What personality trait do you wish you had 🤔?

[JoyGirl]

This question is inspired by @MCheetah ‘s question…
What's your best trait?

So, what personality trait do you wish you had?
Tell us.🤪

[Yucy_Gluttony]

MY SPIRIT, A side of it! I also answered it on his question. I am a relaxed person, I'm quiet but if someone would walk up to me to talk, I would welcome the chat! But would I go out of my way to talk, be the center of attention, and go out of my comfort zone? No. But I want to.

Every now and then, some kind of switch happens that I have no control over. And when it happens, I become who I want to be. I become a full on extrovert chatty life of the party person. I'll befriend strangers and can talk to them as if we knew eachother for years, I'll make everyone laugh. But the next day, I'm back to my normal self. No I don't take medicine, no I don't get drunk. I can't recreate it, I barely remember the people I befriended or how I even did what I did.

I want to gain that 24/7 that side of me

[DarkWinterNights]

Have you ever gotten a diagnosis? Maybe a split personality? Something neurological? That’s a very strange and fascinating situation.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

No I haven't 😅 I think the thought of having your child be seen as 'different' must have been embarrassing

[collie22]

sometimes less of a blabber mouth would be good

[Vendela]

Probably being more carefree

[Vendela]

thanks for MHO

[JoyGirl]

You are welcome. 💜

[crossdressingrihno]

Positivity

I'm a very negative person and that is one of three weaknesses I have and probably my biggest one

I am have a negative personality I'm insecure about my looks and my depression makes me rather slothful at home. When I'm at work I will go the extra mile but the moment I go home I'm lazy very lazy.

[NathanDavis]

I could use a bit more of discipline and self-care, definitely...

just to keep up with better and good habits, and slow-down or just cut off some bad ones, mainly with my diet and my sleeping habits, lol

I still do well enough, though

[Lionman95]

I'd like to be more spontaneous. I have a hard time making quick decisions because I'm kind of a perfectionist I don't do things I'm not 100% convinced of.
So from to time I regret the decision I made.

[DermalPunch]

Oh God how do you live this way! Seize my friend. Seeeiiizze!

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

To remain clam when I am in my regular mood.

I know that I am deadly calm when I am angry, but when I am in regular mood around people, then also, I want that calmness. I am working on it.

[DarkWinterNights]

I wish I was more assertive. I can be very aggressive and strong willed, but I hate arguing with people or starting problems over little things and it ends up enabling people to treat me poorly or take advantage of me.

[MCheetah]

I wish I had a stupid-level of confidence. Like, so confident, it defies logic, reason, and reality. Like most women on OF.

[ChrisMaster69]

Friendly, empathy are likely 2 that could come in handy.

i am with people I know, but basically fuck everyone else sort of thing,

[jennifer_bloom]

I wish I was better at noticing little physical details, I think not noticing is one of my biggest flaws. Also I wish I had a higher pain tolerance.

[1stranger]

I wish I was more relaxed, free and extrovert.
I don't want to be so prescriptive.

[kinggeorge007]

Extroversion. I wish I had the ability of talking to anyone flawlessly. I'm kind of an ambivert. I don't have any issue with talking but I never initiate and don't continue.

[exitseven]

I wish I could be more positive. I am a glass half empty kind of guy.

[DermalPunch]

My bravery. I will be terrified but if it needs to be done, I will do it.

[DermalPunch]

Oh I was confused. Which one I wish I had... to make the abstract into the tangible more easily.

[glennos89]

Being more spontaneous and being able to fully open myself when I meet someone new

[bigpauly]

I kind of wish I could engage more in small talk. I feel I could connect with more people if I was better at that

[DermalPunch]

Just get them talk about themselves.

[bigpauly]

@DermalPunch I will try. Thanks for the advice.

[Vendela]

@DermalPunch 😂😂 easier said than done

[clampfan101]

I want to be an ambivert instead of an introvert.
I hate being shy, but do like being calm and serious.

[Likes2drive]

My personality is pretty good but I wish I was more bold when it came to asking out women

[ShadezMcgee]

Either unshakable confidence or charisma.

[Bricealan]

Patience, discipline,

[ArtemisSilver]

Is a six pack a personality trait?

[TrillXHippy]

It’s best that I stay how I am

[Agape93]

Empathetic

[Andres77]

I'll say...😉

[Agape93]

Say what?