Is being comfortable with someone important to you?

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RobT312 · Accepted Answer

Yes. And not just a girl you are romantically involved with as your picture suggests.
i only surround myself with friends and family that are comfortable to me.

hanging around people that make me tense or aren’t compatible with my personality is just not fun.

and if you are comfortable with a girlfriend or spouse the relationship goes typically well, you can tell them everything, and the sex is better... lol

KevVickinz · Accepted Answer

No, I can't afford to be picky about anything, if I get a girl thrown my way ima jus be greatful I got one at all... Cos I've been single my whole life, I wouldn't care if I'm not comfortable around her, aslong as she looks good I'm happyBut when it comes to male friends... Maybe slightly... But I'm uncomfortable in everything I do and feel embarrassed 247 anyway so it don't really make much difference

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

My environment around me is very important to me. Things have to be just so so. Like I want my apartment to be clean and when someone comes over and disrespects that and trashes up the place I get very uncomfortable with that. Some people are hard to be comfortable around. Someone that has stiff body language and doesn't know how to carry on in a conversation, well, that's out of my comfort zone.

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Without i wouldn't spend a second with another person. I don't even bother talking to someone who makes me uncomfortable, unless the situation needs me to speak up but like you get it

TheMVPofGaG · Answer

Of course. As a certified LAZY PERSON, doing nothing is the best thing. They have a phrase for it in Italian culture: Il Dolce Far Niente: The art of doing nothing.
You see, if I'm not comfortable with total silence and doing absolutely nothing with someone, I want to go home :) So yes, so so important.

honeynut-scenarios · Answer

Very. I think it’s a red flag if I’m constantly feeling nervous around someone. I’d choose a person who I can be myself around, and is equally as goofy.

NathanDavis · Answer

comfort is a must...

DermalPunch · Answer

Isn't it important to everyone. Eventually I'm gonna let one rip 💨 and I need to make sure they will still be there.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, if I spent time with somebody that made me keep looking at my watch to see how much longer I had to spend with this girl I would think the relationship is not going anywhere.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Very important to me, being able to just let you guard down is so nice. If I can't be myself feel comfortable with them, then I distance myself

Clairvoyant · Answer

Yes, if I’m not comfortable it means I’ll barely be talking and won’t really talk about my interests.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Yes. Id love for a girl to put her head on my chest and go to sleep. Or the reverse. I like putting my head on a womans chest/tummy. It's comfortable especially after a bad day. Comfort is very important.

jshm2 · Answer

Well... sitting with creepers and loud mouth assholes isn't a good way to spend your time, is it?

clampfan101 · Answer

Nah, their presence causing fear and anxiety is perfectly fine! Feeling nervous if not terrified by people around me is fun and exiting! 🤣 Seriously, am I misunderstanding the question?

innerman · Answer

If someone ain’t comfortable with you, they will always portray a false version of themselves. How will you become close when they are lying to you about who they are

Koalamate · Answer

One of the most important things in any friendship or relationship.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Yeah it makes a lot of stuff go more smoothly in a lot of areas in life.

Anonymous · Answer

Yea. Whether it be friendship or a romantic relationship I think feeling safe and secure in it would mean that you’ve chosen good people, don’t you think?

Nagatoro · Answer

Yeah, if I'm not comfortable around someone it shows

tponderingundead · Answer

most definitely. otherwise, i'm not going to talk to that person at all if i don't HAVE to.

Zygum · Answer

I want to be comfortable when I am with some person

Angeliki1996 · Answer

Somewhat. It shouldn't be too comfortable, or you won't grow.

Apulu_3 · Answer

For a shy girl like me yes it is important.

Desconhecida · Answer

I say it's the  most  important thing.

OddBeMe · Answer

It should be important to everyone.

Now_Here · Answer

For?

dustybiker · Answer

Comfy equals safe.

pixie215 · Answer

100 percent

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah if I see them often

AvaOneLasTime · Answer

Yes, very.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Absolutely

Alyssa_11 · Answer

Omg so important.

XXblack88 · Answer

Ofc it is

MountAverage · Answer

Extremely.

Klinklins · Answer

Yess

Iron_Man · Answer

Why sure it is

Joker_ · Answer

Sure

LadyKayy · Answer

Absolutely!!

Anonymous · Answer

Of course.

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