How can I tell if I'm worthless?

Question

I can't think of anything good about myself. Nothing at all. At the same time, I can't figure out how to change to be as good as everyone else. I'm scared.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You have low self esteem, you can only resolve this by learning to love yourself.

This isn't about other people, it doesn't matter what other people have or what other people can do or are doing.

You have to try to make the best of your situation, whatever that maybe, try to develop yourself and explore your interests, make connections with people and share experiences etc, try to live in the moment and enjoy / value your time etc as it won't come again.

Look up self love and validation etc, there are tons of resources online so shop around (you dont have to spend money) and find the person who puts things in words that resonate or work for you, everyone has their own style but most of it is repeating the same sort of thing.

Essentially you need to act towards yourself as a good friend or supportive parent would, being a positive influence etc.

You will find you will be much happier, more capable and productive etc if you tell yourself you can do things rather than telling yourself what an awful person you are.

Lucifer_01 · Accepted Answer

No one is worthless on this earth. I know how it feels. feeling worthless, feeling empty, suicidal thought, and much more, when I research on it I found that, that the same problem with everybody else, they don't find anything good about themselves, even though they are prefect, that the same problem with you, you are feeling too much. You think too much, you are an overthinker, you are just scared to change, changes are good they make you mature and helps you to take better discissions in life.

I HOPE YOU FIND HELPFUL.

DDBella2011 · Accepted Answer

You're not if people treat you that way that's on them cuz that's a reflection of them and how they feel about themselves. Move on from people like, because who gives a shit what anyone thinks I sure don't, I love me and I am the only one that matters anyway.

exitseven · Answer

I really had to restrain myself from making a snarky comment because I realize this is serious. You are not worthless, you may have a perception problem. I am sure that you have plenty of good qualities and if you used some of them to help others it will increase your self worth.

jimmy2 · Answer

I hope this helps you: at your age I was in church with my family and they were singing count your many blessings. I told God I can't even count one blessing. Now at my age I know I have so many blessings from that part till now. So don't worry love life and live it

slatyb · Answer

Can you get some counseling? It helped me when I was going through a divorce and felt pretty worthless myself. I wish I had done it earlier.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Well pick something and work on it then. A blank slate is s wonderful opportunity. Pm if you like.

Keepitreal007 · Answer

I’m right there with you. I’m the fungus that feeds the scum.

Anonymous · Answer

Nobody is worthless! Girl sounds like you need to be more confident in yourself. No one is worthless remember that. Just remember you are a beautiful person.

Anonymous · Answer

Do you have sex with minors? Do you commit murder or rape? Do you physically abuse others or animals? If you answered no to these questions, then congratulations, you are not worthless.