Why is it in movies and in real life when somebody grabs their throat the first thing they do is start pulling at their arms or their fingers like nah it don't work why are you trying that
And don't tell me it's just panic cuz I've had it done before and a no point did I try to grab hands Punch them in the throat kick him in the groin pop a knee out of socket not just flail around like a dying fish like what is this.
It is a human instinct to at least use one hand to grab their arm/wrist without training or prior thought. You're trying to create an opening for air to come through.
It's a variation of the "Flight" of the fight/flight/freeze response. Their instinct is GET OUT rather than Kill this fucker or completely freezing.
There's a lot of unhelpful instincts the average person has in certain situations. I wouldn't say this one is entirely unhelpful, it's just not the most useful
And while throwing punches to the face and throwing knees is useful against a guy that's trying to choke you. A guy that's really stronger than you can just tuck his head to the side, angle his hips and you're going to sleep even with you throwing shots because you don't have a base to throw strong attacks unless you've trained to do so.
It's better that you have a fight reaction in that scenario, but don't overestimate your ability simply because you as an untrained person have overcome somebody who was also untrained and probably not as strong as you think
Your instincts benefited you in the past. That doesn't mean they were the best. It means it worked. There are actually better self defense moves for a girl in that position to grab his wrist with both hands so that she can use her entire bodyweight to make a move with his weaker wrist as opposed to her entire weight.
In my mind if you got a punch off after her grabbed your neck it's because he had zero fight experience of any kind because at that range maybe you get an elbow to his face (which is better than trying to punch that close) but a punch isn't statistically a good choice
Nails to the eyes, knee the the balls, heel stomp the top of his foot right where the ankle meets the shin if you can get weight on him to do so. Those are the types of moves a girl should do. A punch at that angle has no power behind it to stop an attack
And that makes sense, 100% agree. Just your initial message and came across as less than empathetic we'll say for a very natural reaction for a large percentage of the population
It's just I have a hard time accepting that people when faced with danger will freeze and place and just die like at least try to get away or at the very least try and get as much DNA as you can so if you die they can at least find who did it
I understand that sometimes I can seem unfeeling but I actually do care I if I seem like I'm being harsh it's because I care about someone. I lived in a bad town ( Gallup NM) I seen people get shot stabbed dead body's pulled from bushes I've had people who attempted to kidnap me twice I have been mentally abused physically abused and sexually assaulted
And I just don't want to see someone get hurt because if you don't fucking fight you will die so make a conscious effort to at least learn to defend yourself in some degree
I got it. I give my girl tips on how to properly hurt people all the time if she finds herself in a bad situation😂
If she ever snaps and kills me one day, it will be at least partially my fault for telling her how to do it lol. "Never use a knife like that baby. If you want to get the kill, dig and RIP it out like this"
And of course, martial training takes only a season to progress from beginner to master; the ONE fulfills every aspect detrimental to the Villain.
Got it? It's all about box office, and make sure viewers get the money worth in terms of show duration. Hence the first Victim must die, no matter how silly the way they are murdered.
Pft I started trained then I had a tough child hood but I thought there was this whole survival instinct thing. My cousin scared me cuz I thought I was home alone in the first thing I did was punch him in the throat and kick him down the stairs and you telling me some dude has you by the throat and you ain't going to do nothing about it
panic and fear is something you have to train to be able to handle... and even with enough training, there's still the possibility of panicking under a real life situation
and this happens, because there's an entire cocktail of hormones than run though our bodies when situations are real, and that is something you cannot quite replicate during training
Not as unrealistic as you think someone has attempted to kidnap me twice I have also been physically and mentally abused my life and I actually have dislocated knees and I have punched people in the throat. You can do a lot more than scratch at people's arms And die
The other things you said sound fine but that one where you take advantage of guys…. It’s like relying on your parents your entire life. Except one is just lazy and one is a little bitch.
Look never said fighting for your life was honorable if they have a weakness exploited if it means you're not laying in a puddle of your own blood on the floor
Like I'm sorry man I was unfair as it may sound to you if some dude trying to murder me or rape me I will punch you in the throat and I will kick you in the nads if you didn't want
physical harm to come to your man bits maybe you shouldn't attack people
And I don't recommend kicking a girl in the crotch because it doesn't really do anything it won't help you get away.
If your life is on the line you aren't going to give a s*** if what you do to defend yourself makes you look like a little b**** as long as you leave alive
Well firstly, I don’t attack people in general. No one should of course. Although, to counter these *cough pathetic methods used by many, if not all, I’ve done a lot of observations and used a spiritual version of VR to create three Battle Styles. They are called Bonsai, Prime, and Riot. I’m just saying. Having financial difficulties is better than eating cheese and crackers from the toes of opposing hobos.
What does financial difficulty have to do with someone attacking you.
Dude the whole point is how people who no nothing about fighting in movies or in real life basically do nothing but get choked to death I only said the ball thing as a example of something someone could do instead of doing nothing and dieing.
Your focus be on the wrong thing but you do you boo I'm going to bed ✌️
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