Why does I feel worthless all of a sudden?

[Anonymous]

I have a good job, a rented flat. My family is happy with my average salary and average life.
After my breakup I was depressed, so I used that to focus all my energy towards studying.
And finally landed this job.
And after landing this job I thought she will take me back but no, she didn't.
But whenever I see her around, I suddenly feel everything was futile. I work this hard for nothing.


It's hard to replace her or find someone new. No girl is interested in me.
I really want to feel worthy, wanted just for sometime.

[BoopBoopBeep]

It's so cliche, but nobody will be until you are. Even back when on paper, I had moderate at best appeal to the opposite sex, I came to learn that confidence is sexy (not because somebody said so, but because the more confident I got the more attention I got), so you gotta work on that my brother. Not to confuse that with arrogance.

You said after the breakup you focused on you and got the job. Take that life lesson. For the next 6 months focus on you, not the future her, and make yourself into someone who is confident that you bring something worthy to the table. You got this my man. You already proved you can do it. Now just do it again.

[strateguy632]

you answered lost love caused. but you can hope to find a new lover and search.