Why do women have a problem stating their body count?

[Anonymous]

Doesn't that indicate something quite obvious about the lower value you have with a higher body count? If you asked a fit person how much they weighed they wouldn't care. It's only skinny and fat people who get insecure.

[purplepoppy]

Because it's difficult to keep track. To start with what do you include? Sure one girl will say she's only had sex with 2 guys but won't mention the dozens she's given blowjobs to. Let's not even get into the 'does anal count?' argument. Then you get the idiots who count sexting.

Another thing is we lose track of what we've done with who? I might have done a dozen guys before I do the same one again. By then I can't remember what we did first time, was it sex or just a handjob. If you weren't that good I might have forgotten you.

Asking for body count is like asking how many times in your life have you been to McDonald or had roast chicken for dinner. If you're going to ask be realistic and ask for the past month.

[MrBadd]

There have been times where I’ve been talking to a girl and she reveals her “body count” without me even asking, just because we’re talking about something a bit sexual. This is usually in the just chatting and getting to know each other stage.

After chatting for a bit, if I know for a fact that all I’m looking for is casual sex, I’ll let the girl know before things go any further. Later on, if she’s still talking to me and she’s okay with that, I’ll get into talking about sex, fantasies, experiences etc. with her again. I’ll ask her at this point and the number is usually a lot higher than she previously told me.

If they fancy you as a potential boyfriend and they think that a high body count might scare you off they’ll often just lie, and you won’t know any different. It’s a pointless question really. They only told me more about their sexual pasts when it didn’t really matter and they knew that I wasn’t gonna judge them on it.

[Guy13]

cause they start looking like the hoes they are once they run out of fingers and have to start using toes...

[Aerissa_Jade]

Why would anyone answer a question that we know full well there are misogynistic men out there who will immediately start to name call?

This not only applies to that question but to any question that anyone asks where if the answer doesn't fit with the answers range, they or others will bash them.

I have answered that question here before and been named called for it and ended up blocking a bunch of people as name calling results in a automatic block. That shows that someone is immature and not worth my time.

[Greysonvall]

That's not misogynistic. It's actually pretty hateful towards men that you think you shouldn't have to be a quality person to meet one. As a woman particularly, being ran through makes you less of a person

[MzAsh]

We know that quality men aren’t even asking such a question to begin with.

[inhua]

they are asking such questions. they just don't ask directly because they know they won't receive a direct answer in return. they have their ways of asking and it's very effective

[MzAsh]

Haha nice try. But you’re not fooling anyone here.

[inhua]

yeah keep believing these tactics don't exist

[MzAsh]

Yeah I definitely don’t believe you. Biology doesn’t say a peep. Guys think that sex stretches the vagina bit it absolutely doesn’t. 😂You’re not going to know unless someone tells you, and even then how do you know they’re telling the truth?

[Asad1ONE1]

Yes men and women who sleep around are the same in my eyes. Non-virgin men and women should be seen the same way. And I think they are. Same with virgin men and women.

[MzAsh]

Well at least you keep a consistent standard between men and women. 🥂

[Asad1ONE1]

We all should.

[Alessa13]

I don't have a problem answering that question to someone I'm in a serious relationship with. If we are getting to know each other, why would it be a problem.

I would have a issue answering that question to a random stranger who is asking questions anonymously.

[SaoirseS]

Because disclosing numbers of people I’ve buried or cremated either weirds them out or scares them off.

[Agape93]

Because guys tend to shame us for having the same behavior they do. What makes us a whore, makes guts a stud, in their eyes

[LazerBean]

The ones who are do it because they are embarrassed.

[Dargil]

Because they will come across as sluts if it's high and suggest the are unreliable.

[Anonymous]

Because women don't view body count quite the same as men. 😆😆😆

https://www.youtube.com/embed/SNY9MQmaBBI

[AsaKyo]

I don't have a problem stating mine because mine is zero

[MadAndBankrupt]

Because deep down, They know it’s wrong to have a high one

[gorydetails]

They would hate to face the consequences of their actions.

[Anonymous]

Because they know that people, both men and women, look down on promiscuous women and see them as low value.

[Uannoyme]

Why is it anyone's business?

[Cassie88]

I don't. Mine is 4,366 (and counting).

[Cassie88]

Someone seeing this will probably think that I was serious about that number :D

[Asad1ONE1]

Men do too.