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Trending & News Why do so many (not all) women have to think of themselves as perfect or impervious?
Like women who aren't 10s (nobody is a 10) if they get any options that say other all of a sudden think they are just ugly. Like what can't they seem to be happy with themselves if they think they are anything less than perfect?
Or I know a girl who has to act like a tough girl, always with "if I was in Blank" situation I would bear there ass". Again if you proved that they may be helpless in some situations and should maybe be more careful, they loose all confidence and don't want to leave the house.
So Why do some women's confidence come attached to unrealistic standards?
It's OK to love yourself as a 6,7 or 8, and it's OK to realize there are situations where we would all be vulnerable, so why pretend your the hottest girl on earth or that you could take down a crizzly bear if it touched your butt?
Why don't (most) women ever take accountability or blame for any of the wrong things they do and instead always blame someone/something else for their own problems?

What do you feel would be the best way for both genders to avoid sexuak violence?
I'm actually going to answer this one
Avoiding sexual violence is going to be rather difficult because while not every man is a sex offender and most men these days don't have the mental ability to actually violate a woman there are a group of people out there who are like that because they are just bad people they have something wrong in their head and I don't know what that thing is
Though if you want to avoid sexual violence I would suggest getting a self-defense class and carrying around a weapon unless of course you're in one of those stupid countries where you're not allowed to defend yourself and in which case I guess carry a cell phone and have 911 on speed dial
If a man wants to avoid sexual violence they can probably just punch them
Would this go over very well? Well no not really because even if they are successful at stopping the woman from violating them they are now going to pick up charges and go to prison but at least they stop themselves from getting violated in some way
And the final universal one for both men and women is to simply be incredibly paranoid about what you put in your body
There are ways to make a man involuntarily erect by having them digest a type of "medication" if you will and everyone knows about Bill Cosby so I don't even think I need to explain that men make a roofie
Education, educate everyone what mental problems come after a sexual violence while they are still so much of a child
@Agape93 the very first thing I would do about that is to actually prosecute sexual violent offenders and criminals
and they should be prosecuted by default and by authorities... there should be no requirement for the victim to press charges (as long as there is credible evidence and due process, of course)
and I also think we should not be lenient at all with those who have been sentenced... they should go straight to jail and for years... without a chance to be bailed or their sentences reduced
the best way to avoid sexual violent people is to just place them apart where they cannot longer do harm to others
now, I know this would be very tricky and it would also represent many challenges, however!! the best ways to deal with complex and complicated situations do not have easy solutions
I would ask them their favourite personal quality in a woman.
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such a question would be no use for me. let me make a very extreme example to explain why such a question doesn't do anything for me.
assume someone suffers from a mental condition. not saying women have a mental condition. just for sake of argument. and then assume because of this mental condition, this person believes that they were abducted by aliens which of course never actually happened.
so what do you think would happen if i could force them to answer 100% honestly if they were abducted by aliens... exactly. i would get a honest answer. but i wouldn't learn anyhting about the truth. because what they believe to be true is not congruent with the truth.
I dont really have a clue because each person is different so each question would be different . And so it's your question . So I would want to ask you. But I was going to ask you telepathically LOL so soon as you read this answer the very first thought in your head you have to tell me what that is and the second one too for some reason I think it would be the second answer it's just try that and see how that works LOL I honestly think that you could do it
Do you have any idea how deeply insulting the friéndzone actually is? Do you realize its not a sex/romance issue but actually a respect issue for men when it comes to this? That is we want respected as a real man by being told the truth early?
Why do you keep on insisting that it’s okay to be “just friends” with a man who is interested with you?
Why do y’all overthink so much? We’re actually very simple
How important is a man's penis size for woman on a scale from 1 being not important till 10 being very important?;
What's the biggest dick you ever had the size of a baby's arm
I'm 55 years old, number one it was a joke and I complied it to your rules. I know everything I need to know
Why do you keep running back to men who have wronged you?
why men cheat on women they love 🙃she's pretty , hot and nice why would you cheat?
I think you would get different answers for different people most of which come down thinking with your feelings and lacking moral conviction.
@Reem12345reem the chances are that they didn't really love them in the first place
also, they could have stopped loving them after some time
at the end of the day, people who cheat are weak people... so even if their love were to be strong, they're still going to be weak in character and will end up cheating anyway
it is a very complicated subject at times... and other times is just as simple as they're not honest people nor capable of truly loving someone as they really should which is with genuine honesty
Why do you complain about everything? Even when we give you a solution or reason you still do it.
What do females really think about when they are single and lonely
So the same thing as a guy. Just as I thought
What is wrong with you?
Have a seat and tell me your problems
why thank you ^^
@HeartFullOfGlue I can't resist carbs!! the bad ones are the great ones too...
@NathanDavis
Mhm, I seeeeee
What do you feel guys tend to overlook the most in dating? Like what´s the thing you would like guys to acknowledge more when they date a woman?
Why did you mess with that flare gun? no i gotta buy new pants smh
:P
Have you ever wished you could punch a woman in the face as hard as you can?
No, I never liked that much violence
More often then I like to admit
@qmt8112 no... not even a man
because I've actually punched people and I am trained for it, so I know how it feels and the many consequences of it
to wish for it and even be excited about it, that's not a good thing
@NathanDavis 😯 you are trained for it? That's hot. Do you mind if I ask why you are trained for it?
@qmt8112 well, some of my relatives are into Mixed Martial Arts, and there's also friends of mine who are amateur boxers and kickboxers as well... and then, it has been one of my hobbies to learn a bit of everything, train and practice with them
there's also kind of needed in my region, for protection and defensive purposes, of course... lol
it is also part of growing up as a guy, sometimes you just can't avoid this situations
@NathanDavis just for the record I’ve never hit a woman in my life. Unless you count my kindergarten incident when I punched a girl in the stomach for stealing my toy (lol). I got in trouble for it.
But honestly there really are specific incidents were men ARE justified to hit women. Most obvious is when a woman hits a man first. There are women who openly abuse that double standard.
@globetrotter22 I do not agree with that... I do not think you are ever justified to hit a woman, punching a woman on the face is an attack, not exactly self defence...
if a woman hits you back first, I do not still see that as a justification to attack her back, why... because I surely am, and also, most men are more than capable to restrain and stop the woman first, and this is all you could really need to protect and defend yourself
and by the way, this is the same I try first, also with men... I do not attack back, I restrain and control them when I can, now if that does not work, I can put them to sleep for some seconds and then the situation would be more under control... so yes, I would choose to that as well with a woman that is incredibly strong and absolutely out of control
there are many other sensible, smart and safe options before you just attack and strike back violently against a man or a woman
and since you are mentioning double standards... you would feel justified to strike a woman right on the face if she attacked you first, but I am sure you also feel you could do this since you are way more likely to be stronger and bigger than her
but be honest about this, if a professional boxer like Mike Tyson slaps you first... or a trainer MMA fighter like Bas Ruten hits you first, right on the face... if a trained and experienced NAVY Seal is out of control and goes all Krav Maga on you first... well, even if someone well trained like me attacks you first, go ahead and tell me you will be the one that tries to punch and kick Myke Tysons ass just because he started something against you
I really doubt you will follow through with a fight and the consequences of it against a man... the same you would against a woman that is weaker than you
@NathanDavis your wife will be lucky to have you in her life. (If you believe in marriage). She would feel completely protected. That's a huge thing for women. Especially for me that's like my number one huge turn on lol. The fact you don't abuse your power and knowledge and you are smart about it. Wow... That's hot. Because there are guys out there that learn martial arts and they act like such a big shot and act like they can kick anyone's ass. It's obvious they learned nothing mentally. When you train your body, you also train your mind. I've learned martial arts as well. It's like you are learning to protect yourself but you also have to be smart. Not try to fight everyone and just use it if you absolutely have to. At least thats how I studied martial arts and how the instructors taught it.
@qmt8112 right, that's absolutely true... keeping the right mindset and approach is a must, and that is always in the best interest for yourself, as well for those around you and in your life
one thing that many people who have never been in fight before won't understand is how dangerous in can be strike someone on the face... if you do it with enough force and with the wrong angle, you can cause them a serious injury from that one hit, but not only that... if they lose balance or conscience they could fall right away, and if they're not able to protect themselves from that fall, they can easily hit their heads on the street, the sidewalk, hard floor, furniture, a vehicle anything that could even kill them
and it would be a direct consequence of your one punch... and then you will be facing prison, and will have to leave with the fact that you just killed a person because you were not able to control nor measure yourself
@NathanDavis have you ever trained in martial arts?
@globetrotter22 among other things, yes
What’s it like to be lead on by someone who showed interest in you first?
How many people of the opposite sex do we get to ask the 1 question?
"Want to hang out?"
what did you think when you first recognized you are a female and males are different?
I would like to ask '' What do you think about me? ''.
Why do women find healthy, mutual-supporting relationships, "boring & uninteresting"?
Oh I have done that. But who knows how honest they really were
I’d ask, what do they really do with the child support money they receive every month… I know less than half goes to the child and to the bills..
i would want to know why they play games, with guys, why confuse us when we are just trying to get to know you?
what's that so good about cheesecake though?
it is... lol
but I am not much a fan of it
Mmm, cheesecake. Yum.
@PrettyPriya double slice for you today (= 🍰 🍰
@NathanDavis From now on, when someone asks for your opinion on food, I will give it to you.
@PrettyPriya lmao... I'm up for that
will you be giving me cheesecake though?
@NathanDavis Depends. Misbehave and perhaps yes.
@PrettyPriya tempting... but you know I behave, lol
@NathanDavis I do. All too well. 🤣
@PrettyPriya well...
right, I do, for the most part
I would ask, “who do you think is the most Giga Chad out of these three people: Richard Watterson, Handsome Squidward, or Mike Wasowski”?
How big of a dick do you want your partner to have?
Do you care more about looks or a woman's personality?
Looks is the first thing you notice in a person, and what causes us to approach. And if we see the personality is cool, we continue to pursue.
For a hook up, who cares about personality but for a serious relationship, surely personality
@babygirl_s I have always cared way way more about someone's personality
but I have only been in exclusive and committed relationships that have gone for years, so that is big part of why their personality matters this much to me
I’d ask them if they like black guys because most of the time they seem to want to avoid the question. I don't know if its because they don’t want to offend me by saying they do, or if its because they don’t want to come off as racist or something
Why do try so hard to make yourself miserable?
Litterally every guy you've met since you were 16 liked you and would have went on a date with you.
How can we communicate together.
Thnx hun. 😇
@Beerluvr not really… guys think so but they r usually lying to themselves and us.
That´s a really good question. I´ve thought about for some time and I´d say that women and men need to stop taking for granted that the other gender knows what they want. We need to speak and talk things out but with patience and trust so that people don´t speak at one another but instead people talk to each other.
@Lionman95 yes exactly y I said my question. I think guys lie to themselves r like I say… don’t know
Communication is easy but honest communication is not. The best way is to earn my trust and be direct. It always works on me
@ImNoOne111 yes my boyfriend says what he wants all the time n it’s easier for me to trust that he has our relationship as priority. So if he wants me to do something I do it for him. I’m jus submissive that way.
@Chiarac2003 we can do that openly, timely, calmly... and with honesty
when people genuinely dedicate to it... it is more likely to work well and for the better
@NathanDavis I tot agree.
@Chiarac2003 usually, the best is to seek for an agreement, but that is not always possible...
and when it is not so possible, we should aim for understand instead... just so we can be able to see where the other people are coming from and why... this does matter a lot in proper communication
@NathanDavis exactly… my boyfriend n I have our sort of agreement with my rules and his expectations of me. I do have a set of basic rules that should adhere to. There is the ability for him to add to these if he wants. And I know that I’ll be punished if I don’t do what he said or breaking any of the rules. I do know that it’s for my benefit to learn from my mistakes.
@Chiarac2003 as long as both are willing to, and also into it... that seems like quite the arrangement the two of you have
@NathanDavis honestly im lucky to have him to luv me enough to take the time to worry about me and coordinate my daily routines and to protect me. I try not to disobey his rules and simply do as he required of me.
@Chiarac2003 to each... their own
@NathanDavis yep.
Girls, how does it feel when you begin to feel Pregnant?
Why do they choose the republican party, knowing what it does
I’m always curious about how often a girl pleasures herself so that’s what I would like to ask a lot
why are they so manipulative when it comes to how they use sex to get what they want. i’d feel like u would watch girls die inside having to answer that truthfully 🤣
Why can't you go to the bathroom alone
you know that can actually be done on this site, right?
Why do you lie about your feelings
For some it's get girl in to bed. For others girls say I love you before the guy is there. guys wants say I'm not there yet. But be big fight. So to avoid all that more easy to say it back
@Luckycharms12 don't understand what u mean
Guys lie for 2 reasons. 1 to sleep with a girl. 2 because she says I love you first. And if don't say back there normally a fight. So more easy say it back and hope feel that way in the future
@Luckycharms12 but none actually forces you to be in a relationship you don't want
Nope it doesn't that's up to the individual person
@Luckycharms12 yap
Because we were always told to lie about them. The image of masculinity the society pushes trains us this way
@linka_pat307 I do not actually lie about my feelings..
but sometimes I have kept them to myself, I have hid them before due to some circumstances in the moment
but the most likely reason for people to either hide or lie, mislead or deceive about their feelings is because they are not ready to face them themselves so to be open with their feelings with others... will be forcing them to face or address something they really do not want to do or just can't do at the moment
but again, these situations might vary... depending on the actual context and the different people involved
Because we want to smash
How do you honestly think about men especially their body and body hair... do you ever feel superior and better than men
What does they look for in men?
What's your darkest secret?
@LaFemmeFatale_1 I hold no secrets... for those who are close to me, but that is discretion
Why does it seem like most women are so crazy and like drama and gossip
Isn't that mostly what we're all here for?
Tbh, I wouldn't even wanna ask a question.
Why are you too quick to get off
Im not. I take 20-30 minutes to get off
Hahaha ok 👍
@serious_miss419 I am not entirely sure what you meant with this question...
Why don’t you like sex as much?
Will you keep loving me till we get married !
Do I look decent? That would be my question.
I've no idea tbh
😂😂
Am I ugly?
What does the inside of the vajayjay feel like
@jjj101010 meaning, on your penis?
just way way tighter...
@Mollymolly377 well that is an option, I just meant with your own hand
Do you really like bras
I wear a bra because I am insecure. I have small boobs so I don't need to wear a bra. But I wear one still because if I don't I'll look flat chested. I feel like wearing a bra makes me look more feminine, makes my figure look more feminine. I don't have the guts to go without it and I don't mean to wear one to trick a guy into thinking I have bigger boobs. If I am dating a guy, I'll probably be honest and tell him. I don't know if that's healthy like I shouldn't tell a guy that. The bra size I wear though is usually a A cup or B cup.
I respect your honest thank you
Why are you not a millionaire?
Am I cute?
What dick size is best
am I funny?
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