Are you loyal or unloyal?

[TheMajesticKing777]

It's a straight question with a simple answer, there's no in between, this goes by any type of loyalty and unloyalty, if you stabbed a friend in the back, cheated on a partner, snaked someone, you're two faced, it's all the same and these are all examples of unloyalty so yes or no?

Don't lie to yourself lol

Yes

No

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Yes=loyal. No=unloyal

[NathanDavis]

I've always been loyal by nature... and nobody has ever questioned me before on that, because it has been proven with actions and tested over the many years I have been close with people

one thing I will not do though... I will never compromise my own principles if you do wrong, and I will not back you up if you intentionally mess up and do wrong

in that case, what I owe you FIRST as a friend is to put you straight and back on the right track, and not let you make a fool out of yourself

[TheMajesticKing777]

I guess that explains the good vibes I get from you dude 💯

[NathanDavis]

yep, gotta watch out for one another as well...

[TheMajesticKing777]

💯💯

[NamerOfStars]

Yes, I am loyal or disloyal (not sure what "un" would be in this context). D whink you forgot how your question was phrased halfway through it.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Yep it makes no sense, I changed the question at the last minute cause the question was too short, I forgot to change the poll, the original question was "are you loyal?" Lol

[Apulu_Imback]

I'm loyal mostly but I'm unloyal at times too. My mom is thinking that I am preparing my future to be a politician but I'm betraying her by actually working for a future of music and writing. Sometimes I am just too tired to maintaining it. I said her several times that I can't do what she wants but she won't listen. I don't have any option. I know I'm doing something morally bad. I feel guilty for it too but if I came so far then why stop now?

[TheMajesticKing777]

That's not betrayal, I think she might be stepping a bit out of line by forcing you to do something you don't wanna do

[DizzyDesii]

I dont think i am which is why i never tell people i am. Im committed in a relationship but not to anything outside of that. Im not committed to a job nor friendships. I’ll quit them when i get good and ready. I commit when in a relationship but i wouldn't say im dedicated. I dont try as hard anymore to ask someone to stay if they want to leave. Unless its my fault, fck i look like beggin when there's a bunch of fish in the sea

[DizzyDesii]

I’m loyal to myself and I try my best to stay loyal to the Lord

[TheMajesticKing777]

There's a difference here tho because there's a difference to moving on and cheating, there's a difference from separating and backstabbing, these are all choices you made for your own well being and these aren't unloyal choices, these are actually the proper ways to dealing with the situations, there's always a good and a bad choice

[DizzyDesii]

I feel i made the right choice and a good choice but i dont think what i did showed loyalty.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Then what would you call it

[DizzyDesii]

She had self respect and was loyal to herself and her morals

[TheMajesticKing777]

She was loyal to her partner as well tho cause she didn't cheat 😂

[TheMajesticKing777]

Actions speak louder than words

[DizzyDesii]

Ever heard of emotional cheating? Lmao. Im speaking in general, not regarding her. But i just dont think thats relationship loyalty what you’re referring to. Its more about self respect and morals

[TheMajesticKing777]

Thing is that you can't always control your mind, I don't believe in emotional cheating cause or minds can accidentally drift to places we don't want it too, I don't know if you noticed but you can't really control your thinking until you control it, if that makes sense 😂

[Vendela]

Your poll doesn't make sense in correspondence to your question. Yes, I am loyal.

[TheMajesticKing777]

I see that now, damn

[Vendela]

😂😂

[Twalli]

I'm extremely loyal, to the point when most people don't believe me. If I play for a team I will go 100% for the team even if I played 100% for the opposing team the day before.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Isn't that a form of betrayal towards the other team tho? 😂

[Twalli]

No, because at that point they're not my team. When we played blacktop soccer in my elementary school I was always picked first. Not only was I a particularly violent defender (I didn't take out players, but I had the ability to make their shots go wild), but the captains also knew that I didn't play favorites.

[TheMajesticKing777]

I know I was messing with you dude lol

[Anonymous]

Where do I fall if I was tempted to cheat, but ultimately didn't?

[TheMajesticKing777]

Loyal cause you fight the temptation and make the choice not to cheat

[DizzyDesii]

But is it really loyal or just not wanting to fck up your rep? Cause i was tempted due to an emotional connection but didn't allow myself to get physical. So I broke off things first. After a few days or weeks, i gave it a go. So i dont think that makes me loyal. Leaving someone you love is not loyal. Considering cheating is not loyal. I just didn't wanna go down for life as a cheater so i broke it off first. So yea i did the right thing for my rep but i wouldn't say i was loyal or dedicated to the guy

[TheMajesticKing777]

Thing is temptation will always be a part of life, it's mentioned in the Bible that the devil will manipulate and tempt, your choices are what matter and it's what shows, she was tempted to cheat but didn't, it was a loyal choice, cause an unloyal person would've cheated

[DizzyDesii]

But it was loyal to our morals and religious beliefs. It was not being loyal to our partners lmao. Because you’re usually happy to be loyal. If you even consider cheating then you’re not happy staying with the mf you wanted to cheat on lol

[Opinion Owner]

@DizzyDesii Yep, that's about it. I was in a relationship where I felt very neglected and unhappy. Some guy was flirting with me, and I just liked that I was being payed attention to for once. But I didn't want to have it on my karmic record that I was a cheater. I didn't want my girlfriend to ever be able to say that I cheated on her, and use that against me. So I didn't cheat. But there was really no chance she'd find out, I wasn't worried about hurting her. More than anything, it was the idea of karma that kept me from cheating. It was a bad relationship. That doesn't justify cheating, and I don't regret my decision to stay loyal, but I still understand and sympathize with my past self for being tempted to cheat.

[DizzyDesii]

No i agree with you girl. Karma and religious beliefs and morals are all reasons i wouldn't go through with it either. Its so much easier for girls to cheat too, like he wouldve never known. But i would know. And God would know. I can't live witth that. So my loyalty to myself and God stopped me. Not my “loyalty” to the man who made me unhappy 🤣

[TheMajesticKing777]

This sounds like a good and logical reason to temptation on wanting to cheat and it explains it, my words stand, she chose to stay loyal even when her partner didn't pay any attention to her and she was unhappy in the relationship which makes her a stronger person considering she felt so alone most times and felt a form of attention that pulled her and still made the right choice, if it's not loyal then I don't know what you'd call it but considering her situation and her holding strong and still making the right choice says it because anyone loyal wants to be loyal when unloyal people just don't care, temptation is everywhere so I vote she loyal still lol

[Opinion Owner]

In a way, I still feel bad for having been so tempted at all, so thank you for saying that.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Our minds can accidentally drift away and in very emotional situations that's when our minds take advantage of that and can end with results like these

[belle_kai]

Loyal until you make me question it.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Wdym by that

[belle_kai]

If you've given me a reason to question and doubt it and its not returned then I'm loyal to that point.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Fair enough

[AFretiredTXn]

yes cheated

[TheMajesticKing777]

Why?

[AFretiredTXn]

Looking for a little more action.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Fair enough