If you're not a winner, then aren't you a loser?

[Anonymous]

I mean, lets call a spade a spade here, right?

[MrOracle]

in my opinion, losers are the ones who don't DO anything, never take any risks, never try to learn or improve, etc.

Every single person who does great things has a history of failures behind them. Edison's company tried 5700+ different materials looking for a filament for the light bulb that would last long enough to make a light bulb a commercially-practical product. That is a LOT of failures to live through - and keep in mind that they had to scour the entire planet to even get that many materials to try, at a time when you couldn't just order stuff and have it flown in from anywhere within a day or two.

Mistakes and setbacks and failures don't make you a loser - GIVING UP or not even trying, that is what makes you a loser.

[MCheetah]

No. Because you're assuming everyone is "playing the game" or "trying to win," to begin with. That's where you messed up.

Also, you're only a "loser" if you stay in that position and don't try again after you failed to win. In life, most winners have to lose several times before they win. And usually, you only need to win big once.

[Anonymous]

Depends on how you look at it I guess, and also what you’re talking about. If you play the lotttery and don’t win you lose. But if you’re in a competition and don’t come in last you’re not really the loser (or winner).

[Asker]

But, there was only one winner in the competition, aren’t you the loser

[ProVox]

2nd place is only the best loser... but this is only in terms of competition not in general in life.

[Asker]

What about when it comes to women

[lorenzomichael]

Im a fucking loser if it wasn’t for bad luck I’d have no luck at all. I was born with 6 fingers and 4 toes That still end up as 10 I have one blue eye and the other green but sometimes they both turn red. and to make matters worse I have a face only a mother could love but she don’t.

[EmbraceThePain]

Well, not necessarily. I think it depends on what we are talking about.

[sixsixsix]

If your 2nd your just the first one to lose lol

[Anonymous]

Somewhere in the middle?

[ArtemisSilver]

Maybe