What do you like about yourself?

[Simple-Simonette]

No negativity. What is something you appreciate about yourself as a person?

[LobeliasA]

I appreciate the effort I put into myself and the ones I love. I appreciate that even when I'm going through a lot of things, I try my best. I appreciate myself when I don't, just because I've been trying so hard. I appreciate the type of person I'm becoming. I appreciate the fact that I never gave up hope on loving myself. Cause now I can and do.

[Simple-Simonette]

I appreciate your thoughtful answer. Thank you.

[YollyM]

My looks, I mean this in the most humble way 😌.
I love my forgiving heart. I'm educated about different cultures (still learning) so I can be around different types of people and know what and what not to talk about. I believe I put everyone at ease when they're around me, I'm miss tranquility😇

[Simple-Simonette]

The people whisperer. People are comfortable around you because they can feel your easy acceptance. A beautiful way to be and I hope you nurture that.

[YollyM]

Aww thanks

[LaneHale42]

I like that I loved my wife and child completely and I always took care of them during that chapter of my life. I paid every bill, I made sure there was always groceries, rent was always paid, I kept everything running. I made love to my wife a million times, I took care of my son every time he was sick. I never hit him once, I bonded with him and spent as much time with him as any parent could ever hope to.

As far as being a husband and father, I did that good.

[Simple-Simonette]

Being a good parent is everything.

[LaneHale42]

I agree.
Children are so innocent, and when you're everything to them, they give you unconditional love, you love them unconditionally in return, and you get so attached. You feel protective and responsible for them. You want to give them a good childhood. You put their needs before your own and being a parent can literally make you a better person.

[Deed211]

My butt. I used to be embarrassed, but then learned to love it. Just so long as I don't wear sweatpants at raves. Even though I'm straight, I tend to get my booty on ;D

For context:

[Simple-Simonette]

Dat ass!

[Deed211]

Lol yeah thanks, you like it? its kinda big AF. It fun having it too.

[Topaz1979]

You have to tell me the filter you used😂😂😂😂😭? It will come in handy in my life!

[Deed211]

@Topaz1979

Lol I used an extra lamp for good lighting in addition to all the bathroom lights lol. The lamp was actually directly above my head.

[Topaz1979]

ohhhhhhh i gottchuu😂🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥! thank you for sharinggg

[Deed211]

@topaz1979

Lol yeah no problem boo, anytime!!!

[Phoenix98]

I’m a very naturally laid back person very down to earth, chill and relaxing to the point that people have asked me if I’m on drugs ( which I’m not ) have the nickname the zen man lol.

never met a person offline that didn’t get along with me or that didn’t like me.

[Simple-Simonette]

I hope that continues for the rest of your life and you can spread that peace to those around you.

[Phoenix98]

So far that’s the case.

[Heolurt]

There really isn't much for me to like about myself. I'm dumb, I'm ugly, I'm male so everything is my fault by birthright and I can only be seen as some predatory monster because I'm male, I've never been and never will be good enough for anyone, being a decent human being doesn't mean shit when you look like me, even my own family hated looking at me especially my mom.

So I don't think there's anything good about me.

[Simple-Simonette]

You need to let go of your burden. My heart is sad for you.

[Heolurt]

I don't know what my burden is.

[Simple-Simonette]

Your burden is self loathing. You are a beautiful individual and deserve love and respect.

[Heolurt]

That's the thing I don't loathe or hate myself, I just started seeing myself the same way everyone else see's me (those who have seen me). All the things I said about myself aren't me being self loathing, they are just facts. I don't self loathe, I also might not see anything to like about myself but I have become completely content with myself.

[Simple-Simonette]

I apologize for armchair diagnosing. There was moment of hesitation for me before I hit send. It didn't feel right. You know yourself so much more that I would based off one comment, and I should have heeded that. I don't agree with how you feel only because it's painful to read. Beauty is subjective, intelligence isn't measured properly, and being male doesn't automatically make you a monster. I hope you find something to like about yourself.

[Heolurt]

Please don't apologize or feel sad in any way. Your comment was welcome, I'm not one who gets mad about anything really, you could've been really mean and rude in your comment and I would've just accepted it at face value, when I'm out and I hear someone comment on my face I don't get mad, sure it hurts because it makes me never want to leave my house but I need to pay property tax as I own my house completely, food, bills etc. So I can't just stay home, I gotta work and not let others stop me from doing so.
I also hope one day I find something to like about myself. I also hope to meet someone genuinely nice in person who treats me like a human being instead of like people tend to, like you've be trying to do online, it's just hard for me to accept it over the internet, last person nice like you over the internet got me to video chat with her saying she wouldn't do what most do and the moment she saw my face she cut the chat and ghosted me, which is why I'll never do that again, it's also why hearing I'm beautiful from someone who has never seen me is the most impossible thing for me to do.

[Simple-Simonette]

I get that. People can be cruel. I am sorry for assuming I know your life. I don't know how to ease your burden but I hope the best for you.

[lilyanony1]

I'm probably too nice.
I always try to see the good in others and have an abundance of patience.
I appreciate most things about myself and my body.
I've not really been a person with body hang ups, not until recently I guess. But I still like and accept my self for what it is right now...

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Physically- that I can always feel attractive about myself without becoming egotistical.


Mentally- How I find the beauty / optimism in everything.

[Simple-Simonette]

Beauty is everywhere.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I'm somewhat of a quick learner and I like learning. I've been trying to learn new recipes and get better at cooking/baking.

[Simple-Simonette]

Food is my love language. Feeding people delicious food is my idea of true love.

[Simple-Simonette]

Keep feeding your brain!

[Paris13]

Independence and Thinking for Myself. xx

[Simple-Simonette]

Hang on to that forever and never let anyone change you. I love it!

[Paris13]

Thanks, sweetheart. xxoo

[jennifer_bloom]

One thing I like about myself is when I want something I won’t give up, no matter how many times I fail when I try to get it.

[Simple-Simonette]

That's pure perseverance and determination. Building blocks of success.

[EllaNella]

i think i have a cute face and a pretty nice body. i also like that i'm smart & a hard worker

i would like to improve my time management skills though, i feel like i idle too much

[FilmGuy93]

I'm a very adventurous person and I'm always doing something. I'd like to think that I'm an interesting guy.

[Simple-Simonette]

Yes! Go out there and collect experiences like jewels. That is really living.

[Anthony20108]

I appreciate my determination my effort and my kindness everyday I've dealt with a lot of I wasn't treated really well as a kid so I want to really be kind to others because hey a smile can really make someone's day 😊 and I grew up poor so I work as hard as I can so when I eventually have kids they won't have to.

[Sour-rose]

I'm black, had pains that many couldn't understand that makes me appreciate the pains so i can be grateful. May be weird how I be grateful to some buuuut :)

[AsaKyo]

I like that I'm a nerd, I guess? I don't know really

[Simple-Simonette]

I love that you are a nerd. Nerds rock!

[Havthrills]

Hard to think of something. I guess hard worker is all I have. Nothing else.

[Simple-Simonette]

You have such more. Hard work take integrity, determination, and intelligence.

[Havthrills]

Thank you.
Got no friends because they backstabed me every time. Last one was a pastor and his family. Over 200 people he's done it to. So I just work.

[Simple-Simonette]

Friends are overrated in my opinion, but I also have terrible experience with that. I'm sorry about your betrayal. I hope you're healing.

[Mynameisbobby]

Hard worker, great listener and great older brother 👍

[Simple-Simonette]

Loving your sibling is so pure.

[Mynameisbobby]

Thanks 😊

[Anonymous]

I'm an honest person and a caring girlfriend. And I love my younger brother and sister ❤️

[Simple-Simonette]

Honesty is so hard to find these days. I'm don't think most people are deceptive, they just want to be liked.

[OlderThanILook]

I'm cute af and I am extremely competent. I can be a bit irritable and difficult, but I'm easy to win over.

[MCheetah]

Well, I'm not an idiot. That's about it. And yes, that IS as non-negative as I can get, if I'm discussing myself.

[Brandi555]

I like my sense of humor. Sometimes people get annoyed but I like to laugh anyway.

[Simple-Simonette]

You be you. Laughter is medicine to the soul.