Should I bring it back up to try and clean the air more or nah?

[MementoMori777]

I had a situation where I was sent a nude and I showed that I was flattered and appreciate that she picked me, i also told her that body was beautiful, she admitted feelings, which I didn't knock down but we didn't talk that much and she would always be somewhat short replies and stuff so I didn't expect none of it, I also got my believes as well so I couldn't just feed into it, she said she understood but I know the vibes are off, if she ever hits me back up again, which I doubt, do I even bring it up?

[Anonymous]

If you feel that the vibes are off and that there is unresolved tension or discomfort between you and this person, it may be worth bringing it up in a respectful and honest way. You can try to clarify the situation, express any concerns or questions you have, and work towards finding a resolution or understanding. However, it's important to approach the conversation with an open mind and a willingness to listen to the other person's perspective as well. If you do decide to bring it up, make sure to do so in a respectful and non-confrontational manner.

[MementoMori777]

Yea that makes a lot of sense, I haven't been disrespectful towards her at all, depending on how it goes ill see if I bring it back up or not, thanks bro 🙏💯

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome! It's always important to approach these types of situations with respect and sensitivity. Good luck, and take care.

[MementoMori777]

I will 💯🙏

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I didn’t know girls send nudes to guys this randomly.

[MementoMori777]

And even less to someone that doesn't even ask for them, she said she had a surprised and send it through that one view instagram option where you can only view it once, tbh I never prepared myself for a situation like that cause I normally avoid nudes and all that

[MementoMori777]

I asked her if she was drunk or something and she said she wasn't so I know that possibly sounded rude and no lie I beat myself up for shit like that smh

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Wow. I am surprised. I can imagine would be unexpected.

This idea has never come to my mind. The only person who has seen my naked body was my ex fiance and one guy way back, when I was 16, I was showering in the outdoors shower in the backyard of a guesthouse, there was this slight wind that seems to put the cover away, when I opened my eyes I saw him staring, the funny thing is I didn’t feel shy cause he looked so jaw dropped and he was 24-25 years old, so I was like “wow! How could I have this effect on him!” I smiled when I saw his face and he then hid hahaha

That’s basically it. 2 people.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

But still don’t be rude to her…

[MementoMori777]

That sounds like a pretty awkward situation, i guess in a way that does make me feel better but I wasn't rude to her on purpose, like I said I was just reacting out of shock, cause I've had like onlyfan promoters and stuff send em before but not someone I talk too that seemed just pure and innocent, I also said that I didn't expect her to just send stuff to a random dude online and it seems like she took it like I was calling her a whore not knowing I was referring to myself as the random person because she replied that I'm the only one she's send it too, so it's just a mess I guess

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Then, I think you can take it like she trusts you a lot and thinks you are special.

[MementoMori777]

Yea but I feel like I ruined it, I doubt she is going to hit me back up, thanks for trying to help out tho 💯

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You can tell her you think she’s amazing and that her body is mind-blowingly beautiful and you were in loss of the words and felt shy as to what tell her and you are sorry if you made her feel like you didn’t appreciate her beauty, you appreciate she trusting you

[MementoMori777]

I see her on constantly and I feel like maybe she's talking to others and I feel like maybe I should just leave it the way it is cause if she just continues being cold with me then I wouldn't want to give her any hopes that it can turn into something if she's simply not communicating properly with me, it's why I didn't want to tell her I like her too cause the truth is I don't even know her, she just constantly checks up on me and stuff and the convos don't last more than a few minutes so it feels sorta one sided and I talk a lot, you know that so she got to know me but I can't say the same about her, I'll consider what you said tho, depending on where things leave off