What do you do when you feel like you need to make a change and you don’t know what it is?

Anonymous
I’ve been sitting at home through the pandemic and I am not moved anywhere yet because I can work from home and I don’t know where I want to go. If I had to go into my office I probably would’ve moved close to NYC, the thing is I don’t really like being there except it made it really easy to meet women. I’m pushing 33 now which is scary, I mean when the pandemic started I was 30 which is getting there but at this point I’m getting very concerned. My top priority is meeting someone. I don’t want a few more years to go by and be in the same place. I just don’t know where to go.

I’m also fairly conservative and I have political ambitions, which means I’m not going to be able to realize that if I’m near an urban area that leads the other way. But honestly I care more about having a partner right now. I’m so confused. I also want to travel more, ideally with someone else though. In the past couple years I’m finally in a good financial position to do that.
What do you do when you feel like you need to make a change and you don’t know what it is?
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