Are users worse than players?

[ChicanaChick]

Meanwhile both are still getting into the girl's pants, one actually does more damage.

* The player is either done and over with after getting sex or just comes for sex. Nothing else.

* The user however doesn't stop at just sex. He can also fake a whole friendship, relationship and even get money from her. One of my friend had the bad luck of her first boyfriend actually be a user, a PUA. She got used for friendship, relationship, sex and money.

Therefore are user actually worse than players?

Yes

No

[Sixgunsound]

I give women who are old enough and of sound enough judgment to legally consent to sex enough credit to know they getting together with a player and if they choose to follow through then they are OK with that. Users are a bit more advanced because they are able to break through the layered defenses that most women have built up over the years to protect their hearts and bodies.

[ChicanaChick]

Yeah at least the player doesn't have much to it, just sex. The woman can still move on with her life and know some guys are just into sex.
With the user, by the time she figures it out... the damage has already been done not just physically (the sex part) but emotionally and even psychological. She's literally destroyed on the inside and outside.

[Anonymous]

I'm not lookin' for the one

Later, but for now I'm havin' fun

I'm done 'cause I always get hurt

Won't be here for long

Baby, you can hate me if you want

But now I gotta put myself first

We can kiss, we can touch

And do it often

But if you're here lookin' for love

That's when you've lost me

We can kiss, we can touch

And do it often

But if you're here lookin' for love

That's when you've lost me

[ChicanaChick]

What's your point?

[Andres77]

Your description nailed it

[ChicanaChick]

yeah nothing would've prepared my friend for that. She's undergoing one of the worst love deception ever and the bastard still owes her money.

[Andres77]

Wow, sorry to hear that