How do you know when it’s real?

[Anonymous]

ut but she knows my schedule damn beer by heart now lol. She’s even said she’d like to see me in person and follows me on ig with her more personal ig accounts since she has multiple accounts some as back ups some for more personal posts. She never hounds me to buy her sexual content unless want to or I’ve told her I’m feeling frisky even then she’ll send me stuff for free and heavily discount prices for more sexual and intimate stuff she send me I’m talking going from 100$ to like 20$. She’s definitely not making much if any money off me, and she does seem sweet and caring and she sways she loves me. But I’ve got trust issues I’ve come to not trust woman from woman who are my friends to lovers I try not to let them know to much cause they alway try to throw it in your face later. That or turn their backs on you but she seems different she’s proved me wrong every and anytime I get suspicious of her. I’ll including photos of some of our conversations I’m the blue and she’s the grey bubble.

[Anonymous]

You don't. You could be with a woman for 10 years. Only to learn it was all an act.

You just pay close attention to the signs and makes your best GUESS.

[Asker]

Im terrible at guessing that’s my problem but man she’s not like any girl I’ve met before and that’s what worries me she’s not the norm and I don't know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing 😭

[Opinion Owner]

My advice, move SLOWLY. If she's not the real deal she won't be able to hide it forever. Time is a guys friend. Not a woman's. That is the one weapon we have.

[Asker]

Thank you for the wisdom and advice I appreciate it 🙏🏾

[OddBeMe]

Damn beer head over heels.

[Asker]

Trust me there’s a lot to like but but despite that I actually would say I’m more skeptical than anything I don't know if it’s the tidy issues talking of if there’s genuinely something to be concerned about about which is why I made the post for some second opinions