Do you think there's a huge difference between travelling at age 29 and travelling at age 30?

[Anonymous]

What the question says.

In terms of 29 - the world is so big so many possibilities.

30 - I feel so jaded I am too old to be pursuing those possibilities anyways.

Honest answers please. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

One year older and now it’s time to kick the bin on life and rule yourself out as too old? Lol stop it. 30 is not old, and nowadays women don’t even start living life until 30. Mostly because 20s are spent working and building to be in a position to travel and enjoy life.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Oh please! You're not too old to be traveling, trying new things, or having fun!
Go live your life! And enjoy it

[Asker]

I don't know how to enjoy my life anymore. :(

[Little_Bumblebee]

Why? Because you're 29?

[Asker]

Kind of. I don't know my life hasn't been waht I wanted it to be for so long, that now it feels I don't know familiar for it to not be good.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Then change it. You have such a long life - if you expect to not get into an accident and all that.
You're barely through 1/3 of your life.

If you want to travel and you have the finances to do so, then do it! Rediscover yourself, it's never too late for that.

[DryGermanGuy]

Hilarious. Is that skit part of your standup comedy and in which club could I see it? 🤡

[Asker]

I'm dead serious

[DryGermanGuy]

I highly doubt that you could convince anybody that just by turning 30 some biological function broke in your body.
I assume you are in the United States? That country seems to have a society unwilling to think for themselves, but rather in need of many silly little rules: You have to have sex at whichever date; an engagement ring has to cost these many monthly incomes; a woman is old at age 30; yadda yadda… how about you get out by traveling into parts of the world less hung up on insignificances?

[Asker]

Not biological but spirit. The hope part of thing dies a slow death.

Not literally I mean you start to feel you're too old for everything.

[Asker]

You know what I would truly like? I would like to live the life I was supposed to live in my twenties. Maybe this is why ageing scares me.

[DryGermanGuy]

Then you might want to chat with other women in their 30s, 40s or 50s still enjoying life and everything in it? Some of them are on this very website.

[Asker]

What if I just didn't tell people how old I was and continued to lvie as though I was in my twenties.

[DryGermanGuy]

Nobody would stop you. Or as the saying goes, „you do you“. 🙂👍

[Jamie05rhs]

I agree with @DryGermanGuy.

[rabbitzzz]

Yes. 29 is still young. 30 has on foot in the grave.

[Asker]

Sarcasm? I can't tell if you're serious or not becuase I don't know if you realize that the stigma for women turning 30 and men turning 30 is NOT the same.

[rabbitzzz]

Women are most beautiful and sexy in their 30's though.

[Asker]

Not really. Women are most certainly most beautiful in their twenties. I don't know about sexy I mean sometimes a confident, well-established woman can seem sexy in their 30s I guess but beauty-wise definitely twenties.

Unless all guys see this differently and I'm missing something?

[rabbitzzz]

I don't know. I am not old enough to like young women yet. I like MILFs.

[Asker]

We always want what we can't have

[Methis]

I've been traveling over the last decade (83 countries since I was 24) and no there was no major difference between 29 and 30.

[Asker]

i feel very old these days

[Methis]

I get that. But done. Your not

[Asker]

What would you define as old? Someone called Cillian Murphy the young guy and it seemed like whoa he's not young and he's only 11 years older than me.

So it makes me wonder do I have only 11 years old to be not considered old?

[douride2]

There is no difference in traveling at 29 or 30. It is all the same.

[NewsReader]

No difference to me

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. Interesting question.

[Anonymous]

No difference at all actually