How do you feel about people who keep asking about counting bodies?

[Still-alive]

Isn’t that a bit creepy? Asking about body counts? I shudder to think whats hidden underneath their floor boards. I guess its like collecting trophies for them or something. 😧😵‍

Yeah its creepy. they should stop asking about it

Whats the problem? doesn't everybody count their bodies?

I whenever i see bodies out in the open i have already pre-counted them. you know for later. >;)

I don't care to know about them counting bodies.

[petitedollbabee]

Mostly depends on the context. But in general it creeps me out and makes me view the person as shallow, especially if they’re asking me about it on a first date. I don’t understand how some people can view a body count as a deal breaker or huge deal. I’ve been with my partner for almost 2 years and I’ve never asked him about his body count, because seriously, who cares?

[Still-alive]

usually in my view, its intimidation and/or jealousy. like you got some and they didn't get any yet lol

[petitedollbabee]

That’s definitely part of it, but it’s also (from a guys side) they view women with a body count as “damaged goods”, and think that if that woman has multiple partners then their vagina will be all loose and gross. It comes down to lack of sex education aswell as virginity being a golden standard. They don’t want women to have past experience, because then that woman might have something to compare the guy to. Whereas if she’s a virgin, then he can mistreat her and be awful in bed and she won’t know any different.

That’s from what I understand and have heard from guys who care about body count anyway.

[Still-alive]

Usually it goes back to what their religious dogma told them long ago. That for a woman to sleep with any man out of wedlock is a mortal sin and fast ticket to gahenna lol.

Most of it derives from there.

[petitedollbabee]

That’s true

[LiamJHayden]

I find it amusing, and not very well thought out. For example, if one guy had been with 20 girls, all of whom were never with anyone except for him, and some other guy had a body count of one, but she was a prostitute who let her 100's of customers hit her raw, the first guy's body count would be 20 times the second's but the second would be far more likely to be carrying an infection.

[SnowedIn]

I don't find it creepy, but they sure are focused on the wrong thing.

[menina]

Yes, I also think it's creepy. I feel that they're to prove something or judge you based on your answer. Fortunately I've never had anyone asking me about my body count.

[llorando]

If you don't want Clintoncided, just move along and forget about body counts.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I don't really care. They can ask me.