Do you believe losers attract losers?

[Anonymous]

Too many people are very quick to blame the guy as a loser and a jerk. But the girl that's with him probably isn't a quality girl herself either.

For instance if a girl is living together with a lazy bum that's asking for money, he goes clubbing every weekends, only talks about sexual topics, has no goals nor ambitions and they only spend ''quality time'' in the bedroom (instead of outside on dates).. then isn't the girl (assuming she has no real life skills either and is superficial) life also a loser?

[Vick2828]

You have to understand three factors play into this. One the girl/ boy comes from a rich or troubling home. She/ he is usually fake and just downright mean. Two, the guy or girl is on his best behavior in the beginning and starts to change and reveal they aren't what they seem. Three, it's all the above.

[Guy13]

I do not... Opposites. more often than not, attract unless Parents are involved ;-)

[Dinklex3]

Not always, lol.

Opposites sometimes attract and people may be similar in different ways.

2 of my friends divorced some pretty shitty men. They are amazing people.

[FilmGuy93]

That's certainly been my experience. People treat you the way you feel about yourself, and birds of a feather absolutely flock together.

[clampfan101]

Losers don’t attract other losers.
They just repel non-losers. lol

[Asker]

Then what girl is going to select a bum asking for money or something into clubs? Or what type of man is one that stays with a girl that has 3 kids of different fathers or is ghetto type?
Whoever has those partner... that person is of high value themselves either.

[Mafia24]

Girls choose the looser because she can control him... rich n successful guy don't give a fuck to woman...

Got my point?

[KostasKouvalis]

That might be true. It makes sense that two losers would vibe with eachother

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

9 out of 10 times you attract what you are deep inside of yourself.

[EnglishEuropean]

I think there's some truth in that.

[In_Trance]

Yeah