How can I stop feeling worthless?

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Basically I only fully trusted one person in my life and that was my boyfriend and we had gotten engaged not to long ago. He's the only person who I excepted me for who I am or bothered to get to know me better than a acquaintance. I also have some body issues like I have ovarian syndrome so I have things like male pattern hair growth and what not so I have always been self conscious. Well I found out he was fucking around on me with some stupid home wrecking tramp and yes I mean home wrecking tramp because I'm not the only person she did this to she has broken up 5 other people. I just feel so dirty cheated and used and like I'm not worth anything and I have no one to talk I'm alone and betrayed

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Madhatter920 | 87 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Guru

I'm sorry to hear that. It's not all bad, though. Better to be heartbroken by the truth now than to find out what kind of person he really was years down the line. It's saved you a lot of time you can now spend on someone who actually deserves it, whoever that may be. Take your time, don't rush, but I'm sure you'll find them. When you're ready, put yourself out there and you'll see. It'll all be alright.

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Not likely I probably won't date again I'm not a social person I met him online and he was my only friend for 5 year's before we got together

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Not likely I probably won't date again I'm not a social person I met him online and he was my only friend for 5 year's before we got together

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20yearsolder | 61 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic.

Yoda

You can blame her all you want but weren't in a relationship with her. If your boyfriend was actually loyal, he wouldn't fuck a super model if she spread her legs for him. That being said, you were engaged to a douchebag. I'm sorry it happened to you. I'll talk to you anytime you want to talk

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I was mad at him but I'm pissed at her because she needed some place to stay and I let her into my home and gave her a bed to sleep in but didn't think twice about stabbing me in the back for my kindness. And I do agree I am angry at him to
20yearsolder

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She's a piece of shit. I didn't know the circumstances. I'd have killed the bitch
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And when I found out about it all the bitch did was smile like she fucking won.
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You don't know how bad I wanted to knock that smile right off her face. Oh and the first place she fucked him was my car the one I used to pick her up from her " abusive husband" who she ran right back to after helping to mess up my life
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But I did my composure I didn't hit either of them I didn't even raise my voice

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I was mad at him but I'm pissed at her because she needed some place to stay and I let her into my home and gave her a bed to sleep in but didn't think twice about stabbing me in the back for my kindness. And I do agree I am angry at him to

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20yearsolder

She's a piece of shit. I didn't know the circumstances. I'd have killed the bitch

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And when I found out about it all the bitch did was smile like she fucking won.

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You don't know how bad I wanted to knock that smile right off her face. Oh and the first place she fucked him was my car the one I used to pick her up from her " abusive husband" who she ran right back to after helping to mess up my life

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But I did my composure I didn't hit either of them I didn't even raise my voice

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Anonymous

Just go find another guy who’s looks appeal to you, like all other woman, forget compatibility or emotional connection, it’s all about looks with you whores, then you cry and complain when this happens, yet I know for a fact your whore ass would reject a great guy who’s average looking haha.

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Um my fiance wares Glass has acne a "dad bod" and plays a lot of video games. I'm not sure what u have in your he'd but he isn't " hotty" and he's actually the only person I dated I had a thing for nerdy looking boy's but thanks for calling me a whore and saying I Chase after after" hot people" it's cute that u think boy's like that even see me as a one night stand.

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Um my fiance wares Glass has acne a "dad bod" and plays a lot of video games. I'm not sure what u have in your he'd but he isn't " hotty" and he's actually the only person I dated I had a thing for nerdy looking boy's but thanks for calling me a whore and saying I Chase after after" hot people" it's cute that u think boy's like that even see me as a one night stand.

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Anonymous

Well, I hope you dumped that clown and you are focusing on moving on. But to answer your question, try doing something nice for someone less fortunate than you. In fact, do a lot of that, and find ways to take your mind off of what bothers you.

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Already tried to but I tend to do that normally anyway. Like I even gave all my coworkers Christmas presents. Granted I do that every year but whatever
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Finding a new love interests would help too.

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Already tried to but I tend to do that normally anyway. Like I even gave all my coworkers Christmas presents. Granted I do that every year but whatever

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Opinion Owner

Finding a new love interests would help too.

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havingfun101

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I'm single, mostly by choice; at least you're in a relationship.

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I'm not anymore.
havingfun101

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Oh, well, enjoy you freedom... oh, you're a woman... well, just wave to handsome men and they'll do the rest. Marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows, so don't be afraid to try a little harder. Good luck!
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Dude it's not that easy I'm not the ideal girl I'm not Malibu Barbie I was only ever with him fuck he's the only person who gave me the time of day
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havingfun101

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Don't argue with me. I said wave to (reasonably) handsome men and they'll do the rest. I've passed up dozens of women. Men approaching women is largely an illusion in the modern age. Thanks to anti male laws, men don't approach unless they know she is interested or unless he's completely oblivious due to being dumb or cocky or both.
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Dude I wave to pretty much everyone just because I'm polite
havingfun101

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The Youtubez: shut up and dance! (Tutorials) 🔊🎶🎵🎶

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I'm not anymore.

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havingfun101

Oh, well, enjoy you freedom... oh, you're a woman... well, just wave to handsome men and they'll do the rest. Marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows, so don't be afraid to try a little harder. Good luck!

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Dude it's not that easy I'm not the ideal girl I'm not Malibu Barbie I was only ever with him fuck he's the only person who gave me the time of day

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havingfun101

Don't argue with me. I said wave to (reasonably) handsome men and they'll do the rest. I've passed up dozens of women. Men approaching women is largely an illusion in the modern age. Thanks to anti male laws, men don't approach unless they know she is interested or unless he's completely oblivious due to being dumb or cocky or both.

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Dude I wave to pretty much everyone just because I'm polite

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havingfun101

The Youtubez: shut up and dance! (Tutorials) 🔊🎶🎵🎶

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pinudown

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Start improving yourself

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Fukaroo

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Be creative.

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What do you mean?
Fukaroo

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Do something artistic no matter what it is. Bring meaning to your life.

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What do you mean?

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Fukaroo

Do something artistic no matter what it is. Bring meaning to your life.

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