Scenario: You come to find a girl/guy you really like and you're thinking about proposing... then they tell you they've slept with over twenty people. What would you do?
- Also comment what is the maximum people your girlfriend/future spouse should have slept with?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, it matters. And unless I knew that she'd been a prostitute or something beforehand, I'd never propose to marry a girl with a count that high. Highest body count I'd accept would be one for every year over the age of consent she is; anything more than that, and it'd just be way too much history for me to be capable of letting it all go under the bridge.
I didn't stay true to my ideals of sexual exclusivity and commitment, and remain a virgin for my whole life all the way to the age of 31, only to toss that all away and shackle myself to some girl who's been riding the cock-carousel as fast as she can, at a rate of at least one new cock every few months.
And I don't care how sexy that girl might be, how much sex she's offering, or what kind of face she shows me- that kind of body count proves that she can't possibly be serious, reliable or committed in any long-term monogamous relationship. History paints the truest picture of who you are, and what you're like as a person.
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Most Helpful Girl
personally, it matters to me. i don’t want to be with a person who treated sex so casually bc in my opinion i feel it’s something special between two people in love, and if someone has been with 10+ people it’s a clear sign they can’t manage a stable relationship.
2 would be my max but ideally, 0-1