I need help with this?

[Anonymous]

Why do guys switch emotions out of nowhere? As in one time they love you, the next they're with some new person, And then back to you? or it's like one time they're obsessed next you're some type of dust particle?

I have no idea?

I'll dm with an answer?

[boggboss]

Its nit most times its a guy playing games because he knows with a few words he can get u back so he gets to drift apart and get fun elsewhere whilst having u as a safety option

[Asker]

So should I let him go? Or give him a chance?

[boggboss]

If u need to ask me that its pretty clear

[Asker]

I don't know?

[SiberFox]

Because he's aiming for something and some girls make it easy, since he doesn't have to commit to get what he wants he can just cycle through girls by telling thwm what they want to hear.

[Asker]

Oh, so maybe I shouldn't give too much attention and love, and etc?

[SiberFox]

Establish a relationship before sex, and don't bother with guys who have a carousel of girls waiting for him.

[Asker]

that's the problem, he doesn't want a relationship, but sometimes he does, it's like on and off

[SiberFox]

Drop him, indecision makes for a poor boyfriend

[Guy13]

Guys do this. Women, who smother, can elicit this kind of change

[Asker]

kind of confused?

[Guy13]

Either he wants to tryout random eye-candy or getting to close is not in his plan. Women who grab ahold fully…where this is in their Nature can help clarify the guys commitment level. Sometimes, it just is what it is…

[Asker]

I guess?

[Guy13]

I’m a guy with decade plus lived experience. I’m pretty sure, generally, this is how we roll.

[Guy13]

decade more experience given your current age…

[Asker]

okay, thanks

[JakeS00]

Playing games with you

[Asker]

is there a reason why he's doing that?

[In_Trance]

Probably because you give too much too fast

[Asker]

So I should stop doing that? Though I did for a while, but he cut me off, and I do have attachment issues, so I guess he got what he want?

[In_Trance]

That's your problem; you need to change that. If he likes you he'll stick around and if not you, didn't want him anyways

[Asker]

though I do want him , it's like he's a need not a want?

[In_Trance]

Desparation is unattractive. You have to Play the game

[Asker]

so I should let go? and have him come back? [if he ever does?]

[In_Trance]

If you let him go he's not coming back.
You just need to loosen your grip.

[Asker]

so I should get over him?

[Asker]

so if he leaves, it won't bother me?

[In_Trance]

I think you need to make decisions that are right for you. With all due respect you need to become a better player at this game

[Asker]

what game?

[In_Trance]

The dating game

[Asker]

As in how?

[In_Trance]

As in you asking this question to begin with