How can I stop myself from disliking women?

[Anonymous]

I don’t want to dislike women but ever since I was a child, women have treated me like shit. I remember as far back as when I was in preschool I was the only boy in the class and our teacher made sure to treat me worse than all the other students and would explicitly say it was because I was a boy. Women have never redeemed themselves for me as I got older and now seeing all these misandristic women spreading hate so freely on social media like tiktok and twitter it just makes it so difficult to like women. I don’t want to dislike women but it’s hard not to

[whirled_up_girl]

It sounds like you feel the way you do because of the women you've been exposed to in your life and when it comes to social media it can be very easy to find the worst of the bundh lurking around. That's why I stay away from screeds on twitter, Tiktok, even youtube. I'm sure I could find hundreds of misogynistic screeds but that wouldn't be representive of all men even if I could find many of them on there. Is there any way you can meet women even just casually in settings where good women are, volunteer settings etc. not to date necessarily but maybe that would help you to change you perception? I know I had some female friends that had bad experiences with men but after working with good men or doing volunteer activities it helped change their perception. Just something to think about.

[Secret6620]

You probably can't stop because you've already developed this mentality. I would suggest just dating men and stay far away from women so you don't get triggered. It would be bad for your mental health.

[Asker]

The tongue in cheek was really unnecessary

[Secret6620]

I have no idea what you're insinuating but If you're easily offended you should just get off social media honestly. I said nothing offensive. Most guys who despise women prefer to be with men. That's a proven fact.

[Asker]

“Most guys who despise women prefer to be with men. That's a proven fact.” This is also not a proven fact just so you know

[Secret6620]

Oh Jesus. Please get help 🙏

[Secret6620]

Seek professional help 😇

[Asker]

It’s almost as if that’s why I asked a question. If you’re insecure just say that instead of wasting my time. You don’t need to go around picking fights with strangers on the internet to make yourself feel better. It’s really unbecoming

[Secret6620]

I haven't read anything you've been writing aside from the main post. Your opinions are not my concern. Seek professional help. And Jesus loves you.

[Secret6620]

I'm going to mute 🔇 this post now! Best wishes ❤️

[Asker]

Like I said, just work on your confidence. I understand how it is for black women, typically seen as bottom of the barrel so you feel the need to be overly aggressive to compensate. It’s okay, I forgive you for your transgressions

[Secret6620]

Jesus loves you. Get professional help 🙏

[Asker]

Same to you, a life coach on self esteem will help you very much

[UniquelyBasic]

Since this seems deep rooted in who you are it might be best to seek out a professional.

[Anonymous]

have you ever dated or had sex with a women? has there been any women that you liked?

[Asker]

There have been, but the last girl I was with cheated so that didn’t help

[Opinion Owner]

cheating isn't uncommon so you can't blame yourself that it happened , covid too the last 2 years have been really boring , in my town everything got canceled and we were bored to death. so the recipe for someone to get bored and want something different

[OneNineZero]

You don't have to like them as long as you are not doing anything illegal you should be good and trust me if you allow women in your life they will just treat you like shit AGAIN

[Anonymous]

Accept that they are working from a different playbook then men would be the best advice I can give.
I always keep low expectations of people in general. It keeps you from being disappointed.