How do you tell if someone is genuine or not before you are burnt? ?

[Midgetmcwidget]

Also how do you wise up to this as I can't stop myself being nice to people who are nice to me even if they hurt me.

I try to avoid them but if I can't I'm automatically nice. I don't want to be but I can't stop myself.

[Anonymous]

Here's how I do it. Never take her at her words, only her actions. Don't tell me you love me, show me. And never love somebody so much you can't live without them. I don't care how much I like her. I'm ALWAYS OK with ending it at a drop of a hat if needs be.

Never get too attached and you can't be hurt.

[jshm2]

You're not "nice," you're just a fool taken advantage of easily.

The "best" thing for you is to get some better friends you can rely on to help you up.

[Andres77]

that's tough. sometimes u just gotta take the chance.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Happy new year

[Andres77]

Happy New Year, dear.
I hope this year is full of GOOD surprises for you.

[Guardian45]

Test them over time

[Guardian45]

And get to know them