Yes I am. That doesn't mean that I find what others are doing as objectivly wrong, just that it's wrong for me. I sort people into categories based on what they say, their oppinions, what they want and how they prioritize. I used to be open minded but as I've aged enough experiance give you patterns to human behaviour. You learn what kinds of people you get along with and wich ones to avoid, being judgmental helps with that. Ofcourse, somtimes I'm wrong about somone but it's becoming far less common and the times I've saved myself trouble because my judgement of somone proved right far outweights any gain from being open minded.
I'm actually a pretty open minded person. The only time I actually judge someone is when they do something I consider very bad. Life is very complex and we don't always know how we'll react to any given situation. However, if you do anything that is actively hateful, I'm going to be less inclined to give you the benefit of the doubt.
yes and it is easy for me to notice when someone is judgmental towards me, it is in their words, their expressions, their tone, someone is definitely judgmental to seem baffled by another person's presence
I am too, paranoid. In a way. although I try to manifest inner peace and dominance by showing them no attention and showing them my impression of seeing through their bullshit
“But test everything; hold fast what it is good (1Thessalonians5:21).” “He is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways (James1:8).” “See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ (Colossians2:8).”
No. You learn that one with experience. The few times you cave and are it’s always the wrong people, having taken them completely the wrong way. I wait until someone has dug themselves four feet down before tossing the dirt back on them. Even then stop and pause before doing so wondering if it’s even worth my time. Usually not.
I was going to say this exactly. These are the same people who are comfortable with canceling and deplatforming people for their views and blocking them.
@Agagagagaga Yep. They see certain categories of people as naturally deserving to be judged and other categories of people as beyond reproach. It’s true prejudice.
Are we not all judgmental? Do we not all past subtle judgments on people as we see them? Would you not pass judgment on a thief? Or somebody pissing on a building in public?
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