub and the shower don't even get turned on
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You are ugly if you go to the zoo & elephants throw peanuts at you.
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I doubt it has anything to do with your looks and moreso your interactions with him or personality or maybe he sees nothing between you both and has moved on.
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It's not, it's just a guy who happens to ghost people.
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No one is ugly, you are either in wrong place, company or friend circle… a true guy or girl will always appreciate your beauty
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That's not necessarily a reflection on your looks, hon. He could just be a douche.
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You'll know if you're ugly
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i guess one sign is being male now a days
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Ugly personality
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it is not a powerful indicator of beauty
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