Do you think body count should matter in society?

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Investigator · Accepted Answer

You are free to sleep with as many people as you want. You are not free to demand that bad past decisions don''t interfere with future prospects.

Lily Phillips had the choice to not sacrifice her dignity on the altar of money and fame—to not sleep with all of those men and definitely to not post it online where anyone can view it (though maybe it's better that she did, since now there's no hiding it)—but the payout proved too enticing. A documentary was released about her, regarding the entire situation, and you almost feel bad for her after the fact, wondering what the circumstances were that led her to think breaking a “sleeping with 100 random guys” record, guys from god-knows-where, was a good idea—a feel that passes quickly, when you realize that she didn’t learn anything, other than maybe how much such a scandalous act is good for raking in the clicks and attention on her OnlyFans. If she is actually worried that she’ll have trouble finding a boyfriend because she slept with 100 guys, then she’ll probably have even more trouble after she reaches her new goal of sleeping with 1000 guys. Because why course correct and make better decisions, when you can simply double down and not think about it.

She really should try to figure herself out and quit being dumb while she’s ahead, but given her trajectory and monetary incentives, I think it’s a little too late for that. Maybe she’ll have a real “come to Jesus” moment (being supposedly Christian and all) and turn her life around, but only after she’s hit the bottom of a Jägermeister bottle on the way to an early grave, from drinking away all of her poor choices. As for having a regular life and “regular boyfriend” who is not involved with adult content creation, that ship has sailed. A real shame, too, because she’s got a sort of “girl next door” look to her—she seems like the kind of woman you’d feel good about introducing to your parents, but she decided to cash the check in early and now, no self-respecting man is going to touch her with a 10-foot barge pole.

That goes for men and women in general. Like it or not, your choices matter and you can't will them not to, nor can you demand that the world praise you for a history of poor decision-making, just so that you don't have to feel bad.

Cormac995 · Accepted Answer

I don't respect or have any interest in loose men or woman. Your body is a temple not a brothel. In my opinion people who sleep with multiple partners easily are terrible relationship material and are likely to cheat because I see it as a lack of discipline and self-control. If you have a body count of 5 or more I pretty much find it gross. Sex before marriage is fine but you shouldn't be sleeping with each other if you're not in love and you shouldn't be having kids' period until you're either married or agreed your exclusively partners for the rest of your life. Kids need to grow up in a two parent household to grow up well or it messes them up and I'm not even talking about only straight relationships. It doesn't matter if you're gay or lesbian if you adopt you need to be involved with, your partner long term because the dynamic and relationship between parents is a massive part of a child's development. You either need a mommy and a daddy, two daddy's or two mommies. If you're not life partners and have only been together a short time you shouldn't be having kids period.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The idea of "body count"—typically referring to the number of sexual partners someone has had—can hold different significance depending on personal values, cultural norms, and societal context. In some societies, it’s viewed as an important measure of personal morality or sexual propriety, while in others, it’s considered less relevant or even outdated.

For many, the number of sexual partners someone has is a deeply personal matter. The focus should be on consent, mutual respect, and safety rather than judging people based on a number.

In some cultures or religious traditions, sexual history is often given more weight, and the idea of "body count" might be more significant due to values surrounding purity or modesty.

There's a tendency for gendered double standards around body count—where women might be judged more harshly than men for the same behavior. This can perpetuate harmful stereotypes about sexuality and gender roles.

For others, the number of sexual partners may matter in terms of emotional or psychological well-being. Some may feel that multiple partners might lead to complications or emotional consequences, while others may view sexual experience as part of healthy exploration and growth.

Whether body count "should" matter depends on the values of the individual and society at large. What matters most is whether someone feels respected, empowered, and safe in their choices, and whether society fosters a healthy environment that encourages consent and mutual understanding.

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

Some care deeply, others never bother to ask. Men are often celebrated for high numbers, whereas women are judged. In a fair world, why should women be held to a different standard than men?

My husband respects my privacy and understands that whatever happened before him is irrelevant to our current relationship. And that’s the perspective worth considering, respect for each other’s past and present. We all have histories, and a number is just that, a number. Do we really want to value people based on a statistic that, in the end, tells us nothing about their capacity for love, commitment, or respect in the present day?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

The question is not whether body count should matter to "society," but whether it matters to each of us individually. What "society" thinks about body count doesn't matter to me; I have my opinions, and I won't change them if you tell me my opinions are not mainstream. Here's what I think:

Is Your Partner’s “Number” Relevant?

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

It's going to matter. I mean a woman that just isn't even present in her own body and does it like a routine is a far different experience than with a woman where the sex means something. Scientifically speaking, it also has a lot to do with a woman's pair-bonding ability.

But back to the sex and what it's like... sex with high body count women is emotionless and it's like she's following a script. She'll always say the same shit, do the same shit, and it's always the same shit. It's like they have a generalized concept of sex and she just goes into sex mode... and then it's like it didn't mean much. Like that pair-bonding I mentioned... waaaaay more likely to cheat, and will compare you to all those other dudes.

Do you think body count should matter in society?

The high body count woman is far less likely to be happy with you in general because someone else was always better at this or at that.

Then there is the question... why does she have that body count that high? I know that many woman are going to hate me for pointing this out, there is always an answer to that question, and it's almost never a good look. The answer in and of itself is usually a red flag in and of itself. Red flags that leads towards cheating, promiscuity, behaving badly in relationships (being the main reason they all end prematurely), and just straight-up bad choices... not to mention kids, STD's, baggage, and other bad habits and results picked up from each guy, is now your emotional damage to try and figure out.

Whether it should matter or not to society, doesn't matter to me. It's going to matter is what matters to me.

Joshua_H_1010011001 · Answer

It dosent matter if it "should".

Has a heterosexual woman looking for a male mate - for a long term commitment. - you are going to be judged / Assesed by His standards and rules. What you think about that is none of your concern, well to the point that you can judge him on that, and if that fits into your standards, so you could decided to no longer be intrested. But it is up to him, he is the one taking you as a long term partner.

The reason it's this way around is because you have already qualified him as "a long term partner", otherwise you wouldn't be intrested in the first place, the only reason you know his name, have slept with him and are considering these things like "is it OK for him to have that opinion" is because you have pre qualified him as somone worthy.

Women simply are not intrested or acknowledging men who are not worthy of thier time and commitment to some level.

Bottom 70% of men are just "not people"... "who?"

You are not oppressed.

You are just entitled.

RiseofArtemis · Answer

It will always matter and it's scientifically proven to affect you.

Women don't want guys who haven't had sex before and guys don't want a girl which basically had the entire school in her. That's the usual narrative.

By nature we are inclined to want the opposite of what the other gender wants, the only ones who don't mind are those who wouldn't want to be in a relationship anyway and just want to hit it, out of desperation.

For most having had around 3 partners is the maximum they would give a person to still consider them for a relationship.

On my choice I'd want her to be a virgin since I haven't slept around either and that's because I don't see a reason in doing so.

I've got my fare share of experiences with relationships with women but none which made me want to either sleep with them or consider them as a long life partner. I take a while to decide on that due to past problems I had, I don't trust people easily. One which I considered as a possible choice didn't want me.

Besides if you gave them a choice men would almost always if not every time take the virgin over someone who had sex and women will take a man who had experience in bed. It's preprogrammed into humans, preselection on womens side for their mate as that means he has resources and other women already found it out and a virgin is often young and very fertile to produce offsprings with. Besides it guaranties that those she has are his and if she slept around there is no guarantee on that.

And if Bodycount didn't matter why do women avoid guys who are virgins then? A lot of them are not by choice and would give it the first chance they get.

RavVid · Answer

There is a guy girl deal in marriage and I think in all relationships that transcends convenient sex.

In return for what the guy offers, sexual exclusivity is a major part of the deal. Paternity of offspring is a big deal for men. Taking on the cost and effort in raising another mans child is not big on any man's wish list.

Aside from that, both guys and girls want sexual exclusivity as a pledge that their efforts go exclusively into the relationship.

Should Lily Phillips worry she won't find a boyfriend after having sex with 100 men. (I doubt she slept a wink). Well yes she should. She could get a boyfriend who sees it as a convenient short term sex outlet.

Getting a boyfriend who sees it as a long term relationship is probably a no way. He will know she has no problem with having sex with 100 men in a day so he will be doubtful that sexual exclusivity will be realized.

"I couldn't possibly be having sex with you and another man" won't ring true out of her mouth.

HawkPerception · Answer

There will always be people that have high standards and those that have their standards set at the bottom of the barrel.

A high body count is usually a good indication of how likely it is you'll be seen as just "another one" of that person's partners.

The healthiest dynamic partners can have sexually is when you have a similar amount of sexual partners. If a guy and girl have only been dating with the intention of finding their person in life and have only had long term relationships, that's ideal.

I'm not saying there's no chance of a person with a high body count being with a person with a low body count. But it does affect the person's perception of you and that's just something you need to accept... having accountability for your past actions.

The majority of men in the world will have a lower opinion of a girl that sleeps around. And there are many women that think the same, although less.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Society doesn't matter, it comes down to the individual.

Personally in my eyes people can do whatever they want sexually so long as they understand that the person they may want to be with may reject them knowing about their past in that regard.

Personally in my eyes, high body counts are indicative of individuals that don't value themselves or relationships as a whole when it comes to intimacy.

If people want to have a ho phase they can knock themselves out, but they shouldn't get mad and cry about it if the target of their affection doesn't see it the same way and turns them down for it.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

It's not as if any of us had any control about what should matter in society, extended to the whole planet, our combined opinions is just chaos of thoughts manifested. Especially when it's involving morality applied to sexuality, chaos is an understatement lol. Such xhaos of thoughts does not have to be an issue but...

In a state of chaos, some megalomaniacs will rise to provide order, sometimes they are called social justice warriors, sometimes religious zealots, sometimes populists. I would not say they'll bring good news when any of them will take control.

ohsheeT · Answer

If you come up with a clean test your body is clean and body count does not matter it is what it is that was yesterday today's today but you do have to protect yourself and protect the person that you want to be with so I mean get tested.. that will tell you everything and that's all you need to know if the other person wants to tell you let them tell you.

But if you ask be prepared to be heartbroken or shocked or whatever if you love the person in that moment right now in this moment why wouldn't you love them after a body count chat most guys are not confident within themselves so they throw a Tissy fit
They want to know how many dicks this girl has had in her
For one reason and one reason only to compare himself to all the other guys and that's weak that is so weak LOL

Do it because you love the person and that's just get a check up that's all protect each other that's all nobody needs to know anything anyway

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

No, because this is just a continuation of the trend of purity culture saying that women are only of value when they’re virgins. Meanwhile if a man fucked 100 women in the span of a year, he’d be considered a man among men, praised for his sexual attributes. It’s a very obvious double standard with a specific benefit to one person.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

It will always matter to people with standards and religious morals.. I don't want a guy who hoed around a lot. I used to think I could look past it but the guys tend to turn out to be shit anyways. So always judge past behaviour it's a good indicator to how the person will behave going forward.

emeraldsaphire · Answer

Why should it? Like what difference does it make to you? This just feels like another way men try to control women bodies. If you don't have STDs or anything then it shouldn't matter.

Billlewis · Answer

Oh, it’s a very important part of my evaluation process when I start dating/serving a woman, but I have a much different philosophy regarding the number of guys a woman has been intimate with. The more male partners she’s had, the better, and if she hasn’t been intimate for a long period of time, I view this as a red flag.

slickrick6600 · Answer

Oh yea it matters, you can say it doesn’t all you want but it does. I don’t have experience and I don’t really want a girl with experience either if she’s been with everybody then how is she special? If she’s only been with me and I’ve only been with her then there is nothing more special in my opinion

DarrenPellichino · Answer

I think society definitely does but personally the number doesn't matter as much as the reason. Was she single when she slept around or did she tell guys they were in a relationship while sleeping around? Does she get what she wants by using sexual manipulation? The psychology also matters. If she slept with a bunch of guys because she was having emotional issues then she will bring those issues into a relationship. I really never ask because who she is is WAY more important than past tense.

I think it's insecurity if a higher number bothers a guy especially if he values the number of girls he's had.

Summeroflove · Answer

Yeah it does matter… People who sleep around a lot are gross. Have little self control. Little respect for themselves or anyone else. Most loose the ability to make genuine connections with others. Most will cheat.

im talking both sexes too. It’s funny men who sleep with Whores tbink some woman whose a virgin by choice wants him HAHAHAHA

Levin · Answer

Like should attract like and to each their own. If you've hoed around as a man, you can't expect to have different standards in women, that you keep yourself.

My body count is low. And I would not date someone who has slept around. I think it's just a case of different values. I am a hygiene freak. Thinking of all those grubby men there before, does not do it for me...

just_a_potato · Answer

What truly matters is the person's self control and values. A woman who's slept with 100 men in a lifetime isn't the same as a woman who's slept with 100 men in one day. It isn't feasible to judge someone's value as a person on a number alone. The number itself shouldn't be what counts, for neither men or women. The context is a far better judge of character. :)

expfireworks · Answer

No, the vast majority trust that an individual's "body count" (the quantity of individuals they've been physically private with) shouldn't make any difference in the public eye, as it is an individual decision and doesn't mirror somebody's personality or worth; passing judgment on somebody in light of this number is viewed as prejudicial and can be hurtful, advancing pessimistic generalizations about sexual way of behaving

Anonymous · Answer

It should only matter to the two involved in a potential relationship. Others shouldn’t be concerned, that’s their business. Now I will say to me as well as a lot of men it certainly does matter. I’m not saying that it needs to matter to men, I’m just saying a lot of men think it matters. I know I do. A lot of men won’t say that though cause for some reason it’s wrong for men to have preferences.

Dargil · Answer

Women with a high body, more than even 10, are toxic. There's no way to know initially, but they often reveal themselves. Not the same for men. We can fukk like lemmings and then permanently settle down when we have has our fill. Not fair but life ain't fair.

Kelley1 · Answer

If you believe body count doesn't matter, what is your body count?

Anonymous · Answer

Everything about a person's past is relevant to who they are and how they may act in the future. If you want a promiscuous person, find one. If you want a modest person, find one. No one should decide for others, what their standards should be.

Paige90 · Answer

No I don't think it should matter as long as the guy or girl doesn't have an STD and is on birth control.

Meisdipa · Answer

If you're taking sex as a challenge and business, that's a problem. P. S This is just my opinion. Do not be offended.

Apple1996 · Answer

Body count doesn't matter but someone's always gonna judge so just do whatever makes you happy. 1 men or 100 men. That woman isn't affecting my personal life so I don't care at all about her sex life

FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa · Answer

It doesn't matter in society. It matters to certain individuals. And if they prefer a partner with a low (or high) body count, that's their prerogative.

Everyone is allowed to have their own tastes and preferences.

Anonymous · Answer

It absolutely matters. There are hormone released in a woman's brain when she has sex that cause her to develop feelings that lead to a pair bond with her partner. A woman with a large body count has a demonstrated track record of being incapable of developing a lasting pair bond.

hahahmm · Answer

Yes. Funny how when a man does something that impacts his life he is told it's his problem but if a woman does that we're expected to pat her on the back. Nah.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Everyone has there own set of morals including her. So she should seek someone who closely matches hers. I see nothing wrong with a person rejecting someone because their morals do not align.

Anonymous · Answer

To me it matters. I don’t want “community property”. Promiscuous women also file for divorce more often for whatever reason. She likely had or has STDs such as HPV or even worse. You can end up with throat cancer just from oral if she wasn’t vaccinated for HPV while she was a virgin.

AviatorTom · Answer

A reasonable body count shouldn't matter. An excessive body count (each individual can determine what that is) does matter, since it reveals a lot about a person's personality and character.

Luopio27 · Answer

Here in Scandinavia, we dont judge people based on their bodycount! Women can have as many partners in bed as she wsnts to and no one gives a dam!

Bodycount bs is for high schoolers, that try to mimic American Pie!

Shiningtempest · Answer

Although I'm not sure if a body count should matter in society, a body count matters for a person. A person who has higher body counts indicate higher risk of having STDs & a red flag in dating.

HighValue · Answer

Only low quality people think it shouldn't matter. It does matter a lot and often affects relationship successes and failures for both men and women.

Surely · Answer

I am afraid that her 🐈‍⬛ would be tough as shoe leather! Plus the fact that she probably ended up with the 100 guys by just providing a cum dump with no feelings whatsoever. Could she ever be sensual and sexual with just one guy?

Anonymous · Answer

People pretend that that don't know what "pair bonding" is, or maybe they don't know. Having tons of sexual partners makes you less able to pair bond with someone for a long time, you jump from one to another. Sleep around if you want but you have lost the ability to pair bond with someone.

chrissykerdock · Answer

it's mid-evil i give more blowjobs than vaginal sex but that doesn't matter

Anonymous · Answer

Of course a high body count female would ask a question like this.

The thing is in “modern” society men are not allowed to judge or say anything. So ride the cock carousel and later get screwed up and depressed about it.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes it should to some, and it does to some. others don't care because... they are same. it's more about finding people of comparable values.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Yeah, it should for men and women.. Sleeping around is unhealthy behavior and degenerate as well.. It's formed countless broken families and is a stain on society..

HungTexan · Answer

I think this is an interesting, but likely irrelevant question. 100 guys? She would need days to recover!

Anonymous · Answer

it's not only that she slept with 100+ guys, even if she didn't do that, she still has an onlyfans... and that's just not a quality girlfriend to bring home to your parents.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

All I know is that it does to me, it's a personal preference that I believe should matter to others, weither it does or doesn't isn't up to me

Ariesman81 · Answer

It'll be interesting to see if she goes forward with her plan of breaking the world record now. This stunt was all in preparation for that. And yeah it does matter

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I think it should. I want to know where his priorities lie.

Pohjolan · Answer

Women themselves are upset if they get a reputation as a slut.

Why then shouldn't other people care?

It affects the guys reputation as well and a higher body count comes with a higher risk of infidelity and STD:s.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Body count does matter whether it should or shouldn't, it just does.

oldpigg · Answer

The truth is I'm not interested in having a relationship with a woman who isn't a virgin.

Garud · Answer

I don't just think it does, it really matters in my society.

Anonymous · Answer

100 different dicks in her vagina in one day? Euwwwww !!! Being splashed all over the internet means she can hardly keep it a secret , so it won't be easy to find a boyfriend !!!

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

Yes it does and it should. That girl is a disgusting cum dumpster.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Body count is irrelevant for everyone. Weak people count bodies of their SO.

Jania1809 · Answer

Under 6 it doesn’t really matter, but more than that I don’t like to get leftover.

SmileyLady · Answer

No one sleeps with 100 men in a day. You’d die from it. I think body count only matters on here, to some people.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Why is body count anyone's business save the prospective partners' ?

Oldschool1981 · Answer

I think girls with high body count are more attractive

TheStaleMarshmellow · Answer

If they have a STD that's where the line is drawn

Anonymous · Answer

if body count didn't matter, which guys on GAG would marry Lily Phillips right now?

Dongie · Answer

I don't care to know and anybody that does is a busy body gossip.

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