Guys would you break up with a girl of another woman of your preference came along?

[Anonymous]

My ex once told me he liked his preference more than me. He liked petite blonde girls and I'm the opposite. He kinda left me. Do men do things based on looks and other factors?

I will admit something I'm mentally kinda slow and physically average. I'm only good at drawing and have talent in that and can make money from it.

My ex always liked smart, confident girls but I wasn't one of them I was insecure and awkward and it's kinda who I am...

[Anonymous]

He doesn't deserve you. Don't feel inferior comparing yourself to other girls. Your ex doesn't know how to love you. Instead of assuring with your insecurities, he is building it up more. So you shouldn't care about him or his thoughts. You're the best you can. Indulge yourself into your drawing as you're interested, and build your connections with new people to forget your ex and you can even find more better people than your ex. Make a right choice the next time

[Anonymous]

If you were my friend I'd suggest therapy & make you go. Since you're not mi amigo i can't make you go or really encourage you. It's all on you to do so... i mean you should as you've been struggling with this for a long long time

[Guy13]

No. That’s silly as beautiful women cross my path but my eyes 👀 are set on the one I’m dating. I’m tuned-in. IF for some reason he does not feel in tune with you then he wanders.

[FilmGuy93]

Things would have to be pretty awful in the relationship for me to get to that point. Even then, I wouldn't cheat.

[Asker]

He just didn't care even I would put my best at the table, like if I didn't text him for weeks he wouldn't ask were I am or text asking if I was okay. He would only want sex but only of I initiated it. So I asked him if he wanted to be with me he said yes deeply but his action were just something else...

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like he just wasn't very invested in the relationship to begin with, so it wasn't tough to for him to walk away.

[Asker]

Okay but why persue me when he was easily able to have any girl?

[FilmGuy93]

Don't do this to yourself. He pursued you because he found you attractive. Just leave it at that, or you'll make yourself insane.

[Asker]

Okay.

[UniquelyBasic]

If Im doing good with someone and were compatible then Im not going to just leave her if someone comes along that may be more my preference.

[LimitedBenefits101]

If he liked petite and bonde why did he choose you in the first place?

[Asker]

That's what I'm wondering if he was able to get anyone he wants and didn't really care about me then why persue a relationship with me? I feel like I got hurt for no reason.

[TrillXHippy]

No that’s stupid

[Iron_Man]

No….

[Iron_Man]

I like my girls appearance anyway