Have you noticed how a lot of the jocks, etc that picked on the unpopular people, ironically many times (not always) end up having lousy lives?

[Anonymous]

All these jocks, and other popular people that picked on the unpopular people in grade school and in university many times end up having lousy lives later on, while the unpopular people many times end up having better lives. A lot of the popular people get used a lot by fake friends, get involved in drugs, drinking too much, all types of mess.

[PatrickFusion]

I'm not sure. When I used to look up my old classmates on facebook the results were kind of random. Some were doctors, some had big families, and others were overweight and less successful or even into criminal activities. I think a lot of how they turn out has to do with the amount of money their family has and the example and expectations put on them by their parents.

[Asker]

A tons of jocks and popular people end up with a lot of drug use, getting used, etc and they end up with all types of messes a a lot of times. Come on man.

[PatrickFusion]

Maybe that's what we hope happens?
I played a lot of basketball in high school, but I wasn't a bully, some of my friends were assholes to different degrees. One of them is a big farmer now and his wife is hot, he has a daughter, but again, that's because his parents had everything. My other friends are just regular guys working in construction. I do agree that people who bully others likely have some major personality issues. I imagine they aren't very happy in reality and maybe it does lead to substance abuse in many cases.

[Asker]

You agree them bullying is messed up right?

[Asker]

You agree them bullying in the past is messed up right?

[Asker]

It seems you support their bullying

[Asker]

You support bullies

[Birdlegs]

I’m not sure about the jock part but in general having more friends leaves more room for fake friends and more peer pressure and often times those people are people pleasers and will do almost anything to be recognized and that doesn’t always end up great

[Asker]

You agree them bullying is messed up?

[Asker]

It seems you support their bullying.

[Birdlegs]

Where did I say that?

[Asker]

By the way you responded you are making excuses for the post

[Birdlegs]

I’m not making excuses I’m just giving a reasoning behind peoples actions

[Mollynotgemma]

The arrogant kids at school who put others down are not arrogant or co Fife the… they are acting and masking who they truly are for fear of failing as themselves. The jock is not real! They’re jealous of the one they pick on.

[Anonymous]

Karma is a bitch

[Asker]

It is but have you noticed that is usually the case?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah usually or they become a cop and keeps bullying