Do you usually notice when someone's checking you out?

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ChiTown33 · Accepted Answer

If women were assassins I'd be dead a 100 times over. That's how oblivious I am to it. I NEVER see it coming. Last time I was at the club a woman thT I hadn't even seen all night comes out of nowhere grabs my hand and pulls me out to the floor for a dance. We had one dance and I guess she was regretting it because she he kept dancing up against me and saying " I know you got more than that" to which I'm thinking " if I cut loose some people are getting hurt. To quote the late, great Shock-G, I 'look like M. C. Hammer on crack" when I dance.

CuriousMufuxka · Accepted Answer

Well women are less obvious. Men are more covert, but get caught looking too long.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

You're assuming people actually check me out... LOL

No, I'm as dense as a wall; I've had people tell me, "That guy was checking you out!" Which I still don't believe because if they're so interested why not approach me? Just "checking someone out" doesn't mean anything to me. You can look at a person, but that doesn't mean they like or want you.

Tessa_ · Accepted Answer

Sometimes it's really obvious, but some are really good at doing it unnoticed or I'm just dumb 😆

meetkitty123 · Answer

I always have a tendency to notice when people are checking me out just the other day I was bent over and I got this Goosebumps feeling like that odd feeling you're being watched I turned and sure enough someone was checking out my ass. I think I spot it because I usually get that weird sensation where my hair stand up and I know I'm being watched

Cryptoanonne · Answer

I have had moments where I *think* I've been checked out but I would never presume that thats what was happening for the sheer terror of the embarassment humiliation and shame if I did anything about that assumption lol

Anonymous · Answer

How would I know if I usually notice when someone is checking me out? Unless someone else tells me, I'll only know when someone is checking me out when I catch them checking me out, and I won't know how many people I didn't catch. How could I then judge whether or not I usually catch people?

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah I do, I often do body mirroring (Gauchais Reaction) to check. Just looking at my watch or menu, moving something on the table, lots of little things that will get that sub conscious reaction from the other person.

BlueWalker · Answer

I'd say I usually notice, but in all fairness, how is anyone to know when someone is checking you out when you're not aware to really know how many times that may have been, and what the actual ratio is? lol

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

I don't think people check me out. I don't mean that in a self-depricating way, it's just that I look very young. Most people probably think I'm a minor, so if I DO catch someone checking me out, I get really creepy vibes from it

ushagomez · Answer

Sometimes United if they are being quite open about it, or if it is some creepy guy staring for a long time. I guess it’s not something that bothers me too much either way.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I don't notice if people check me out. If I do catch people looking in my direction I usually believe it's for other reasons or because of someone behind me etc.

PenkWing · Answer

I don’t always notice. Girls often are sneakier than guys at giving glances. And I learned to go about my way without caring what people think of me. But of course, I still notice at times!

Massageman · Answer

Who is going to check me out? An 80- year-old cougar who wants a 70 year-old cub?
I would notice it, IF it ever happened, but I'm realistic too.
It happened in high school, but then I did NOT notice it- didn't find out until my 50th HS reunion that this one gal was a tiny bit smitten with me.

Pummel · Answer

Nope... I am so oblivious that just last week two total strangers said to me... " dam she was smiling at you and checking you out "  I don't date and haven't in a long time

TadCurious · Answer

Bella I voted that sometimes I notice and sometimes I don't. But I'm sure the guys you check out are flattered if you're being obvious about it.  🙋‍♂️😊

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Usually it gets pointed out to me, I'm generally very easily distracted and don't pay much attention to people around me.
The girls that like me tend to only get anywhere if they are super obvious and pushy about it.

ChubbyKing · Answer

Nope. I had a friend in college who said I frustrated him cuz he always noticed girls checking me out but I was completely oblivious. The thing is, he was high when he said that so I have 0 idea if that was actually true

pillingsadness · Answer

Voted B I'm pretty oblivious to when it happens. I'm usually surprised when my friends tell that for me

NathanDavis · Answer

I do notice it sometimes, yes... but I am sure that I cannot tell every single time, I don't even think of that stuff 99% of the time

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, one time, me and this girl kept checking each other out in the waiting room of the doctor's appointment, and I went home so turned on and? LMAO

enbyofenvy · Answer

I assume there's something on or wrong with my face or w. e body part i caught them looking at.

tatianamay · Answer

No, I'm oblivious to it tbh... meaning, guys never check me out

Paris13 · Answer

I have Had guys just Talk or Stalk me when Out. lol!!! xx

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