Of course it matters.
Men invest a lot of time, emotion, and money into a woman. He having some value should be expected.
Something everyone has had has less value than something few can get.
Women also become emotionally invested through sex because of oxytocin released during foreplay, sex, and orgasm... so the more people they have sex with the more emotional baggage they carry.
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Yes it does, emotional damage occurs over time for both sex's, which is why I don't think having sex with so many partners can be a good thing. People will naturally think can I please this man/woman. Of course people will say he/she should be more confident but not everyone is capable of doing that.
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It matters to me. However…I find it better to not know. Because once I find out, I can’t stop thinking about it. And that sucks. Also even if you ask, You can never know if the number they give you is accurate. People lie.
to me, i don't care if any men or women i date have had sex or been with other people before as long as they don't have stds
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Not in the slightest. In that same thought though, neither does as a man's as long as they are clean in the end. If they're sporting STD's and still sleeping around then its a problem.
i find that it turns me off if i know who the guys are.
that's why it's called 'private life'. don't post your every boyfriend on social media.Yes, it matters.
I think so.
Not really I guess
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