To be a user or golddigger do you really have to have a personality disorder?

[Anonymous]

I can't never be like my ex boyfriend or other users. They spent a lot of energy and time to exploit others and can sleep good without any guilt at all.

Then here is me:

I can't think of ever doing this to anyone. Even if I found $10,000 or more on the ground I imagine the person crying for their lost money and desperately try to find the person. I don't like holding something that's not mine, that I didn't work to earn it. What I'm about to say might sound naive and probably stupid but I don't have the guts or personality to be a user or golddigger, never did.

To be a user or golddigger do you really have to have a twisted mind, a personality disoder? The moment I were to start lying to someone, I imagine too much overwhelming guilt that I would stop and wouldn't be able to complete it. I can't ever be like them.

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I'm shocked at the way they manage to finish that whole process of taking advantage of others, using someone innocent that trusts them, or even take away their hard working money and sleep well at night.

[macjets007]

Bad people don't need to have a disorder to do unsavory things/have nefarious agendas.

Especially with women, a lot of them (small % but still exists) feel entitled to it. That just means they are an asshole!

People with disorders that have a lack of emotion/remorse are certainly more prone to do this sort of thing though.

[Asker]

Yet there is something twisted about them. Sometimes I still wonder what's so great about taking away something that's not yours and claiming it as yours?
I actually love the idea of working hard for something, then having the courage to actually feel great that it's rightfully yours, that you earn it (the same way a happy farmer would feel about his crops growing after years of hard work) without needing to rely on someone else's hard work, without stealing from others.

[boggboss]

No some people can be shitty without having mental disorders

[Asker]

I guess there must be others like me that would have a super hard time to even lie to someone, that would be a terrible liar if they try. The fact that they can sleep well, taking away things that aren't theirs is shocking.

[boggboss]

Ofc there are others like u for you ti have shit people you are gonna have good

[AsaKyo]

No, they just like money

[Asker]

I like money but only if it's either earned in the right manner (for instance I'm trying to grow my food business) or I won a lottery ticket by random chance. That's different than stepping on someone else and taking away money that's not yours and you didn't earn it yourself.

[Asker]

Earning money is great. Stealing someone's hard working money and being happy about it is twisted.

[Guy13]

No...

[Guy13]

Greed and love of money is not a personality disorder BUT it is a charterer flaw when taken to Golddigger extremes.

[Guy13]

That make sense? Did you come upon one?

[Asker]

Yes my ex boyfriend used me for everything, not just sex. It didn't stop there. He'll never return my money. He owes me nearly $1,300. He was after my parents' properties, wanted me to investigate about my father's living will (why... why would bring up that topic this if my parents are alive and doing well; the last thing I ever want to talk about is living wills) and after my grandma's rents.

[Asker]

Then I end up feeling terrible to hear horrible stories about nasty golddiggers taking away 1/2 of a man's hard working money and assets. Wow.
I can't never be like them or my ex boyfriend. How can anyone be happy about taking away money that's not theirs.