Is it true that the strongest people are able to find closure without revenge?

[xJeremyx]

[sheenagwapa]

not strongest but the most religious. but Jesus is real and so that is a game chamger because the more you believe in Jesus the more yoy wanna please him. you don't make any move without consultinh him. when you look the life of Jesus and His disciples they didn't hurt back. the early Christian martyrs never use biolence.


if for example i hve the opportunity to publish a book aboit myself i will not go into details and backbite certain individuals in my book they will be there because they are part of my life stort but the info is carefully selected not to make them look like this super villains. if i have a book it is for people to be inspired and fo to God. it's not for self promotion and for self glory. painting other people to be super villains immediately defeats the message i'm trying to give. it contradicts the very teachinh of Jesus. Jesus is watchinh i don't have to take matters on my own hand

[petitedollbabee]

Finding closure over seeking revenge takes a mature mindset and emotional strength. I think that only immature and childish people seek revenge, as that’s much easier to do than find closure.

[Guy13]

As long as they are not repressing their feeling and pain in that process> They definitely are on a higher moral standard and rare. Good luck with it.

[xJeremyx]

Yea you are right. People who can do that are quite rare. But I 100% respect them.

[Guy13]

Yeah, me too. Takes lots of something to be able to handle a divorce or cheating break-up like the person we’re talking about

[jorfan3]

I think so. Finding closure is harder than revenge. It's also more constructive of character.

[xJeremyx]

And people tend to think revenge gives closure, but more often than not it leaves regret and causes fresh pain.

[jorfan3]

I agree

[In_Trance]

Seems legit. Revenge is small dick energy

[TheSpaceGnome]

Smartest* not strongest.

[Blackcupcake]

yes.

[moonpie89]

I believe it