Are you a loser in life?

[Anonymous]

Of course I am a loser piece of pig shit. Why? Because:

• Born into a strict islamist family and been oppressed a lot
• Too much father and teacher abuse physically and mentally
• Developed social anxiety disorder at the age of 16
• Developed depression in my early 20s
• I am 28 now and still no job, no girlfriend, no social life
• Lost my hair, heart pain all the time
• Moved to a little boring conservative town with my parents with no life at all

Yes

No

[LillKrull]

I honestly don't think that I am.

* Born into a a fairly liberal atheist family, but by own choice became a christian.
* I've never been abused, not hit by paremts, teachers, no nothing.
* Going to uni this fall.
* Satisfied with my social life.
* Had a few jobs here and there during summers, when school is out.

All in all, life is a lottery, and I truly consider myself lucky, but in the end of the day, you can always improve your life, if you start working with the tools you have.

A big first step would be to try finding a job. When you become financially stable you can move out, and start living your life more freely.

[Anonymous]

Your family may be a bigot Muslim. Why are you complaining about this, the real fault is yours. You wouldn't let them affect you. I am also a Muslim. I'm just like you, but not because of family pressure. I am like this because I cannot make my own decisions and I make the wrong choices. And I just don't understand this; you bigot Muslims, you defend Islam at the expense of your life in real life, and declare those who do not accept Islam as unbelievers. But on such a platform you always blame the religion of Islam. Why is that? I wonder this. Explain this without insulting me, because I want to help you.

[Opinion Owner]

Why did you give me minus, @Anonymous? I just told the truth. What they said; they expel those who tell the truth from 9 villages. And that's really true. Here you asked a question and want advice. And you should either like the opinions or respond to the opinionss. Why is it so hard for you to be respectful?

[Asker]

Are you crazy or what? I didn't give you negative vote. 2 other guys gave you that. Also, when you are a baby and child and young, you can't control your parents, they fucked up your life and you just realize it at the age of 20... And you already have a fucked up life then

[Asker]

Also who said I am muslim goddammit? Fuck islam. I am the most radical atheist in the world. Gonna fuck islam in the ass.

[Opinion Owner]

But you did mention yourself in your question?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course, nobody can choose their parents. But it's ridiculous to complain like that. Children of all Muslim families complain about their religion and family. This is ridiculous. If you are a Muslim family and do not like Islam, don't adopt Islam.

[Asker]

I never saw any muslim guy who hates islam or their parents just because parents are muslim. That is ridicilous

[Opinion Owner]

How didn't you see? Where do you live? I've seen a lot. So what was the purpose of you asking this question?

[Asker]

What purpose? Did i say i am muslim? I am an ex-muslim. I am a radical atheist person.

[Asker]

Are you from turkey?

[Opinion Owner]

You asked your own life story as a question then. Why did you leave Islam? Were you a radical Muslim before you became an atheist? Remember, the excess of everything is nonsense. Why Turkey? Is that a Turkey is the only Islamic country? I am from Azerbaijan.

[Anonymous]

by going onto the internet and calling yourself a loser, you are making yourself a loser. What about trying to improve your lot in life instead of going on internet forums?

[Asker]

I tried a lot. I hustled a lot. And lost.

[Opinion Owner]

Hustled? What does that even mean?

[derdepedie301]

Islam didn't opress you and you know it. islam is religion of peace and your just a faker that's trying to give Islam a bad name.

[Asker]

Fuck islam. Fuck it so fucking much i hate it. Never talk about islam to me. That is the most terrible thing ever happened to this earth.