Is it normal to feel as if I was born in the wrong year?

[Anonymous]

I just feel like writing a novel or book about how I was born (1987) in the wrong year. Sometimes I feel as if I should've been born between 1950-1960. I feel like a character is trapped in the wrong time, wrong moment, wrong everything.

I feel things are getting worse over the years.

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I feel like I was born right in the year of the onset of love and nuclear family destruction.

[Berethor]

Born in the wrong century trope, yea feminism is destroying the nuclear family, like in Japan.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2022/06/03/japan-low-births-population-decline-2021/

[Asker]

I believe any organization done in extreme is toxic in the end. It has indeed destroyed the nuclear family and the original concept of commitment. I would like to set things back to normal if there was a way. I have a feeling that if I were to publically talk against it, I can get attacked by those radicals themselves.

[Berethor]

Yea it not easy to talk publicly against it, you likely be attacked by "progressives".

[DaveJord]

Yeah, right... tell me about it. I guess if boys and pretend to woman, woman cn pretend to be men, we can pretend to be time travels stuck in the wrong time. LOL

[Asker]

I'm in the wrong time. I wonder what the hell I'm doing at a time where nowadays the nuclear family lifestyle if practically extinct (only my parents and older relatives are the last remaining breeds in my family), hooking-up and cohabitation took over, more people prefer tiktok for likes than doing important manners, more gender wars, FB is also just for likes and popularity, etc.

[Asker]

No order of things, no concept of how a decent person should be like, more people interested in how to be players, playing chess with each other, etc.

[Asker]

boys pretending to be women and women pretending to be men is already a total destruction of things

[DaveJord]

I miss the 1980s... but it all seemed to go south when the millennials took over.

[Asker]

yeah pretty much. It would've been better if I had been born in mid 60's at least. That way, I would've already had kids by the early 1980's and have the lifestyle I wanted, the old ways.

[midnightmoon05]

We feel that way from time to time. But we can make the changes we want.

[leahzrc]

God decided you were meant to be born when you were born

[DaveJord]

Sure he did.

[mommymommymommy]

It's uncommon, but it's not weird

[Asker]

The thing is I have the old concept of what real commitment and love should be like. I believe in working things out till the very end but I'm the dying, unselected lone breed. If I get the feeling that if I would've been born at the time (back then when things were organized, had a purpose and the nuclear family was more common), my life would've been for the better.

[mommymommymommy]

If that's how you feel

I personally don't want kids, or marriage. The girl I like and likes me back, is the same

[Asker]

You said it, you personally. Meanwhile I would feel incomplete just dating. I actually like the nuclear family style.

[mommymommymommy]

That's you though. But to force it on EVERYONE, is wrong, like republicucks are trying to do

[Asker]

I thought it was the other way around. There were a couple people online that tried to convince how cohabitation is the new norm and I should adapt to changes. They sounded more pushy than me to be honest.

[mommymommymommy]

Nope, def. republicucks. They're also forcing pro life on people. And likely plan to put a national wide abortion ban, if they regain power. I GUARANTEE IT

[art84]

I wish I was born in the 70's.

[In_Trance]

You weren't

[Asker]

Why? I don't believe in random hook-ups and never done that, some of my ideas belonged to that era (a couple of my family members even think I'm old-fashioned for my year) and things were better back then.

[midnightmoon05]

You have the power to create the life you want. Don’t let society control you.