What is your most toxic trait?

Question

I hold severe grudges and I don't let go of them. I can, but I choose not to. I don't care if it festers there. I don't care how it makes me feel. That fire doesn't go out and will burn the one I have an issue with, no matter how long it takes.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Accepted Answer

I think that my stance of ''loving everyone'' equally is toxic at times.
My wife and family members alike have expressed discomfort with the fact that I keep the same smiling friendly persona I do with strangers, and that I consider everyone in my community my family and not just them.
The truth is, I actually toy with the idea of being able to abolish family and other concepts in favor of an utopian, utilitarian community where everyone is equal and identical, with no individuality left, a bit like workers in a factory.
I scare myself because I admit I have this little dream of becoming some sort of cult leader figure to booth...

Sonorous · Accepted Answer

Probably one where I don't do an action out of fear. Which could cause myself or other people to suffer more if circumstances didn't work themselves out in our favor.

For instance, someone doesn't kill a spider in their home out of fear. The spider gets away & has a billion babies. And it just so happened that the spider was a poisonous one. And now death is closer around the corner than expected.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Im bossy and have been since I was age 3. I’m also judgmental but tend to zip my lips when called for if its going to hurt a specific persons feelings. Lastly I love to talk about myself. I’ll go on and on all day if you dont stop me. I dont think im selfcentered nor that great nor better than anyone else but I just think I have lots of interesting shit that went down in my life and love to share.

skyeee_ · Accepted Answer

i cut people out of my life (who have done things to me in the past which made me uncomfortable) without warning, i never really try to fix it by talking it all either because i find it pointless.
i also sometimes blurt out things (without thinking) that i regret later

Account · Answer

1. I shut down, disappear and refuse to see anyone for days.
2. Very distrustful.
3. When someone betrays me, I don't give another chance. I feel nothing for them and it happens instantly. I do not process the feelings of the pain the betrayal left me. I somehow skip it. I don't know how I developed that mechanism.

HighlyVolatile · Answer

I'm an adrenaline junkie addicted to thrills. It has some pros. I tend to be the calmest and most level-headed person during dangerous situations and emergencies. Yet the desire to live life on the edge tempts me towards doing some very stupid and reckless things at times.

IMuser · Answer

I blame others (my parents) that because of them i have self esteem issues, that I am weak

I succumb to sexual thoughts and can't control them

I feel suicidal and can't stop my brain at nights

I can't talk to people because I feel really awkward

Ultimately, i drive people away from me and i am selfish.

PrettyPriya · Answer

I doubt this will be considered "toxic" but it often does me a disservice. I am too trusting of people too early.

Lauren-green · Answer

Um my toxic trait is looking at something / someone doing something and thinking “yeah I could do that” even if I definitely couldn’t lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

Northernlights25 · Answer

Temper. I might not look like it but I have a scary one in certain circumstances. But I work on it every day and it's gotten way better over the years, by the grace of God. It is only with Him that it has been able to get better, and it's very freeing to not have to get angry so easily.

DarkCarousel · Answer

My anxiety sometimes causes me to go into a panic mode where I shut everyone out for a little while or I cut them off completely.

Cherry234 · Answer

I can be really vocal about certain things and I've gotten into some nasty internet arguments with people. I still feel bad about what I said on some occasions. But at least I'm self aware.

ohshee · Answer

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zaharuh · Answer

I can be really mean sometimes when I'm emotional and I also open up way too fast about some things with people I'm not close with

rabbitzzz · Answer

I can be a little passive aggressive at times without even realizing it.

Lovesims3plumbob · Answer

I have trust isuse with some yonger women that i didn't like since they always causing drama and tried to temp guys to cheat when i was in a relationship. some happen in college and one happen in diffenent college. i has bit of jelous

TwinTonyz · Answer

I've learned it's easier to capitalize on an insecure girl's problems rather than fix them because she'll run away from you once she's better.

Crazycookie23 · Answer

I have the world's worst trust issues that causes me to forcefully push everyone away that tries to get to close to me

Wester1967 · Answer

Not going harder against Nazi right wingers

FilmGuy93 · Answer

For a while, the problem was that I had an extreme amount of internalized anger. I have worked passed that now, but I'm not too sure what my most toxic trait is now.

AndrésC64 · Answer

Yeah, I'm pretty bad, or good depending on your point of view oh, and holding grudges. I can be pretty judgmental. But I've been working on both of those in therapy.

Anpu23 · Answer

Im overly ambitious. Sometimes I can forget that people are involved and just trample them on my way up.

Brandi555 · Answer

It takes me a while to let someone get close to me because I have trust issues. But once I let someone in I care for them so much it’s almost to much. Like I will put them before me.

In_Trance · Answer

I tell people the truth even when they don't wanna hear it. People get butthurt real fast

Citizenkirk · Answer

I'm a lot like you accept that I do care that it festers. It's a corrosion of the soul and arteries.

pleasestopthis · Answer

I can be pretty ruthless sometimes and cruel also, I tend to use words to hurt people who have hurt me.

ANDYB88 · Answer

I get antsy and restless if we haven’t had sex for a few days. I know it’s a rubbish trait and I’m working on it

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Mine is putting guards/walls up and chasing girls/women away when I'm scared they won't fall for me

collie22 · Answer

i can get really angry when i get triggered by certain feelings

Juliette1994 · Answer

Same I remember bring up in every arguments I have with people.

Anonymous · Answer

I am incredibly stubborn. I refuse to be wrong. Ever.

anton_dee · Answer

I csn hold a grudge till the next Ice Age

TallAnon · Answer

Apathy, I can lose interest over small things.

Harleigh90 · Answer

Probably emotions

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I can be very stubborn

sunflower00 · Answer

I’m very sensitive

QuietRunner · Answer

holding on to disagreements with others

fonduegirl · Answer

Not feeling guilty

CubaPirate · Answer

Intolerance levels

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