What’s your toxic trait?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don’t trust anyone and when I do form some sort of bond and get close to someone, I’ll leave them so I don’t end up hurt

Uptowngirl88 · Accepted Answer

I enjoy being a lone wolf, I prefer to be unbothered, I don't like people

razelove · Answer

Toxic? I don't know about all that, I'm so clean I sneeze bleach. I do have to watch myself when dealing with strangers to not mess with them too much though. I enjoy toying with people to a ridiculous degree, not online, that's just boring, but my favorite game is to get someone to tell me everything I can get out of them while saying as little, or nothing at all about myself. Winning that game is to get secrets to spill while you've evaded saying your name.

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Dragonpurple · Answer

I am way too patient. Seriously people don't think that is a toxic trait but usually what happens is I'm so patient and I say nothing cause I'm not a whiny person (that also might be considered my toxic trait that I don't whine or say anything.) I'm often ignored even though I'm standing right there and eventually I get to my breaking point and I lose it.

One time I stood in the checkout line at Walmart for 45 minutes while two people in front chatted before I lost it and then they were both like, oh we didn't see you there why didn't you speak up? Oh cause I shouldn't have to you have eyeballs don't ya.

It was a slow day, not a lot of people waiting to check out. The cashier called her manager and said I just showed up and started screaming at them, I had him check the security camera and sure enough, there I was the entire time.

Like I said though, most people are too impatient, there is such a thing as being too patient... I probably should not have been so nice and just waiting to be checked out as that is like boiling water, sooner or later it boils over.

ChurchOfSteel · Answer

I would say my most toxic trait is aggressiveness. Or irritability. Like... I don't enjoy that, and I control it fairly well, but some aspect inside myself really just wants to rip people apart if they fuck up. That's not healthy, and it's not leadership either. And I do damn well with that generally, but to be a leader, it requires me to set aside everything in myself and focus solely on this other person and think from their shoes. And that's difficult. Very difficult.

Sometimes, when I'm stressed, I don't have enough willpower left in the tank to hold that dog inside of me down. So I would call that my most toxic trait. I do pretty okay reigning it in, though, I think, because I stay aware of it for the most part.

Adam1978 · Answer

That I don't waste time being nice when someone has made a mistake while doing something I pay for. I bluntly just point out their mistakes and that they need to be corrected. In my experience if your nice to people who makes mistakes they don't take their failures seriously and keep doing them or ignore fixing them. I always have to come back later and be more harsh which means the mistakes has been around for longer. Some people can experience that as toxic, to me it's a life lesson learned. And I also learn who to deal with.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I find I get offended more easily than I should - like today I was in a zoom group and somebody asked a question and when I tried to answer I got muted cause the host immediately assumed I was trying to make trouble and disrupt the flow of things and I think she should have respected enough to give me the benefit of the doubt and this is not the first time she did it - it seems every few weeks she will mute me when I’m not being disruptive - and there were also a few times where I waited over half an hour because she forgot to include me on the email list for people who are supposed to get invited to the zoom group - I do not like her but I think I should learn not to take things so personally.

Siren777 · Answer

"I think he knows. When we get all alone. Ill make myself at home. And he will want me to stay. I think he knows. He better lock it down. Or I won't stick around. 'Cause good ones never wait."

Toxic trait: I never wait.

If i'm given a reason to stay I will with someone who wants to make it work. Any type of ghosting, blocking, mind games, childish behavior... I won't be pissed or mad. I move on. Idgaf.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know toxic traits to whom you're referring?

Toxic to others: I'm intellectual and mature. Some people can't handle me, while some are intrigued by me.

I don't have strong personality. Some people think that everything would all be about themselves, some complain and whine about every little single thing while I keep calm.

Toxic to myself: I'm overly nice and caring. If I offer to help someone with one thing, I would end up going out of my way and making it inconvenient for myself to help that person with other 2 things all done at the same time.

I don't have strong personality, so people who do, will try to step on me.

NathanDavis · Answer

in sports, I used to be very competitive and demanding with myself, and sometimes i would ask that too from friends and teammates, and I was just 8 years old... lmao, I had to beat that out of my something and I did eventually.
As an adult, sometimes I was too harsh with myself, but that's water under the bridge.

TwinTonyz · Answer

I'm extremely paranoid that my partners are going to leave, but that's a self-fulfilling prophesy so I actively repress and counter that.

Clingy for sure. I don't like being alone, and it starts getting agonizing after a while. This is another one I'm repressing, but more difficult than the last.

Is over-commitment toxic? I'm usually willing to make things serious very quickly. This usually turns out bad for me. I've made zero moves on fixing this. Lel.

Máiiréad · Answer

i’m very:  dramatic blunt/straightforward ANXIETY Overanalyzing Weird? 🤷🏻‍♀️

chukio · Answer

A toxic trait that I have been told was that I can be cold/mean... which I was actually unaware of doing at times. Keep in mind that this was my first ex which was the first thing that popped into my head was the moment she told that, it still makes me laugh because I was completely unaware

Z1pTD · Answer

Bargaining, 100% bargaining. Since I was a little kid I’ve always been really good at getting people to agree to something or believe what I say because I’ve mastered the art of bargaining while not being pushy lol. All my friends and family always talk about how I should become a business man

dragoblack · Answer

I tend to be negative all of the time because i know people could do better, but choose to feign ignorance, greed, selfishness, and/or stupidity, because it is easier than recognizing the full reality around them. And i have self-loathing issues stemmed from 23 years of constant rejection and being told that I'm not found attractive.

Meldrum · Answer

When I was racing I was an arrogant fuck. I couldn't be beaten, even by the big money guys. When they would come up to me and ask me how I can drive the way I do, I just told them it takes balls. You either have 'em or you don't. That usually pissed them off.

Anonymous · Answer

Not always in keeping with my emotions. I can be clouded with whatever emotion keeps building up.

I push people away if they get too close, but I want them to be close enough to not get lonely.
I have only said 'I love you' to the bad boyfriends, and never really to the one that actually deserved it.

penneva581 · Answer

I try to be open-minded but I still end up judging people if their opinions differ from mine. I criticize my mom for being bitchy I'm exactly like her. I have anger issues so there's that but I'm trying to change that

Account · Answer

I don't give second chances. Once you screw it up, it is over, no matter who you are. I cannot forget the vices of others. Very suspicious and a pessimist.

Flamesofcinder · Answer

Am stubborn to the point of taking things way to far and am very immature and will stop at nothing too back at a person who fucked me off. This is why am working in myself too not be as bad as am normally. Baby steps and am getting there i hope.

Biancam13 · Answer

I have a fear of intimacy so sometimes ghost people, and I can be two-faced due to my dear of confrontation.

Archerer · Answer

I don't know if it's toxic but I can really get under people's skin by always questioning everything. I'm like Socrates, intelligent, always looking for deeper meaning, and so annoying it literally killed him.

Hannah_le · Answer

I get clingy and get paranoid a lot if the person will leave me.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

I wouldn't go so far as calling it toxic, but I guess my main weakness is when I sometimes overthink situations and lose touch with the ability to see and act clearly in the moment.

Bluumac81 · Answer

I tend to be highly cynical and critical.. i hate this about me and have developed quite a good filter to keep me from saying the things... and trust me its not just being critical of others its being very critical of myself

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Does having BPD count? My mental illness is my toxic trait? 😂

HuTao · Answer

If it gets me somewhere or somewhere quicker, I do not mind breaking a few laws. And for relationships... I am not really emotional, or show no reaction when most would, even when alone

BUNroaster · Answer

I dont think I am... I honestly feel like I'm too anti toxic for women. Like I've had to put on a facade like I was an ass hole just looking for pussy a few times just to get them to look my way. Its insane to me now though.

Minahh · Answer

I wouldn't consider them toxic but they can get me in trouble sometimes. I'm a professional procrastinator but also perfectionist which is a real struggle. I'm also really stubborn and have many unpopular opinions.

I-C3_ME · Answer

I can be an ass sometimes, i always hate myself after but I don't know, it doesn't go away. I'll just keep on working on it

livelife1018 · Answer

Assuming things about people/pushing people away👌🏼

Sonorous · Answer

I tend to be robotic, socially disconnected & nihilistic.

taeh_ie2 · Answer

. I tend to be codependent in relationships and lose myself. . my head is like my own prison always fucking me up. . I give more then I receive.

JackSmy · Answer

I say what I think, and don't sugar-coat the truth! Seems that a lot can't handle the truth!

caligirl03 · Answer

Loyal to a fault. I've put up with far too much shit for way too long as a result.

Li-Na · Answer

Apparently, I can be stubborn at times. Ngl, I'm inclined to agree.

Kas19 · Answer

I can get irritable with people, especially if they're being stupid.

Anonymous · Answer

Mine is that I have very low tolerance for people who use words like "toxic."

Floppy2112 · Answer

I may not always be a peach, but I am damn sure not toxic in anyway. I have faults like everybody else.

Snickermarstwix · Answer

🤔 I don't have one. I mean, I'm not perfect but toxic is a strong a*s word. Perhaps that I don't fully agree with the SJW, I mean it's 1 toxic thing right?

alexander3244 · Answer

When they go low or I don't agree with their criticism I might explode or hit back but that happens only if they irritate me for a long enough period of time.

IveGotNoName · Answer

I get jealous. But I wouldn't call it toxic, because I don't act on it, it's only toxic to myself😂

Dontaaa · Answer

I get pretty hard on myself for even the smallest of mistakes.

John_Doesnt · Answer

I will date almost any redhead girl or Asian girl. It's not a fetish, just a preference!

exitseven · Answer

I am unforgiving. It takes a lot to get on my shit list but once you are there, forget about it.

shade_19 · Answer

Anger   And not letting an argument go until I don't feel it's all cleared up

Lucious22 · Answer

Anger rage, mostly used in video games tho, I’m very kind otherwise but easily triggered

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I'm not toxic at all. You can classify my indifference as toxic if you like.

OddBeMe · Answer

I get manic (from chemical depression) and overly critical. My wife calmly informs me I’m manic and I calm down. I love her so much.

Guanfei · Answer

I'm extremely insecure, which means I'll often spend a lot of time apologizing, need reassurance and probably leave when I feel like I'm bothering you

Anonymous · Answer

extremely low tolerance for stupidity and people who don't use common sense. and i have a habit of bullying back people who bully me or try bullying me it gets to the point if i have to use a weapon when someone is bullying me i will and won't hesitate to pull a weapon out to use on a bully

Anonymous · Answer

I don't complain or argue about relationships or friendships. If I'm not being treated well, I just end it and move on.

RenegadeSailor · Answer

Been through enough shit growing up that when a relationship turns into drama I just walk away.

JSmuve · Answer

I low-key get some level of enjoyment from watching other people struggle in life

Anonymous · Answer

I expect the loyalty i give to be returned by my partner

graciebear · Answer

I can be arrogant and superficial. It’s my defence mechanism. And also if I don’t like someone at all I completely ignore them and I don’t even try to get to know them. Lol such an ice queen

Anonymous · Answer

Hussys on social media and so forth when I am with my man.

s2firestar · Answer

I have none. I keep people 3 feet away from me, but I am usually super nice to everyone.

sp33d · Answer

The occasional outburst triggered by excessive lack of common sense.

smahala1991 · Answer

I often act on impulse more than I should I get excited too easy

SirJohn42 · Answer

Letting others get to me allowing my anger out when people are being so fake.

Anonymous · Answer

That glorious IDGAF attitude. Some people might see it as toxic. I call it freedom...

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