Are you a magnet for losers? If so, have you ever wondered why?

[SpaceGalaxy]

If so, have you ever wondered why?

[Nazgol]

I'm not but I'm presuming it is because of not raising the bar high enough & settling for less than you deserve

[Angiee7741]

Yes I am and not sure why.

[jennifer_bloom]

Everyone attracts losers - some do not have the discernment to know the people they attract are losers.

[shorty_samy]

I seem to affect, and attract a variety of people, including losers. People who are "outcasts" who have a small friend group seem to be the ones I see myself hanging with. And more people who ARE losers seem to hang out with I'm friends with, so it all falls into place one way or another.

[PiinkFalls]

Yes I was, but that was because I had no self worth. I didn’t realize that I deserved better, so I would always go to the same types of guys while expecting a different outcome. I always thought “this one is different.” However, it wasn’t until I worked on my mental and physical health that I realized my pattern in men.

[Not_Average]

You sound so mature given your age

[PiinkFalls]

Thank you!! That means a lot!

[Anonymous]

When you are toooo empathetic, you are automatically a magnet for losers because you try to see the best in them, constantly telling them they have the potential, whereas in reality they are just stupid, rigid, people pleasing or at the most lazy to do anything. 🥱

[pickedcrisps]

No but sometimes I'm always bemused and amused when a woman looks or stares constantly at me and I'm often ignoring it. Yes I'm single. No I don't want to date right now.

My life is video games and self care hahaha 😜

[lilyanony1]

I seem to be and I don't know why. I'm a kind person. So maybe that's the issue. Kindness sees the good in all. But I'm certainly not weak nor a fool.
It would be nice though to date someone who's not down and out.
I'm loyal and trusty worthy.

[Siren777]

I attract all types of guys but I won't waste energy on losers. So it's what you do about the attention.

[pickedcrisps]

Bless you, you strong confident woman 🙏😇

[Siren777]

@pickedcrisps Bless you too ☺️

[Dude_777]

Low self esteem and rough past basically. They believe themselves to be a total failure, hate themselves and that they don't deserve anything better than a loser. They feel secure about loser that no one is going to steal him from them.

Due to multiple failures, they lower their standards too low.

There are many scientific articles explaining about this phenomenon. You can Google "how low self esteem affects relationships".

[Dude_777]

I am never attracted to losers. I am only attracted to people with high success and satisfaction in life. I avoid people who made too many bad decisions, failures in life. It saves me from a lot of hassles.

[kc_4308]

No I’m not a magnet for losers.. I’m a empathetic person

[Rangers]

I'm a repel only magnet for everyone, I'm uncomfortable in crowds so that works out fine for me

[Iron_Man]

I don’t think so but I’ve been known to pick out bad woman before

[legalboxers]

they say its the energy you put out.. but then again...

[Anonymous]

After reading this post

[Phoenix98]

More like crazy people 😂 some good crazy some bad crazy.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I'm a slut magnet. Why? I'm tall and handsome, sluts prefer presentable men they can brag with. They got me always in the past because they are better in catching a guy than girls who have a moral.

[Willoughby23]

Yes because im a loser too

[jimmy2]

Opposites come together

[serious]

The answer is NO.

[Fuentes]

They say you are what you attract

[Blackcupcake]

nope I repel