If a man is looking for a wife, does a girl's body count matter? In other words, is a girl’s past behavior a strong indicator of her future behavior?

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Don't marry a promiscuous woman, even if it's all in the past. Habits are hard to break. She was with so many men. She learned to sleep with men without falling for them. It is hard for her to open up her heart and love a man.

She will likely cheat on you. She will tell you she is unhappy with your bedroom performance. I guarantee you she had better-skilled men than you. She will not be a good wife or a good mom. Any woman who doesn't value her body is a big mess.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A woman's past is the best predictor of her future, and a strong indication of her character and moral fiber (or lack thereof). There is also strong evidence showing women who have multiple sexual partners are less capable of forming a strong, lifelong pair bond.

There is a lot of misuse of the word "sexism" in this context but it's really not sexism at all. It's men trusting their instincts when making the most important decision of their life.

aceleon · Accepted Answer

i wouldn't even date a girl with a past, sorry not sorry but not happening, not having anyones leftovers and for the delicateflowers who took offence from my description, yes they are left overs and i don't care what you say so don't even bother you will be wasting time for nothing, if you are good with your girl getting banged by other dudes suit yourself, for the girls who will take offence from this, the one with the wound is offended.

Finchie40 · Answer

Most men will not settle with a girl that has a reputation of getting around , so to answer your question , yes , it pretty much matters to him , unless he has been around the block a bunch of times as well , Most men are very territorial over a girl he gives his heart to , He doesn’t want to picture or hear stories , or physically see other guys’ that had sex with her , it will more than likely make him jealous and upset knowing she spread her legs for these other guys’ , So her body count does matter to most men

MzAsh · Answer

Not having enough experience actually proved to be worse for me. I was curious, and I needed to date other men. Glad I did. I wasn’t trying to sleep with everyone. It wasn’t about sex or being promiscuous for me, but understanding various types of men was absolutely necessary. I found the man I’m still married to 16 years later. Marrying my first would have been a bad, bad idea.

I’d never get serious with a man who was bothered by a certain number. I’ve got an article on this here.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

A high body count is an item of information worthy of some attention, but it is not a shibboleth for a bad prospective wife. Some girls exit their teen years with promiscuous behaviors going full blast, but later realize their mistake and they change their habits. What is most important to me now is my partner's current attitude towards sex: is it a fun recreational activity or is it an expression of love between two committed partners.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Lack of bringing anything to the table is why I've not considered most women marriage material. Did their high body count contribute? Maybe, but the lack of really bringing any lasting value to my life matter far more. You have a mountain of debt off a stupid degree, spend more than you make, are severely obese, can't boil water without setting off the smoke alarm, and think "cleaning a weapon" involves a can of lysol? Yeah. No. No we're good here.

AND you slept with 100 people? Well that doesn't help you, but even if you'd only been with one, all the other areas you lack in trump that. Maybe they're correlative in frequency. Maybe they aren't. I'm not sure.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

Absolutely yes. Most men will want to know her history to make an informed decision if they will be compatible long term.

You can easily find stories where relationships break up once the boyfriend finds out his girlfriend past wasn't what he thought.

Berethor · Answer

70% of divorces are initiated by women, and hos are much more likely to divorce.

Daniela1982 · Answer

It should indeed matter to a guy. But then they think with their dicks too so what can you say?

dolemite58 · Answer

Absolutely, I think it’s funny when women criticize men for being concerned about her past and body count when considering a relationship. Like we’re supposed to delude ourselves into thinking that the girl that’s slept with 50+ guys isn’t gunna be some psycho that cheats 😂

Siri137 · Answer

For a 19 year old female, you really do ask some strange questions. This is the kind of question I'd expect from an unhinged male who idolises Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson, and uses expressions like "alpha males" and "Chads and Staceys".

Anonymous · Answer

Without question. It always amuses me when a woman gets angry about this. I'm fair about it. I think women should hold the same view of men. Because one would HOPE that a person only sleeps with someone they love. And if you've told say 30 other partners you've loved them, exactly how good is your word anymore? Let alone your judgement.

laly520 · Answer

from what I'm seeing lot of guys would avoid marrying a promiscuous girl, they would rather just casual date em

Fireguy17 · Answer

no not at all.
It never has mattered, and I would much rather be with someone that knows what they are doing.
I still don't understand this wanting to have a virgin thing.
As you get older the chances of finding one that wants you are pretty much slim to none.

CozyCoffin · Answer

It's not so much the actual number itself that I look at, as it is the frequency of sexual partners. If she's basically fucking somebody new every weekend, I really don't want to deal with her. I don't expect my partners to be virgins or even inexperienced, but it's nice to think that they're taking their time and not being indiscriminate with who they share the bed with.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Not really honestly.

Some girls have insanely high sex drives.

My only two important take aways are

1. Does she have STD’s?

2. How she acts at the current place n time.

Cause yeah some girls might’ve fucked around with a lot of guys but some girls snap out of it and change their mindset. They realize that wanting to sleep around isn’t healthy and instead want a committed relationship with one and only one man.

catsmemoir · Answer

Of course! Would women marry a player or F-Boy? Its the same thing. Worse for the men since they'll end up getting destroyed in divorce court

LiamS95 · Answer

Yes, I think that can count for future happiness and loyalty. Someone either male or female with an extremely high body count is not a good thing in my view.

rebeliouse · Answer

@kelley1 does her having a high body count mean she is a bad person?

RebelinSteel · Answer

So past behaviour or body count, these can be two different things. The same can be said for a guy, exactly the same. If a guy is promiscuous then the same rules apply.

HighValue · Answer

It matters. More partners ruins a person's ability to pair bond effectively, and women should avoid men with a promiscuous past for the same reason.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

it will to some. it won't to some. your opinion is irrelevant to it and not true for the majority. calm down and next time, write a mytake. :)

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Nope, as long as she's disease-free is all matters to me.

Billlewis · Answer

It's important to me, but not in the way it is to most guys, because I'm more likely to be turned off if she hasn't had many partners.

Anonymous · Answer

Ew, did it work? Did they pick you sis? Imagine hating on another woman for her past. Pathetic.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm sure you aren't a man using girls account to spread this message

exitseven · Answer

I think it is very possible.

jahaims · Answer

Duh.

MrZameer · Answer

wow 😲😲😲

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Nope, as long as she's disease-free is all matters to me.

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Nope, as long as she's disease-free is all matters to me.

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