Does a woman body count really matters?

[Vee-oh-la]

Cause if its all in the past and your sexuly confidence is high why would it?

[abc3643]

We seem to be getting a lot of "body count" questions lately. I am finding it hard to believe that this is a coincidence.

Yes, it matters. And it should matter to a woman what a man's "body count" is too.

As I opined in the other two questions like this over the past 21 hours:
What's the highest body count you'd tolerate in a woman you search to marry?
Do you care how many guys a girl has slept with before meeting you?
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This is my slut/manwhore equation regarding "body count" - a very obnoxious and revolting phrase but, considering that the people who use it are typically manwhores and sluts anyway, what should I expect?

I use a formula for both males and females:
Let Y = cumulative number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
(that is, the "body count")
Let X = age-appropriate maximum number of distinct sexual intercourse partners

X = ROUND_UP [ 1.5 * (AGE - 15) ]
So:
Age = 15, X = 0.
Age = 16, X = 2.
Age = 17, X = 3.
Age = 18, X = 5.
Age = 19, X = 6.
Age = 20, X = 8.
Age = 21, X = 9.
Age = 22, X = 11.

If Y > MINIMUM (X, 10), then "Slut/Manwhore" else "Age appropriate".

Basically, what this is saying is:
1. "Don't fuck until you are at least 16."
2. "Only fuck in committed relationships; up to 3 committed relationships per every 2 years."
3. "If you need more than 10 committed relationships by the time you are 22, then something is wrong with you or you're a slut/manwhore who is fucking too often just for fun."

More than 10 guys is really too much.

Most guys would be rather uncomfortable competing against such a lengthy history because the probability of his being the best you ever had (or having the biggest dick you've ever had) seriously goes down. He wants to be memorable and important to you and "not just another lay".

Nor does he want a pussy with "a lot of miles on it" because, frankly, they are considerably looser so the experience isn't as good for him (although it is still mighty fine!).

So, bottom line; more than 10 guys is too much for the majority of men.

For the record, my Y ("body count") is 5 and it wasn't 2 until I was almost 26!

Body 1: 21 y 09 m
Body 2: 25 y 11 m
Body 3: 26 y 02 m
Body 4: 32 y 10 m
Body 5: 36 y 10 m

[Zealashton]

I totally agree with you. On top of that who wants to fuck a public toilet. Or lick it or suck it. It's disgusting. There's a difference between save being a porn worker versus an actual person. Or I should say that there's a bit of difference. Like if you have a high body count and you're a porn worker that your whole job is to actually well make porn then oh that's tolerable. If you're doing sex for money and that's can be overlooked. But if you're just having sex in general. Then yeah I have a huge issue with that shit right there. Would I date a porn actress probably not just because well they have sex every fucking time so yeah there's really no time for one-on-one time. Same goes with prostitutes. But if they're saying e-camer that's just masturbating in that then I see no problem. But yeah overall a high body count individual certainly is a big red flag

Sex should be fun and enjoyable. And also please support the bloodstain Men band male genital mutilation it ruins sex lives everywhere and and as a massive issue with suicide rates as well as killing children. And furthermore the mass copious amounts of Viagra epidemic because of being male genital mutilation. So help bloodstained men and support their cause

[Zealashton]

high body count means one thing, 1 you have bad choice in men, or 2 your a crazy bitch,
have no body count is better, but one or 2 or 3 pushing it, 4 your a whore, 1 for high school, 2 for your 20s , 3rd one if the 2nd one failed.

this also gose for men too.
also high body count means your not good in relationships and stuff, and are untrustworthy. lying about your body count is also even worse,

at most i expect a woman in her 20;s have already slept with about 5 men at minumum,

for men same thing reallly. you dont want a whore for a parnter. too many issues arises.

[Zealashton]

but would i date i high body count woman, yaa, as long as she get a blood work done and std tested like 5 times, i ain't sticken it in a woman or kissing a woman that has a high body count untill i know the public toilot is clean.

after that sure idm dating a high body count woman, im just scared of haveing stds, and stuff, im scared of dieing, im scared of coldsores and other stuff, like have you seen blue waffels, like omg thats nasty.

i am happy i am a virgin in 31 male, but i am a extreamly depressed i never had a girlfriend.

like, if i slept with 30 wemon never got stds done, would you sleep with me, i don't think so,

[Vee-oh-la]

It just sounds to me like you been hurt. And as far as stds you can have a low body count and have one. Talking about someone maybe a whore untrustworthy and a lier if have a high body count.

[Zealashton]

Hurt yes I am. Even if I had a chance to sleep with 5 wemon I would not. That just wrong. And disgusting. Would I date a high body count woman as long as they get blood work done. I don't want to ruin my shit life with a infecus doses that could ruin me for ever. My life's already shit I don't need anymore shit to deal with. Sigh.

[OlderAndWiser]

Your body count matters because if you fucked 10 guys in the last year, if we have sex, it probably won't be because you have any feelings for me and I'll just be #74 on your ever expanding list of partners, ONS, and casual fucks. And - believe it or not - many guys are not JUST looking for casual sex.

[tzdc21]

Sexual confidence has nothing really to do with it. Let me explain the four big reasons why it matters to a man when dealing with a woman. Buckle up, this is gonna take a while.

1) Men and Women are both biologically hardwired to be attracted and disgusted by certain things. It just so happens that one of the things we guys are instinctively disgusted by are promiscuous women as our girlfriend and/or wife. That's just our nature, just like how it's in a woman's nature to look for a man who can provide and protect. Now when it comes to just sex, they won't care, but a committed relationship is a whole different ballpark.

2) Stats show that the higher a woman's body count, the more likely she will initiate breakups ans divorces. AND it's more likely she will have mental problems down the long run. You lose your ability to pair bond with every new sexual partner you have, and that's what helps relationships work through tough times... or in general.

3) When you (a woman) are in a relationship with a man, you are becoming a representation of that man, whether you know it or not. That means that what you say or do is gonna affect him to. So therefore, if you're a hoe, or you say or do some crazy and stupid stuff, not only are you putting yourself in a bad light, but you're putting your boyfriend/husband in a bad light. Because everyone is gonna be like, "This crazy girl is his?" or "This hoe is who he is taking seriously?" That is embarrassing for any man, even if he won't admit it to others or himself.

4) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT REASON. There is a reason why since the dawn of time, men have demanded that the woman they take seriously are virgins. Not all guys nowadays want virgins now, but still want lower body counts from the woman they take seriously. And the reason why is because they want to ensure paternity. I assume I would be correct if I were to say that a deep dark fear for a lot of women is being r@ped in a dark alley by some creep. That deep feeling of fear that you get, the male equivalent to that is when he busts his ass, investing his blood, sweat, and tears into raising a child, and then finding out one day that the kid was never his. That's why guys have an issue with taking promiscuous women seriously. Because if you take a promiscuous woman seriously, and she gets pregnant, there's a good chance that child may not be yours.

I hope that answers your question.

[AN1995]

I dont care.

my current girlfriend has ben with 30+ guys
before she met me.
We bolth are 25.

She never used a condom once in her life ither.

its never bothered me. In any way.
We get along good,
And she feels like any other girl on the inside.

so why should it matter.
She treats me good. And i treat her good. We are happy and thats all that matters.

doesn't matter if its 3 guys or 30. At the end of the day she's mine.

[ChrisMaster69]

No and I really hate that name for sexual partners.

previous history or similar is far nicer.

only usually fuckwit guys tend to use it.

seriously though it’s not an issue.

it’s like how would anyone really know for most people.

if it was. I would just move on as they simply are not worth it

[Ripper_E]

Depends on the individual. It matters to some and to others it does. Some say it's in the past and change their mind when they hear something they don't like.
If you found out your partner was once a serial rapists, the chances of you saying "it's in the past" is pretty much non existent.

[MillenniumBill]

The "body count" wouldn't bother me so much as the turnaround time between them.
Look at it as an employer,
If an applicant has a varied and unstable work history, the applicants chances of being hired begin to drop significantly.

[InfobotLives]

It tends to matter to insecure men, incels and religious fanatics. Most of the rest of us don't care. We just care that her sexual health is good.

[AFellowWeeb]

100%

[Andres77]

I'm kinda proud of my wife's number.
I wouldn't recommend it. We both know now that it was stupid but... she's absolutely the best and most adventurous and fun lover I've ever had.

[Wade8888]

Yes it matters, because I don't want to catch AIDS or some other incurable STD from her.

lol. Why woudn't it matter?

You people are INSANE to live the way you willfully choose to live.

[anylolone]

Does a guy body count matter?
Let's start easy. A hundred chicks.
How does that make you feel?

[Vee-oh-la]

I feel like that guy is experience and can get a women. Idc what anyone says no women wants a man that is inexperienced. Now whether if he can keep a woman is a different story.

[anylolone]

Even a hundred?

And I've met plenty of women who want virgin men, it was basically a hobby for a friend of mine before she married, lol!

Why do you want some experience?

[Vee-oh-la]

The emotional side of an unexperienced man is something i do not want to deal with and they can become more emotional then a woman. Most of these type of guys (not all) will be more needy and a push over and not know what to do... im not anyones teacher.

I would not find any pleasure in have to telling man how do everything.

Now you friend's hobby making her body count go up and the person she marrys is going have to be ok with and just look at it as her being experienced and she know what she likes. She may not say or even know but she like to be the dominant person. And be in control.

[anylolone]

I actually slept with her (not my first), she wasn't all that "dominant".

Also, by what I heard they are very unlikely to be emotional in that sense, specially since I have quite a bit of experience with virgin girls, though not by intent.

Honestly I think you are mostly projecting here, that's my experience with virgin and even experienced women, fortunately not all, specially first girlfriend who was also virgin.

I don't care about "body count", but one thing I know for sure is that a more experienced woman does not necessarily makes better sex or "knowing how to please a X".

Specially since after my body count you start to realize that not only the other person isn't in control of your pleasure, but that by necessity it means you aren't in control of theirs.

[Iron_Man]

Yes of course it does clean clean clean

[Vee-oh-la]

So a person with a high body count can't be clean?

[Iron_Man]

I like to taste the honey type of a guy can’t risk it with a high body count

[Vee-oh-la]

So how is a women or men are suppose to know what they like if they don't try things.

[Iron_Man]

We’re talking about a big high body count not about if a girl likes to be pleased downtown

[Vee-oh-la]

Yea high body count meaning had sex with multiple people before

[Iron_Man]

Yes Not a fan of that

[Vee-oh-la]

Mmm...

[bamesjond0069]

Because its not in the past.

[Vee-oh-la]

Whats not the past

[bamesjond0069]

Who you slept with.

[Vee-oh-la]

But you slept means the past... you didn't say sleeping with. There is a difference

[bamesjond0069]

Except it changes a girls behavior in the future.

[Vee-oh-la]

Well its on the man if he can handle the women in question.

[bamesjond0069]

Maybe he can but he doesn't want to. I know i dont want to handle it. I deserve better.

[Archerer]

Nah not really, unless it’s 0 the. I get worried

[dudeinohio]

no, it really doesn't matter

[Xoirwinkan]

Yeah, because I don't want a murderer or a slut.

[andy530]

Nope not at all