Is to normal for a 25-26 year old to live alone?

[Sugar100]

I have family members ask my mom why I live alone and act all confused and it’s fucking weird like don’t they know my age?

then people gossip and say why I’m not living with mom why I’m living alone?

i have my own life, my own boyfriend, will have baby soon, why the fuck people think it’s bad for a grown women live alone? I’m not 15 under age. I won’t be 50 living forever with mom I will have kids obviously have my man have new chapter in life. What the fuck is wrong with people?

[melanieeeB]

Of course it is! I don't know why does people act like that smh when I moved out some also lost their shit cause in my mom's culture you as a woman can't move out without being married but like that's so from the middle aged century or something

I recommend you to ignore their stupid comments. It's not their business and they shouldn't make you feel bad or something. The most important thing is that you're happy, healthy and doing well 🙏🏼

[Sugar100]

Everyone is acting crazy asking why I’m not living with mom? Wtf soon one day I’ll live with my boyfriend or have baby , y everyone wants me just live with mom?

[Sugar100]

Y ur not living with mom? Y she’s not living with mom? Y she’s not living with her mom? Lol don’t they understand I have a man or that I’ll have baby one day n I need own home to live in start my own life?

[melanieeeB]

Hahaha what do they have from asking those questions? Seriously... and also I'm sure your mom can take care of herself or like deserves her own space like you do and all smh people are weird

[Sugar100]

No even my mom begs me to live with her, she tells people I’ll move out and live with her soon so we’ll be daughter mom forveer. Wtf, I have a man, a life, kids one day, I won’t be alone forver with mom.

[Sugar100]

She’s not independent she wants me never life with a man no kids just live with her forever

[Sugar100]

She wants be known as mom with daughter not daughter with boyfriend

[Sugar100]

I think people r just ignorant and they think women cannot move out unless u r married. Maybe wen I have a baby people will shut up and then people will understand I live alone as I have my baby and OWN LIFE

[melanieeeB]

Ohhhhhhh... I assume that's where all the questions come from... your mom is probably telling her side and everyone is feeling bad for her and so they keep asking... Giirl you're not doing anything wrong. Go and build your own life and your mom still can be part of that but honestly our children are going to leave the nest one day and that's good. I hope your mom gets used to that and builds her own well kinda personality as just being herself and not a mom...

[melanieeeB]

I'm sure even when you have a baby, they will come with the "why you not married" questions smh People will find any reason to be up in your business, don't listen to them!

[Sugar100]

LOL RIGHT!

[Sugar100]

My mom tells people lies too about me. I get mad cuz my mom tells everyone she talks to her ex boyfriend or she has a boyfriend , but she tells everyone I have no boyfriend. She just says I’m working. And everyone in my life knows I have a boyfriend so idc. She can continue saying lies , and I will continue my real life be in my own world

[melanieeeB]

Honestly I assume that your mom is identifying herself by being a mom, especially a mom to you and that's why she is acting that way now... and that's also why I said she should be herself and do her own thing as a woman and not just mom...

[Sugar100]

Also my sfudio doesn’t allow visitors nor 2 people living here , studios r very strict so since my mom lies , thats y the lady talked shit said y her daughter isn’t letting her live inside her apartment? Very strange

[Sugar100]

My mom doesn’t say truth to people just feel bad for her stories.

[Sugar100]

Then mom asks if my landlord asks where’s my mom n dad? Wtf?

[melanieeeB]

Why would your landlord ask that hahaha they don't care, all they care about is if you pay your rent lol

I'm sorry your mom is spreading so many lies about you... it's really awful 😞

[Jennz6]

Sugar, get your own place sweetheart

[Sugar100]

I’m 25 why would she ask where’s my mom n dad wtf I’m not a 5 year old lost or living alone LOL

[Sugar100]

@Jennz6 I live alone. I don’t live with my parents. I fight with mom cuz im visiting her for Christmas. I visit her every 1-2 months that’s y I have new story to tell of us fighting each time I visit her

[Sugar100]

Then my mom says everyone thinks u live alone as u want bring men in ur studio apartment at night (for sex) WTF ALL GIRLS HAVE BFS OR LIVE WITH THIER BFS & have sex. I’m not 18 or 15 having sex I’m 25 and 26 next year! how is it bad for example if a girl my age lives with boyfriend then people will say oh she just wants live with a guy alone to have sex, wtf? That’s ur partner. U get me?

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Here you find that very rarely. NOBODY would be ever able to afford living alone in their 20s here. A normal house here costs a million euro, apartments around 700000.

You find people either living together in communities or with their family or with a partner.

A friend of me lives alone in an apartment but outside the country since its cheaper but still has to cross borders everyday to go to work. And he seriously struggles to keep any money.

[Sugar100]

Here studio apartment is $1k cheapest

[Sugar100]

I don’t pay bills.

[Sugar100]

I have a partner but we don’t live togeher as he takes care of mom as she lives alone as their dad moved to Mexico to live.

[Chris42001]

Yeah, they don't make any sense.

Being independent at 26 is pretty important especially if you want to have kids. I was getting married when I was 26 and we had a baby at 27. Maybe those people asking questions feel insecure because their kids never moved out or something?

[Sugar100]

I don't know they ask y I live alone and act so confused.

[Sugar100]

And talk shit

[Sugar100]

Yea I plan have kids next year but he Won’t be born til I’m 26 most likely

[Sugar100]

It also makes me angry as my mom says lies about me. She tells everyone I have no boyfriend and I’m just working. The truth is I live alone, I have a boyfriend, I have business AND. Regular second job. It’s frustrating for her to lie to people but I shudnt care. I will continue living my life and only I know what’s the truth. And she can continue lying saying I have no boyfriend , putting me as a stupid little girl that’s just working 24/7

[Sugar100]

Like always no one in my family understand my life only my boyfriend understands me and only he is in my life no one else

[Chris42001]

I feel for you, I know what it's like to have people lie about me too. I also hate when people are nosy and need to know my business.
You're right, all you can do is live your life. At least you and your boyfriend know the truth.

[Sugar100]

yea also I have toxic family. My aunt cousins and sister in law and her sisters all talk shit of me. Instead of saying I’m a business women , oh they r happy I have own apartment , they talk shit of me n say I don’t talk or I’m mentally ill as a way hurt me. Cuz wen I was a Kid I was shy didn’t talk much& sick had health issues. So due to envy and hating me they use that as what talk shit

[Sugar100]

That’s y I’m happy living alone cutting those people out from my life. It’s just annoying as I visited mom today and she was talking about all those toxic people to me and telling me all the shit they talk about me. I told her please stop those people don’t exist in my life. Stop talking of them they don’t exist in my life

[Chris42001]

I pretty much don't talk to any of my extended family anymore because they're too gossipy, I just talk to my son.
I guess you may have to just ignore them now that you have your own life. That's probably what's healthiest.

[Sugar100]

Yea I’m only seeing mom for Christmas tomrow that’s it. Told her to please not talk to me of those toxic people.

[Sugar100]

I ignore have toxic family cut out from my life , but my mom is the one gossiping what they say of me and stuff. I don’t have interest know anything about them

[Chris42001]

Yeah my mom is the kinda the same. When I go see her she tells me all kinds of gossip about people I don't even know, it's frustrating to listen to it.
I don't like hearing all the bad stuff.

[TheSpaceGnome]

In the current economy most people can't afford to live alone. It is more weird though that you don't live with your boyfriend. Especially if you are expecting a baby soon.

[Sugar100]

boyfriend takes care of mom , their dad no longer lives with them.

[Sugar100]

I know a lot of women that live alone and don’t live with mom / parents.

[Sugar100]

I know a lady she lives with her 24 year old son and his girlfriend lives separate with baby alone.

[Anonymous]

I don't see anything abnormal about wanting to live alone.

[Sugar100]

Yea everyone is like why u live alone and. Not with your mom?

[Opinion Owner]

Living alone is ideal in my opinion.

[Sugar100]

But y people say y u don’t live with mom?

[Opinion Owner]

I honestly don't know why anyone would say that.

[Summeroflove]

I think it’s fine they need to mind their business

[Sugar100]

It’s weird as they want me live with mom and not alone at 25. All women live alone or live with a man why the fuck people want me live forever with my mom? I hav a fucking life I’ll one day live with boyfriend not my mom &marry her wtf

[Sugar100]

All people say is why she isn’t living with mom? Y she isn’t living with mom? Wtf LOL

[Summeroflove]

Lol. Some people just like to judge. I mean if you’re not going around talking about them. It’s not their business what you do.

People like to look down on others because they hate their own lives

[AmeerX]

Living with your Mom isn't bad. She gave you birth

[Sugar100]

Yes it’s BAD. We fight DAILY 24/7 every second.

[Sugar100]

She’s very controlling and I will have baby soon live with my partner

[Sugar100]

Also she wants live in extremely far city middle of nowhere & me and my partner won’t wanna live there. Also she will be angry I have my first baby so there’s no way she’ll move in with me

[Sugar100]

WE DONT GET ALONG ITS NIGHTMARE FIGHTING EVERY FUCKING SECOND SCREAMING !!!

[Jennz6]

Yes, of course it is

[Fuentes]

Yes lol