Have you ever felt like you need to make significant changes to your life to be happy, but don't know what?

[Anonymous]

I can't keep doing the same things and expecting different results. I know that. I just don't know what to do... I'm really confused, and don't know how to get clarity on it. I'm at home now at 33(scary number), even though I can afford to be on my own... I don't know where to live. My company does not care if I come in to the office or not, so there is no pressure to live near there (I used to work in NYC). I am not a city person, but I get that being near one would probably help me meet a woman or make more friends, but I really don't know where I want to live. I also want to run for significant political office, and I am conservative, so I really can't be in an area like that for this anyway. I have no idea what to do! I feel so lost. :( I also need to start driving more... and haven't been... not sure why really.

[PeteBy]

I had a really bad 1995/96 with family/friend's death's, emergencies and all the in fighting that goes with it. Made a life changing decision at 22. I went on a two week adventure of Canada and met my American girlfriend. I just broke all convention, sold everything and moved to the USA in April 1997. It was a leap of faith. Would it work out? I didn't know. I just did it. Sometimes you just have to jump into the unknown. Was it the right decision in hindsight? I think so. No point having regrets. Make a decision, your decision; nobody else's and see where the path takes you.

[Asker]

Met how?

[monkeynutts]

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_D._Huberman

This guy is great to listen too, it's what is giving me motivation at the moment.

[Carina0]

Sometimes when you feel lost you have to change something in your life unexpectedly. You just have to feel your control over your own life. I think it's pretty amazing feeling. Radical changes can make you feel better or maybe worst but you cannot know until you try.

[Katebfun]

Just start small, big change seems to happen with little changes to your daily routine. If you don't know, write down things that make you happy and are passionate about and do more of that.

[sheikalana]

Used to feel this way when I was a teenager and in my early 20s.

[Asker]

So how did you change? Sent you a follow request by the way

[Jamie05rhs]

What would you say is your MAIN problem right now? The most pressing one. Start with that, and then go down the line and tackle the others.

[Jamie05rhs]

Send me a PM if you want to talk further.

[BLP11520]

Sure, losing weight